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re: Scenario: Bullied as a kid. FF to present day

Posted on 8/30/16 at 5:53 pm to
Posted by Hot Carl
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Posted on 8/30/16 at 5:53 pm to
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Definitely not physco. Confront his arse and let him know how much better you are than him. Honestly, you might find out that he lives a sad and pathetic life compared to you, which might be the best validation. Then slit his throat and skin him from head to toe and wear his skin like a onesie.


That escalated quickly.


And I'm not sure what the proper word for it is, but it's certainly understandable for a kid to carry that trauma with him if it was that significant. I'd think the urge to do it would not only be understandable, but likely healthy. If seeing him didn't evoke some deep, caveman, violent urge, then you are likely more fricked up than you realize. Acting on the urge though, would obviously not be healthy. But I wouldn't judge you if you did.
Posted by ThuperThumpin
Member since Dec 2013
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Posted on 8/30/16 at 5:54 pm to
Just make sure you can actually cave his face in. He may still be able to kick your arse even if you are bigger. That would not help your confidence. Maybe you should just let it go.
Posted by Hawkeye95
Member since Dec 2013
20293 posts
Posted on 8/30/16 at 5:57 pm to
yikes.

I was bullied a lot as a middle schooler. I honestly wouldn't recognize the bullies. I know one ended up in prison, I have no idea if he is still there.

the best revenge for things like this is being successful in life, which generally doesn't involve beating the shite out of people.
This post was edited on 8/30/16 at 5:58 pm
Posted by Iron Lion
Sipsey
Member since Nov 2014
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Posted on 8/30/16 at 5:58 pm to
So your mindset is since you're bigger than him you can automatically kick his arse? You haven't been in or seen many fights have you?
Posted by Hawkeye95
Member since Dec 2013
20293 posts
Posted on 8/30/16 at 5:59 pm to
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f seeing him didn't evoke some deep, caveman, violent urge, then you are likely more fricked up than you realize.

or you have processed the trauma and let it go. its quite doable.
Posted by Hot Carl
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Posted on 8/30/16 at 6:03 pm to
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or you have processed the trauma and let it go.


Pussification of America

I assumed in this hypothetical the trauma was obviously not processed. However, make no mistake, I am talking completely out of my arse.
Posted by Hangit
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Member since Aug 2014
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Posted on 8/30/16 at 6:04 pm to
There is a bunch you still need to find out about him. Go ahead and post what info you have and the OT will fill in the rest for you.

You may want to confront him straight up, hit him from behind with a stick or just ruin his life. Once you post his info, you will know his whole story and what he values within 24 hours.
Posted by PairofDucks
Member since Jul 2016
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Posted on 8/30/16 at 6:06 pm to
Get help.
Posted by Hawkeye95
Member since Dec 2013
20293 posts
Posted on 8/30/16 at 6:08 pm to
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I assumed in this hypothetical the trauma was obviously not processed. However, make no mistake, I am talking completely out of my arse.



i was really bullied. I was probably the most bullied kid at school for grades 7-9. I honestly dont think anytime in the past 20 years I have given much thought to my individual attackers. Nor would I really want to beat them up if I were to see them.

Of course, I am pretty well off, have a great life and a hot wife.
Posted by Lsuchs
Member since Apr 2013
8073 posts
Posted on 8/30/16 at 6:12 pm to
Do you remember all the people you've wronged since 3rd grade?

If everyone was like "your hypothetical" it'd be best if no one lived in their hometown
Posted by biglego
San Francisco
Member since Nov 2007
80578 posts
Posted on 8/30/16 at 6:14 pm to
That's a bit of a long time to hold a grudge. Although I did a similar thing after about 6 years had passed. And it felt good.
Posted by slackster
Houston
Member since Mar 2009
90107 posts
Posted on 8/30/16 at 6:18 pm to
On a serious note, it's already past the point of being psychotic. You've found out where he works and you've apparently stalked him. Even entertaining the idea of confronting him suggests you need to see a professional.
Posted by BRgetthenet
Member since Oct 2011
118107 posts
Posted on 8/30/16 at 6:19 pm to


Ole man is getting ornery lately. He doesn't like anybody.
Posted by Jake88
Member since Apr 2005
75396 posts
Posted on 8/30/16 at 6:49 pm to
This explains both your avatar and your sig pic.
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