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Technology and communication

Posted on 2/13/18 at 1:10 pm
Posted by NewBootGoofin
Baton Rouge, LA
Member since Aug 2017
102 posts
Posted on 2/13/18 at 1:10 pm
I've always wondered what other people thought about this...

Are kids these days being conditioned to be better or worse communicators because of technology? Though there is probably less face to face interaction, communication itself (by whatever means) is so much more prevalent.

Maybe it's just me, but I've always felt like I pay more attention to whatever social cues are hidden in the wording of a text than in an equally long face to face conversation.

Thoughts?
Posted by jdeval1
Member since Dec 2009
7525 posts
Posted on 2/13/18 at 1:11 pm to
quote:

worse communicators because of technology
Posted by HempHead
Big Sky Country
Member since Mar 2011
56774 posts
Posted on 2/13/18 at 1:11 pm to
quote:

I pay more attention to whatever social cues are hidden in the wording of a text than in an equally long face to face conversation.


How the frick?
Posted by NewBootGoofin
Baton Rouge, LA
Member since Aug 2017
102 posts
Posted on 2/13/18 at 1:12 pm to
My b, didn't read the super similar thread that was recently started on this.



Roast me into oblivion
Posted by LSU fan 246
Member since Oct 2005
90567 posts
Posted on 2/13/18 at 1:12 pm to
It's ruined face to face

Used to take balls to go talk to a girl. Now you just download a frick app and meet up and get drunk enough to make a bad decision
Posted by SteveLSU35
Shreveport
Member since Mar 2004
15104 posts
Posted on 2/13/18 at 1:12 pm to
They are fine once you remove the technology. At first they're really quiet and nervous. Soon, they're sitting in circles laughing and being kids.
Posted by Rouge
Floston Paradise
Member since Oct 2004
138858 posts
Posted on 2/13/18 at 1:12 pm to
quote:

Used to take balls to go talk to a girl. Now you just download a frick app and meet up and get drunk enough to make a bad decision


is this a complaint, Gramps?
Posted by jefforize
Member since Feb 2008
46363 posts
Posted on 2/13/18 at 1:13 pm to
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Maybe it's just me, but I've always felt like I pay more attention to whatever social cues are hidden in the wording of a text than in an equally long face to face conversation.


this seems backwards. there are a lot more "social cues" in body language.
Posted by NewBootGoofin
Baton Rouge, LA
Member since Aug 2017
102 posts
Posted on 2/13/18 at 1:14 pm to
I'm saying that as I'm writing out a text or an email, I'm actively thinking about how it will be perceived before I send it. When I'm having a normal conversation, you don't really think about how it will be perceived, it's just natural.

My thing is... does spending so much time typing things out (thus giving more time to consider how words and phrases will be received) help develop the ability to naturally say the right things in a face to face conversation?
Posted by LSU fan 246
Member since Oct 2005
90567 posts
Posted on 2/13/18 at 1:15 pm to
Hell yea. It takes away my advantage of actually being able to talk to women


Yea yea
Posted by Rouge
Floston Paradise
Member since Oct 2004
138858 posts
Posted on 2/13/18 at 1:16 pm to
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actually being able to talk to women
ain't nobody got time for that
Posted by jefforize
Member since Feb 2008
46363 posts
Posted on 2/13/18 at 1:16 pm to
conversely, you potentially become unable to "think on the fly" and hold a conversation in person, because you are so used to spending minutes formulating a response.
Posted by Wtodd
Tampa, FL
Member since Oct 2013
68609 posts
Posted on 2/13/18 at 1:17 pm to
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worse communicators because of technology

X infinity
Posted by LSU fan 246
Member since Oct 2005
90567 posts
Posted on 2/13/18 at 1:18 pm to
That is actually a very good point.

I took a business writing class years ago and it really opened up my eyes to this. Taught how to word your message to get what you want without being pushy or demanding. I noticed it translates perfectly to face to face convos
Posted by TigerinATL
Member since Feb 2005
62446 posts
Posted on 2/13/18 at 1:37 pm to
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I've always felt like I pay more attention to whatever social cues are hidden in the wording of a text than in an equally long face to face conversation.


Translation, the Internet has taught you to be paranoid so you look for subtle passive aggressive digs in every text even if it's not there. Well bless your heart.
Posted by vodkacop
Louisiana
Member since Nov 2008
8050 posts
Posted on 2/13/18 at 2:50 pm to
I say their people skills are getting worse.
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