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re: RSVP Etiquette

Posted on 10/18/19 at 10:28 am to
Posted by ATLsuTiger
Johns Creek
Member since Aug 2009
5763 posts
Posted on 10/18/19 at 10:28 am to
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I sent a text to the guy who invited us to a party saying we were coming.


The standard RSVP system is outdated and stupid. It's about to be the year 2020. Incorporate an RSVP via text into a party planning application.
Posted by Geauxtiga
No man's land
Member since Jan 2008
34401 posts
Posted on 10/18/19 at 10:32 am to
I speak to my guests.
Posted by td1
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2015
3219 posts
Posted on 10/18/19 at 10:41 am to
Only required for a large event or one that costs the host per guest / venue that requires a head count. Unfortunately, today everyone puts RSVP on everything. That being said, if you are invited and the invite has and RSVP then RSVP (whether the host knows the proper way or not).
Posted by Fat and Happy
Baton Rouge
Member since Jan 2013
20247 posts
Posted on 10/18/19 at 10:42 am to
Plan on having food and drink for the amount you invite.

If you can’t or don’t want to cover that many people, don’t invite them
Posted by upgrayedd
Lifting at Tobin's house
Member since Mar 2013
139225 posts
Posted on 10/18/19 at 11:35 am to
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I am not talking about a backyard cookout

Me neither. I said backyard wrestling events.
Posted by gumbeaux
Member since Jun 2004
5488 posts
Posted on 10/18/19 at 11:36 am to
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The standard RSVP system is outdated and stupid. It's about to be the year 2020. Incorporate an RSVP via text into a party planning applicatio


Our invitation does not include a card to return. It includes a phone number to text or an email. So easy to RSVP.
Posted by danfraz
San Antonio TX
Member since Apr 2008
24550 posts
Posted on 10/18/19 at 11:39 am to
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It includes a phone number to text or an email.





Maybe people think standard text messaging rates apply?


Posted by ATLsuTiger
Johns Creek
Member since Aug 2009
5763 posts
Posted on 10/18/19 at 11:42 am to
Well that's much better!

I still think a text based system, to alert your guest, in conjunction with the mailed invite, would be best.

Then have the app help with planning/logistics. Maybe something that the wedding/event planner businesses can incorporate into their services.
Posted by danilo
Member since Nov 2008
26325 posts
Posted on 10/18/19 at 11:48 am to
I thought you only RSVP if you plan on going, guess that’s not the case. Did not know that
This post was edited on 10/18/19 at 11:49 am
Posted by gumbeaux
Member since Jun 2004
5488 posts
Posted on 10/18/19 at 11:52 am to
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RSVP Etiquette Well that's much better! I still think a text based system, to alert your guest, in conjunction with the mailed invite, would be best. Then have the app help with planning/logistics. Maybe something that the wedding/event planner businesses can incorporate into their services.


We only use invitations for larger and more formal occasions. We send a Save the Date email about 3 months before the event. Then we mail an invitation about 6 weeks before. The RSVP is requested no later than 10 days before with text and email info for the RSVP.

There is no excuse not to RSVP. We feel honored if someone’s thinks enough of us to include us. We RSVP in a timely manner and write it on the calendar if we are going. Courtesy is a dying trait.
Posted by gumbeaux
Member since Jun 2004
5488 posts
Posted on 10/18/19 at 11:58 am to
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I thought you only RSVP if you plan on going, guess that’s not the case. Did not know that


RSVP means to respond of your intentions....coming or not coming.

Some people use “Regrets Only” which means to only respond if you are not coming. I think that method will work less than the RSVP method.
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