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re: Since the average age for first marriage is now 29 for men & 28 for women

Posted on 2/18/24 at 8:50 pm to
Posted by madamtiger
Colorado
Member since Jan 2004
1628 posts
Posted on 2/18/24 at 8:50 pm to
Can we please start talking about the MEN in this situation?

I just sit back and read these threads but I really want to chime in now. Why are we not talking about the men in their 20s that just want to frick and party? It’s a two way street.

My daughter is in her junior year of college. She is not into partying or feminism. Just puts her head down and works and goes to class. She is a college cheerleader and very athletic to boot. She is a cute girl but is not one of these vapid social media chicks and the guys DON’T WANT girls like her in their twenties! She does not date because in her words, “guys like the drunk girls who will sleep with them.” That is not her but I feel like her…and girls like her get shite on because they are holding out for a quality man. They are few and hard to find in your early/mid twenties. I told her to focus on taking care of herself and the right man will come. You guys don’t realize how many like her are out there. And it’s disheartening as a mother, to read these threads trashing women as a whole. Men are just as bad or it worse in their 20s.

But man, these threads are so anti-woman. I will never advise her to settle down with a low quality man just to be able to pump out kids for the next generation. Better put the blame on late marriage and low births just as much on shite men in their twenties just as well as the women. They are just as into money and sluts and social media. They need to step it up as well.
This post was edited on 2/18/24 at 8:52 pm
Posted by HippieTiger
Boulder, CO
Member since Oct 2015
2151 posts
Posted on 2/18/24 at 8:55 pm to
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Imagine being the man to throw a hotdog down that hallway

Your insecurity is showing
Posted by fallguy_1978
Best States #50
Member since Feb 2018
53115 posts
Posted on 2/18/24 at 8:56 pm to
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And it’s disheartening as a mother, to read these threads trashing women as a whole. Men are just as bad of it worse in their 20s.

I'm a father of 2 girls. I'm not bashing young women, just participating in the discussion. I'm sure your daughter will be fine if she can find a suitable guy. I'd prefer mine to not be the bar fly/party girls as well.
Posted by Air Force One
Member since Dec 2023
47 posts
Posted on 2/18/24 at 8:56 pm to
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Can we please start talking about the MEN in this situation?

I just sit back and read these threads but I really want to chime in now. Why are we not talking about the men in their 20s that just want to frick and party? It’s a two way street.


This is what you don't understand.
Women's fertility and value as a woman ends at 30, 35 at the latest.
A man can reproduce basically for life.
Therefore a man can get married and have children any time he wants, but a woman expires at 30, or 35 if you want less healthy eggs and higher risk of abnormalities.

It is what it is.
Posted by fallguy_1978
Best States #50
Member since Feb 2018
53115 posts
Posted on 2/18/24 at 8:59 pm to
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A man can reproduce basically for life.
Therefore a man can get married and have children any time he wants, but a woman expires at 30, or 35 if

Yeah maybe Jeff Bezos or Dicaprio can. 99% of us won't be able to. Most young women don't want a 50 year old dude when they can just as easily get a 30 yr old guy.
Posted by madamtiger
Colorado
Member since Jan 2004
1628 posts
Posted on 2/18/24 at 9:01 pm to
So what do you suggest? Happy marriages produce happy children and that’s what we should all encourage. Seems to me like men realize this later than the ideal fertility time for women. Sorry but I don’t want women like her to settle. Men need to step up their priorities just as much as women. She doesn’t owe this world a shitty marriage just to produce more people.
Posted by madamtiger
Colorado
Member since Jan 2004
1628 posts
Posted on 2/18/24 at 9:03 pm to
Not directed at you, just wanting to participate too…and getting a little bothered.
Posted by Scuttle But
Member since Nov 2023
1301 posts
Posted on 2/18/24 at 9:06 pm to
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Why are we not talking about the men in their 20s that just want to frick and party?


Cause yall spread your legs so easy. Why buy the cow when you can have the milk for free.
This post was edited on 2/18/24 at 9:09 pm
Posted by Air Force One
Member since Dec 2023
47 posts
Posted on 2/18/24 at 9:08 pm to
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So what do you suggest? Happy marriages produce happy children and that’s what we should all encourage. Seems to me like men realize this later than the ideal fertility time for women. Sorry but I don’t want women like her to settle. Men need to step up their priorities just as much as women. She doesn’t owe this world a shitty marriage just to produce more people.


Good Grief Lady.

This is why 25 year old women should be marrying 35-40 year old men.
She is still fertile and beautiful , he is more financially stable and is fertile for life.
Women are stupid for waiting until they are 30 to start looking for a husband.
By then they are out of healthy eggs and have a body count that makes them undesirable to men.
Men only want to marry young women that haven't been the town bicycle & are chock full of healthy eggs.
Also helps if they know how to cook like real women from the past.

This post was edited on 2/18/24 at 9:13 pm
Posted by fallguy_1978
Best States #50
Member since Feb 2018
53115 posts
Posted on 2/18/24 at 9:08 pm to
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Not directed at you, just wanting to participate too…and getting a little bothered.

I just hope my kids ends up with someone who loves them and takes care of them. If that results in children, great. I'd love to be a grandfather someday. I believe there are still plenty of normal, regular people out there
Posted by fallguy_1978
Best States #50
Member since Feb 2018
53115 posts
Posted on 2/18/24 at 9:11 pm to
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This is why 25 year old women should be marrying 35-40 year old men.

To each their own but I don't want to be almost 60 with a kid in high school.
Posted by madamtiger
Colorado
Member since Jan 2004
1628 posts
Posted on 2/18/24 at 9:12 pm to
Maybe y’all shove your dicks in anything that moves. But let’s not talk about that….
It’s okay for a man to frick around. Loooove this line of thinking.
This post was edited on 2/18/24 at 9:14 pm
Posted by Scuttle But
Member since Nov 2023
1301 posts
Posted on 2/18/24 at 9:13 pm to
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Maybe y’all shove your dicks in anything that moves. But let’s not talk about that….
It’s okay for a man to frick around. Loooove this line of thinking. Never your fault. ??



There ya go. You're catching on quick.
Posted by madamtiger
Colorado
Member since Jan 2004
1628 posts
Posted on 2/18/24 at 9:14 pm to
Sorry, no. Make men grow up.
This post was edited on 2/18/24 at 9:16 pm
Posted by samson73103
Krypton
Member since Nov 2008
9073 posts
Posted on 2/18/24 at 9:14 pm to
Women in their 40's have a high sex drive. Your source is full of shite.
Posted by Air Force One
Member since Dec 2023
47 posts
Posted on 2/18/24 at 9:16 pm to
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Maybe y’all shove your dicks in anything that moves. But let’s not talk about that….
It’s okay for a man to frick around. Loooove this line of thinking.


You're confusing women that men are willing to bang vs women that men are willing to marry.
No guy wants to wife up a slut.
Posted by madamtiger
Colorado
Member since Jan 2004
1628 posts
Posted on 2/18/24 at 9:16 pm to
Me too! Here’s hoping!
Posted by madamtiger
Colorado
Member since Jan 2004
1628 posts
Posted on 2/18/24 at 9:17 pm to
If nothing else, you’re entertaining….
This post was edited on 2/18/24 at 9:18 pm
Posted by GreenRockTiger
vortex to the whirlpool of despair
Member since Jun 2020
58775 posts
Posted on 2/18/24 at 9:17 pm to
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42-47...that you personally know. bullshite
it’s not bullshite - two of the women I know had their first children at 42. One of the women I know had her first child at 44. The other ones I know had other children already. The women I know who are religious and have plenty of children are having children that late. My grandmother had her 9th child when she was 42. Not sure why you think that is bullshite.
Posted by madamtiger
Colorado
Member since Jan 2004
1628 posts
Posted on 2/18/24 at 9:19 pm to
Yep, I’m older now and it’s better now than ever!
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