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Tell boss I'm interviewing?

Posted on 5/19/15 at 12:24 pm
Posted by TDsngumbo
Alpha Silverfox
Member since Oct 2011
41623 posts
Posted on 5/19/15 at 12:24 pm
It's possible I will be getting another job soon and I'm not sure if I should tell the boss that I've been interviewing or not. My sources tell me I'm almost a lock for the position.

I've been at my current place of employment for 5 years and I've heard from coworkers who've been here much longer than I have that he doesn't like at all to lose someone and not even see it coming beforehand. Apparently he doesn't make for a positive reference if he's taken by surprise.

Should I let him know, and risk ruining my standing with him should I not get the offer or just keep to myself unless I do get the offer and accept it?
Posted by MeridianDog
Home on the range
Member since Nov 2010
14201 posts
Posted on 5/19/15 at 12:26 pm to
No

Do not tell


Never
Posted by SG_Geaux
Beautiful St George
Member since Aug 2004
77985 posts
Posted on 5/19/15 at 12:26 pm to
Look out for yourself. I would never tell the company I work for that I am out interviewing.
Posted by efrad
Member since Nov 2007
18645 posts
Posted on 5/19/15 at 12:26 pm to
quote:

No

Do not tell


Never
Posted by GarmischTiger
Humboldt County
Member since Mar 2007
6609 posts
Posted on 5/19/15 at 12:26 pm to
Let him know once you're a finalist for the position and he'll be contacted as a reference. Not anytime before this.
Posted by DeathValley85
Member since May 2011
17176 posts
Posted on 5/19/15 at 12:26 pm to
Why the hell would you tell him?

You tell them when you've ACCEPTED another job and are leaving.
Posted by RebelOP
Misty Mountain Top
Member since Jun 2013
12478 posts
Posted on 5/19/15 at 12:26 pm to
quote:

No

Do not tell


Never
Ever
Posted by Wally Sparks
Atlanta
Member since Feb 2013
29173 posts
Posted on 5/19/15 at 12:26 pm to
Keep your mouth shut.
Posted by BullGatorIvan
Florida
Member since Jan 2013
20 posts
Posted on 5/19/15 at 12:26 pm to
frick no
Posted by TDsngumbo
Alpha Silverfox
Member since Oct 2011
41623 posts
Posted on 5/19/15 at 12:28 pm to
I'm in agreement with all of you. I don't think I should say anything. In away, I think my boss likes to know this stuff so he can intentionally play mind games with the individual to try to get them to stay.
Posted by 777Tiger
Member since Mar 2011
73856 posts
Posted on 5/19/15 at 12:29 pm to
quote:

Should I let him know, and risk ruining my standing with him should I not get the offer or just keep to myself unless I do get the offer and accept it?

tell him when you give your notice, don't know why an employer would be butthurt over you trying to improve your position, he has the opportunity to beat your new offer, is he willing to guarantee you lifelong security?
Posted by BullGatorIvan
Florida
Member since Jan 2013
20 posts
Posted on 5/19/15 at 12:29 pm to
Another tip.

Never outshine the master.

"Always make those above you feel comfortably superior. In your desire to please or impress them, do not go too far in displaying your talents or you might accomplish the opposite – inspire fear and insecurity. Make your masters appear more brilliant than they are and you will attain the heights of power." RG
Posted by lsu480
Downtown Scottsdale
Member since Oct 2007
92876 posts
Posted on 5/19/15 at 12:29 pm to
If you have to ask you probably aren't close enough to tell him. That being said, I would make sure you give them plenty of time to find a replacement. Tell the new job you can't leave the old one hanging and need to give them the option of keeping you for 4-6 weeks so they can find and train a replacement, they will respect you for it and you won't burn bridges at your current job. Odds are they won't need you that long but its the right thing to do after 5 years.
Posted by goldennugget
Hating Masks
Member since Jul 2013
24514 posts
Posted on 5/19/15 at 12:30 pm to
I am in the same boat

About to do a 3rd interview in a few days

Haven't said shite
Posted by Bluefin
The Banana Stand
Member since Apr 2011
13259 posts
Posted on 5/19/15 at 12:30 pm to
Posted by Ghostfacedistiller
BR
Member since Jun 2008
17500 posts
Posted on 5/19/15 at 12:30 pm to
It all depends to an extent on the situation.

But, no, as a rule of thumb I would not alert my boss I am looking to leave and interviewing because sometimes when that seed is planted you're finished.
Posted by AndyCBR
Baton Rouge, LA
Member since Nov 2012
7548 posts
Posted on 5/19/15 at 12:31 pm to
No, an interview is not a job offer.

/thread
Posted by lsu480
Downtown Scottsdale
Member since Oct 2007
92876 posts
Posted on 5/19/15 at 12:32 pm to
quote:

"Always make those above you feel comfortably superior. In your desire to please or impress them, do not go too far in displaying your talents or you might accomplish the opposite – inspire fear and insecurity. Make your masters appear more brilliant than they are and you will attain the heights of power." RG


"To be the man you gotta beat the man" RF
Posted by LucasP
Member since Apr 2012
21618 posts
Posted on 5/19/15 at 12:32 pm to
So this board is just for people to figure out how to approach simple situations in life now right?
Posted by TDsngumbo
Alpha Silverfox
Member since Oct 2011
41623 posts
Posted on 5/19/15 at 12:32 pm to
quote:

he has the opportunity to beat your new offer, is he willing to guarantee you lifelong security?

Unless he can almost triple my current salary, he can't beat what this new position would offer me. I work for a small company so I dont think that's possible.
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