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re: Spinoff: once a cheater, always a cheater?
Posted on 10/28/15 at 11:33 am to forever lsu30
Posted on 10/28/15 at 11:33 am to forever lsu30
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it's like looking in mirror.
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Posted on 10/28/15 at 11:34 am to LSUvegasbombed
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Spinoff: once a cheater, always a cheater?
Maybe, maybe not but, for me, if they cheat they're gone because I won't ever trust them again.
Posted on 10/28/15 at 11:34 am to LSUvegasbombed
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Spinoff: once a cheater, always a cheater?
I would like to believe that this saying is NOT true
It's not true.
There are so many factors that may lead someone to cheat on their spouse. One's SO might be neglectful, mentally or physically abusive, or any number of things that would drive them to seek love elsewhere.
Or they could just be a bad person, and sociopathic.
Posted on 10/28/15 at 11:36 am to Walking the Earth
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Probably. And it's always easier the second time.
I agree with this. I know someone who got a divorce for cheating on his spouse. When I asked him about how he lived with himself, or if he felt guilt, he responded "I'm way past that."
Posted on 10/28/15 at 11:36 am to LSUvegasbombed
Not true. When I was younger, I was a dumbass and did not respect others enough to fulfill my obligations in certain relationships. I've gotten older, found the right woman, yada yada yada.....bottom line is that I look nothing like that person anymore. People can change
Posted on 10/28/15 at 11:38 am to Royal
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quote: Probably. And it's always easier the second time.
The only hard time is the first time. After that it's always the "last time."
Posted on 10/28/15 at 11:38 am to LSUvegasbombed
[Insert cynical snide comment about leopard and spots]
Posted on 10/28/15 at 11:38 am to LSUvegasbombed
depends on the circumstances
Someone who has a full fledged affair I'd say they are likely to do it again. A one time drunk frick up, I think less likely.
Someone who has a full fledged affair I'd say they are likely to do it again. A one time drunk frick up, I think less likely.
Posted on 10/28/15 at 11:42 am to LSUvegasbombed
Nah, I cheated on an ex for maybe 6 months every day or two, and just didn't realize how much it hurt her when I ended up telling her. Would not do it again
Eta: I dated that ex for 3 years before I started nailing the side piece
Eta: I dated that ex for 3 years before I started nailing the side piece
This post was edited on 10/28/15 at 11:46 am
Posted on 10/28/15 at 11:43 am to LSUvegasbombed
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once a cheater, always a cheater?
Well, yeah. You can't un-ring a bell.
Posted on 10/28/15 at 11:47 am to CadesCove
I have no comment at this time.
Posted on 10/28/15 at 11:48 am to LSUvegasbombed
I don't think it's true. If you cheat once, that means you have the morality and personality to have committed a heinously selfish act. If you are ever able to grasp how much hurt and insecurity you've inflicted on everyone else involved, then you might be capable of having a personality change. To change, you'd have to be actively seeking a change; you aren't likely to change naturally.
Posted on 10/28/15 at 11:49 am to Kajungee
Virtually all great men throughout history have had side action. Monogamy is so freaking beta.
Posted on 10/28/15 at 11:50 am to LumberghLSU
Nah, lots of people regret it and don't do it again. It gets easier with every time though.
Posted on 10/28/15 at 11:52 am to LSUvegasbombed
Men, no.
Women, yes.
We'll always have the urge but can grow out of it. Women who cheat are 'bout that life.
Women, yes.
We'll always have the urge but can grow out of it. Women who cheat are 'bout that life.
Posted on 10/28/15 at 11:53 am to LSUvegasbombed
once you've tasted forbidden fruit.
Posted on 10/28/15 at 11:54 am to LSUvegasbombed
While I do believe that the best indicator of future behavior is past behavior that is not written in stone.
People change, grow, and become more mature.
The key is to recognize the mistakes you made in the past and do the things to avoid making them again.
People change, grow, and become more mature.
The key is to recognize the mistakes you made in the past and do the things to avoid making them again.
Posted on 10/28/15 at 11:55 am to Navytiger74
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We'll always have the urge but can grow out of it. Women who cheat are 'bout that life.
I would be especially cautious with women who require vaginal penetration to orgasms. Seems they are the most insatiable. Especially if you are LWC/LAC.
Posted on 10/28/15 at 11:55 am to LSUvegasbombed
I think people can change if they really wanted to.
That being said, if I had been dating a guy and he admitted to me he has cheated on other girls before me, I'm automatically not gonna trust him as much and I doubt the relationship would last because of it.
That being said, if I had been dating a guy and he admitted to me he has cheated on other girls before me, I'm automatically not gonna trust him as much and I doubt the relationship would last because of it.
Posted on 10/28/15 at 11:56 am to LSUvegasbombed
I mean I'm not dating a known cheater. Trust issues for days.
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