Pros and Cons

Pro: Juice boxes and little debbie snacks after you have relations.

Con: if you grow to like the kid break up will be difficult.

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Of dating single moms

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Some are ex pros

Some are ex cons

A single mom is far less desirable and has much lower value as a mate compared to a non-mom. Consider it from the point of view of the male:

1. The mom is a person who not only slept with, but gave birth to a child of an uncommitted, lower value male. This raises questions about the ability of the mom to make good decisions in reference to important issues such as sexual partners. If the male father was a high quality man, why couldn't she keep him? If he was a low quality man, why did she sleep with him?

2. The child is an additional factor that complicates the relationship. There are many issues the male might have to address such as what if the potential male partner doesn't bond well with the child?

3. The potential male partner must worry about and deal with the biological father, adding another complication into the relationship.

4. The child must be considered in every decision the couple makes (can't go out or do things unless a babysitter is obtained, all scheduling must be done around the care of the child, etc.). The child must come first to the mom, rather than male partner.

5. The potential male partner gets all the responsibility and no authority. He is expected to provide for the child but has no real authority in how the child is raised or other major rearing decisions (where to school the child, choice of doctors, choice of play mates, methods of discipline etc.).

6. When the potential male partner becomes attached to the child and the couple decides to breakup, the male will lose 2 relationships in the breakup because he has no claim upon the child, not being the biological father. So the male partner loses the relationship with his girlfriend and he loses the relationship with the child.

I could go on, but these make the point. As a single male looking for a relationship, why would a high valued male take these risks when there are plenty of single, non-mom females to choose from?

This is a solid ChatGPT response

They’re actually fun to date. Typically done with all the BS so don’t play a lot of games. They’re usually horny.

Downside is relationships are tough as they are. Throw in somebody else’s kid, and ex that is always around or in the picture, and things aren’t as fun and go downhill quick after the initial infatuation phase.

Just think of all your friends or buddies that could never do anything and the excuse was always because of their kid. Now put yourself in their shoes, but it’s not even your kid!

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Pro. One weekend child free… Usually.

Con. Weekend with baby where she can’t frick you. But you can do whatever with friends. So…. Con???

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This was the majority of my experiences.

Don’t shoplift the pooty.

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You can make their kids do stuff for you, ie, bring you a beer, etc.