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re: Question for most married men regarding sex
Posted on 7/27/14 at 10:47 am to SlowFlowPro
Posted on 7/27/14 at 10:47 am to SlowFlowPro
Obviously the best thing is to find a woman that you match well with in terms of frequency, duration, etc.
I think what happens to a lot of guys (and some women) is that the frequency changes, even though their drive hasn't. Some women tend to want to use sex as a bargaining chip, b/c they think they control the sexual aspect of a relationship. They don't, of course. Sometimes they need to be educated on this fact.
I think what happens to a lot of guys (and some women) is that the frequency changes, even though their drive hasn't. Some women tend to want to use sex as a bargaining chip, b/c they think they control the sexual aspect of a relationship. They don't, of course. Sometimes they need to be educated on this fact.
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Posted on 7/27/14 at 10:47 am to glassman
quote:No
Do they do the same with their kids?
Posted on 7/27/14 at 10:48 am to VetteGuy
Marital rape that sounds like.
Posted on 7/27/14 at 10:49 am to VetteGuy
quote:
Obviously the best thing is to find a woman that you match well with in terms of frequency, duration, etc.
well i am not just talking about sex. this applies to everything. neither should hold out this hope that they other person should change, nor should they accept a drastic change (at least without more changes in response). sex just seems to be the most visceral/obvious/repeated example
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Some women tend to want to use sex as a bargaining chip
and for some reason this has become socially acceptable
if men used their role in the relationship as a bargaining chip, they would be an a-hole
Posted on 7/27/14 at 10:49 am to VetteGuy
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Some women tend to want to use sex as a bargaining chip
Sort of the mans fault if he allows this to happen. I would never allow a negotiation based on sex.
Posted on 7/27/14 at 10:50 am to Cajun Revolution
In which aspect?
The withholding part?
The withholding part?
Posted on 7/27/14 at 10:51 am to fightin tigers
100% agree.
Posted on 7/27/14 at 10:52 am to VetteGuy
I always believed if you love them enough to marry them, you're alright with being "inconvenienced" every once in a while.
Posted on 7/27/14 at 10:56 am to Cajun Revolution
"Every once in awhile" is not what we're talking about, obviously.
We are discussing long term changes in a relationship.
Have they significantly lowered the bar for "genius level" ?
We are discussing long term changes in a relationship.
Have they significantly lowered the bar for "genius level" ?
Posted on 7/27/14 at 10:59 am to VetteGuy
When mrs fin turns me down I beat off on her after she falls asleep
Method seems to work for not getting turned down very often.
Method seems to work for not getting turned down very often.
Posted on 7/27/14 at 11:00 am to yellowfin
Mrs fin finger paints all day. Her legs should be open shop 24/7
Posted on 7/27/14 at 11:00 am to yellowfin
Solid plan.
It stays off the sheets, too.
It stays off the sheets, too.
Posted on 7/27/14 at 11:02 am to VetteGuy
It was joke about long term marital rape.
Posted on 7/27/14 at 11:03 am to Cajun Revolution
My bad. I'm not genius level.
Posted on 7/27/14 at 11:04 am to VetteGuy
What else do you want to know. Let me give you some secrets.
Posted on 7/27/14 at 11:05 am to hawgndodge
Well, just any for me would be a breakthrough.... 
Posted on 7/27/14 at 11:17 am to SlowFlowPro
Hey!
Posted on 7/27/14 at 11:17 am to glassman
I can only remember one time in my life where I thought to myself, "I don't really feel like it." fricked her anyway. When my wife has turned me down a few nights, I stop doing my chores around the house, telling her I'm tired, don't feel like it, or just not in the mood to do them.
Posted on 7/27/14 at 11:23 am to BigSquirrel
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I can only remember one time in my life where I thought to myself, "I don't really feel like it." fricked her anyway. When my wife has turned me down a few nights, I stop doing my chores around the house, telling her I'm tired, don't feel like it, or just not in the mood to do them.
And this is when the marriage starts to break down. Withholding sex is not a thing to use to get revenge or to make a point.
This post was edited on 7/27/14 at 11:24 am
Posted on 7/27/14 at 11:24 am to hawgndodge
1 woman sex = mediocrity end of discussion.
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