re: Rank the qualities you look for in a woman. Looks, personality, career, etc.

Without looks, there's no attraction, no sexual relationship. Looks get one in the door.

Personality is what sustains a relationship beyond just a potential one-night stand. Without personality, there is no real "dating" relationship.

Looks/personality are big - flip sides of same coin.

No OT 9-10 required, but grooming, appearance, mannerisms all can be either pluses or minuses in both departments.

A woman who's purpose in life isn't just to please me. I've gone on dates with girls who basically made it known their goal was to be a house wife who didn't have any external goals of their own. Not that I want someone who is negligent but an independent woman who I align with emotionally would be ideal.