re: The Chinese have a.message for women over 27.

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DollaChoppa

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damn dolla you all serious and junk.

ok i wont quote the entirety again (people can read it above) but the gist is:

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I feel like this would be a really selfish lifestyle and one that could cause your friends to alienate you. And therefore possibly a lonely one.

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1. How many friends do you have that got married in their 20s are still happily married?

2. How many are divorced now or *WISH* they were divorced (constant bitching about their wife)?

3. How many college-age women exist that do *NOT* have an Oprah-fueled, liberal-college-professored-view of their own vulnerabilities that are directly..or indirectly..projected onto whatever poor sucker is dumb enough to marry them?

4. How many of your 'friends that have kids and family obligations' are currently (or about to) go through complete DIVORCE HELL which will destroy them emotionally, physically, financially..and probably destroy their kids in the process?

So I therefore submit, the FAR more selfish lifestyle is the 23 year old man who marries his 21 year old college 'sweetheart' only to discover 7-10 years later she resents him because she thinks he "blew" her chance to marry her Oprah-tinted Prince Charming Metrosexual Touchy Feely Man?

The 40 year old man has his shite on lock and at 28 its more likely a woman he meets and marries will have a much more realistic expectation on a life with a man who likes to watch football, fart & tinker on cars.


And on a totally selfish note, a hot 28yo is a much better indicator of how she will look at 40 than a 21yo.