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re: Should I be ashamed?
Posted on 6/29/14 at 8:09 pm to N2cars
Posted on 6/29/14 at 8:09 pm to N2cars
In the OP's defense, I will say that after "4-5 months", you don't really need to have the talk 98% of the time.
The situation: either formally dating or just friends with benefits is pretty well established by then.
The situation: either formally dating or just friends with benefits is pretty well established by then.
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Posted on 6/29/14 at 8:09 pm to UncleLester
quote:
I had been dating this girl for 4-5 months. Although, we were never officially exclusive - I was loyal and made her a top priority but was never overbearing or pushed the issue on if we were exclusive.
4-5 months seems like a long time to go without having the "exclusive" talk, unless y'all went into it under a FWB arrangement.
Posted on 6/29/14 at 8:09 pm to BAMAisDIESEL09
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After 4 or 5 months you either want to be in a relationship or just friends with benefits
As adults, you don't always have to spell it out. Sounds like they were more than just friends with benefits. It goes unsaid that it should be monogamous if you see any future.
She obv feels different. She's not relationship material
Posted on 6/29/14 at 8:12 pm to Lester Earl
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Canceled plans to frick some other guy
I can almost forgive that since OP seems kinda undecided.
What I can't get past is that she bangs new guy knowing that all three would be together Sunday.
I'd send her a black rose and call it a day.
Posted on 6/29/14 at 8:12 pm to 4LSU2
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you should've told her to eat a bowl of dicks and proceed to frick each and every one of her friends.
This is what I woulda done. And her sister/sisters.
Posted on 6/29/14 at 8:13 pm to UncleLester
If you had blown up at her everyone here would be calling you a possessive a-hole. No real good way to handle it and what you did is certainly not the worst you could have done. In the end it doesn't matter anyway because it wasn't a real S/O.
Posted on 6/29/14 at 8:14 pm to Lester Earl
Yes you do. A relationship consists of two people and the commitment needs to be clearly established otherwise the situation described in the OP is bound to happen especially in A college environment.
This post was edited on 6/29/14 at 8:15 pm
Posted on 6/29/14 at 8:14 pm to Walking the Earth
Agreed, but I was giving her the benefit of the doubt.
IDK the frequency that he saw her, etc.
Generally, everyone is on the same page by then.
IDK the frequency that he saw her, etc.
Generally, everyone is on the same page by then.
Posted on 6/29/14 at 8:14 pm to BAMAisDIESEL09
I had told her how I felt after 3 months in and got the "well, let's just see how things go". So, I had previously put my intentions out there.
After seeing the car in the driveway, I had no reason to want to repair anything. That's why I backed away last night and didn't text or call her on Friday night. Nothing to repair.
No reason to read her texts right now because I don't want to respond and give her any attention.
I'll just have to re-install Tinder.
After seeing the car in the driveway, I had no reason to want to repair anything. That's why I backed away last night and didn't text or call her on Friday night. Nothing to repair.
No reason to read her texts right now because I don't want to respond and give her any attention.
I'll just have to re-install Tinder.
Posted on 6/29/14 at 8:15 pm to UncleLester
Wow. She a ho then don't waste your time cuzz.
Posted on 6/29/14 at 8:15 pm to UncleLester
quote:This was your sign to bounce. I'd avoid her unless she calls you for a quick lay. Don't invest yourself in this girl
I had told her how I felt after 3 months in and got the "well, let's just see how things go"
quote:You can read and not respond
No reason to read her texts right now because I don't want to respond and give her any attention.
Posted on 6/29/14 at 8:15 pm to UncleLester
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I'll just have to re-install Tinder.
Well, at least there's hope that you'll see her again.
Posted on 6/29/14 at 8:16 pm to UncleLester
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I'll just have to re-install Tinder.
Good call. She moved on, you may as well move on also. Good luck.
Posted on 6/29/14 at 8:16 pm to UncleLester
That changes things.
Consider yourself lucky.
Save her for a booty call.
Consider yourself lucky.
Save her for a booty call.
Posted on 6/29/14 at 8:17 pm to UncleLester
Yeah. Go on a Tinder Bender and spray some guts baw
Posted on 6/29/14 at 8:18 pm to IonaTiger
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I'll just have to re-install Tinder.
quote:
Well, at least there's hope that you'll see her again.
I up-voted.
Posted on 6/29/14 at 8:18 pm to IonaTiger
Sound advice, counselor.
Posted on 6/29/14 at 8:18 pm to BAMAisDIESEL09
quote:
Yes you do. A relationship consists of two people and the commitment needs to be clearly established otherwise the situation described in the OP is bound to happen especially I. A college environment
Actions speak louder than words. I don't know all the details but it's not always needed to spell out the commitment levels. He's not a 13yr old
This post was edited on 6/29/14 at 8:20 pm
Posted on 6/29/14 at 8:18 pm to UncleLester
Read the texts and post them here so we can help you in the future.
Posted on 6/29/14 at 8:19 pm to UncleLester
Find one of her friends on tinder and frick her ASAP.
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