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re: The “never-stopping” lifestyle

Posted on 8/6/19 at 4:13 pm to
Posted by SG_Geaux
Beautiful St George, LA
Member since Aug 2004
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Posted on 8/6/19 at 4:13 pm to
Welcome to life OP
Posted by jchamil
Member since Nov 2009
18721 posts
Posted on 8/6/19 at 4:16 pm to
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People want their personal time back


I feel like you wouldn't have to go that far back in time to where the vast majority of the world would have no idea what the meaning of "personal time" was
Posted by yellowfin
Coastal Bar
Member since May 2006
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Posted on 8/6/19 at 4:19 pm to
You’re doing life wrong but some people are just built to be worker bees
Posted by JohnnyKilroy
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Member since Oct 2012
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Posted on 8/6/19 at 7:57 pm to
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I feel like you wouldn't have to go that far back in time to where the vast majority of the world would have no idea what the meaning of "personal time" was


You wouldn't, but that's progress for you. Time to keep moving forward on that. Americans are more productive than ever. Time to bring those working hours down. As I said before, you could lop 10 hours a week off of the majority of the US workforce tomorrow and productivity would likely be unaffected.


In the same vein, since 1979 American productivity has increase 600% versus wages. From 1948 to around 1972 or so, wages and productivity were very closely related. From 1973 to 2018 productivity has skyrocketed while wages have risen marginally.

This post was edited on 8/6/19 at 8:08 pm
Posted by hottub
Member since Dec 2012
3651 posts
Posted on 8/6/19 at 8:06 pm to
30-35 were difficult years for me. 4 kids, wife, left active duty, started a “real” job, and all the while I felt like I was a kid playing adult. I was very indecisive on some things because I now had 5 mouths to feed, shelter, etc. I am 35 now and finally getting to a point where I am confident in my decisions as an adult.

You are in normal place and there is some great advice in here. Biggest lessons I have learned is that you can’t plan for everything and you can’t take it with you. Your kid is only young once. Enjoy those precious years and yeah you may have to retire will a little less money but you would have enjoyed your kid.
Posted by Ricardo
Member since Sep 2016
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Posted on 8/6/19 at 8:09 pm to
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This post was edited on 6/14/20 at 10:56 pm
Posted by FightinTigersDammit
Louisiana North
Member since Mar 2006
45867 posts
Posted on 8/6/19 at 8:09 pm to
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He has a sex doll and a couple kittens.


Wait, I thought that was Owlfan.
Posted by A1A
Space Coast
Member since Sep 2015
2417 posts
Posted on 8/6/19 at 8:54 pm to
Whole post sounds kinda whiny to me honestly. If your job is taking that much out of you then you probably don’t have the aptitude for the work.

Try doing all of that and NOT being by family to ever have anyone watch the kids for a date night or so you don’t have to take off of work every time they get sick and get back with me.
Posted by baybeefeetz
Member since Sep 2009
32564 posts
Posted on 8/6/19 at 8:55 pm to
Motherfuxker, you get to play golf? Boo this man.
Posted by Big_Slim
Mogadishu
Member since Apr 2016
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Posted on 8/6/19 at 9:00 pm to
Quality post OP Love threads like these even if they do scare the shite out of me since these issues really don’t get talked about much in the day to day. Makes me realize how much I need to cherish all the free time I have now since like someone else said, life comes at you fast.

I don’t think enough people take the necessary time to really plan for what they want in life. I guess the hardest part of that process is just knowing what you want in the first place. Sounds like you’ll be fine though dude, you’re not 80 for gods sake so if there’s a change you want to make, just say frick it and go make it. You still got a shite load of time in front of you.
Posted by JohnnyKilroy
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Member since Oct 2012
40111 posts
Posted on 8/6/19 at 9:22 pm to
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I don’t think enough people take the necessary time to really plan for what they want in life.


Probably where I'm at.

I have my endgame set and we're well on our way to fulfilling that. Problem is I don't really have much planned between now and then . Given historical statistics and averages etc, staying the course for the next 30 years leads me to retiring "early" with more than enough to enjoy my remaining 30-40 years on earth.

So I got my plan for that. For some reason though "stay the course" doesn't feel like a fleshed out 5/10/15 year plan.
Posted by makersmark1
earth
Member since Oct 2011
20107 posts
Posted on 8/6/19 at 9:32 pm to
Quit working at home.

It will be there tomorrow.

Posted by wasteland
City of peace
Member since Apr 2011
5913 posts
Posted on 8/6/19 at 9:37 pm to
This...

quote:

I like my job as much as someone can like a job,


Is not...

quote:

I’m basically just a cog in the machinery endlessly spinning to keep things working, my mental health, personal interests/goals, and relaxation be damned?


Posted by Ric Flair
Charlotte
Member since Oct 2005
13867 posts
Posted on 8/6/19 at 9:42 pm to
I would be happy that your one kid is healthy.

A lot of people with kids with autism/other ailments will “work late” for an hour to avoid dealing with the reality of their lives.
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
129146 posts
Posted on 8/6/19 at 9:45 pm to
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I would be happy that your one kid is healthy.



Or that he had a child to begin with.

I have plenty of free time for myself...but the trade off is that I likely will now never be a parent.

Grass isn't always greener on the other side
This post was edited on 8/6/19 at 9:46 pm
Posted by swift
Member since Jul 2019
632 posts
Posted on 8/6/19 at 9:48 pm to
26 year old pencil pusher for H&R Block, short fat and single, living in an apartment with a roommate.

And he talks down to everyone.

Posted by Sun God
Member since Jul 2009
49534 posts
Posted on 8/6/19 at 9:48 pm to
I’m with you. I’m set when I’m retired. Just gotta figure out what to do these next ~30 years
Posted by Lou Pai
Member since Dec 2014
29433 posts
Posted on 8/6/19 at 10:33 pm to
Lol at thinking 40 hours is a lot
Posted by Sanfordhog
Tennessee
Member since Jan 2016
479 posts
Posted on 8/6/19 at 10:45 pm to
Earn more money so your wife doesn’t have to work.
Posted by JohnnyKilroy
Cajun Navy Vice Admiral
Member since Oct 2012
40111 posts
Posted on 8/7/19 at 6:47 am to
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Lol at thinking 40 hours is a lot


Lol at being unable to comprehend the point.
This post was edited on 8/7/19 at 6:51 am
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