re: Overly Attached Girlfriend (Laina) has a tearful goodbye - quits Youtube

Dude's a pathetic loser but let's not act like these "social media" famous women aren't hiding their BFs/husbands to prey on these weak morons.

They'll make a shite ton of videos drawing attention to themselves and their depression and life problems, but their relationship status is "private"

My favorite part is when he talks about sending her his "bored but tired" face and she said he was cute. He probably thought they were going to get married or something after that.

This is a supply and demand thing. Without the demand of these pathetic desperate dudes, these women wouldn't have a market to make so much money for doing basically nothing. And I don't blame the women for taking advantage of it. If someone said I can make 6 figures a year just by filming myself fully clothed doing whatever mundane shite I'd be doing anyway then I sure as hell wouldnt pass that up.

These men (if they can even be called men) need to be better. They need to have more self respect and stop throwing money at women for no reason. At least spend your money on hookers or something, at least you're getting laid out of it and I don't think the going rate for a night with a hooker is thousands of dollars so it'd actually be cheaper too.

I just don't understand the mindset.

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FFS. Clueless, narcissistic attention ho doggie.

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So what’s the fix? How do we fix this idiot manlets and turn them into men who don’t do this shite?

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Unfortunately, I don't think we can. They're delusioned to the point where they think acting this way is their best course of action. This dude was literally bragging about donating to a different streamer when he found this out.

I strongly believe there have been people in his life, whether IRL or people he talks to on a forum that tells him this ain't the way. But these kind of folk dont want to hear it, because it's the closest they've gotten to positive female interaction theyve ever gotten. That's the one part I will feel sorry for them about. But at the same time we've all had that point where we were maybe scared to talk to a girl, or girls in particular. But to be at that stage still past a certain age...idk man there needs to be some kind of intervention or something.

Maybe some kind of hitch squad or something needs to show our man a good time to build his confidence to where these dudes dont feel like they have to do this to feel intimacy. fricking join anything. Any local club. A gym, a bowling league, a beer baseball league, a book club. fricking something that's actual real life interaction with other people to ween yourself off of this fake arse streaming bullshite.

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I really think that if social media were to just...shut down, long run it would be better for society as a whole.

Women wouldn’t be so easily (but falsely) elevated with faux attention, young men would be forced to actually venture out and meet people.

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I tend to agree. Not gonna lie of the internet and social media were to go, I'd be sad for some things. We have easy access to music, movies, shows, news, etc. And a lot of good can come from that that has enhanced our lives. But when it comes to interpersonal relationships, I think it has really fricked all of us over. We don't know how to talk to each other anymore and our expectations are ridiculous.

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Sounds like those people don’t want young boys to grow up into strong, independent men

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Sometimes I want to blame single moms, but at the same time I was raised by a single mom and didnt end up like that either. I do think the nuclear family is important and it does break my heart to see that structure being demonized and destroyed these days though.

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Until someone like that is ready to open their eyes and pop the digititty out their mouth, there’s no helping it.

Remember, if you stop throwing dollars, the stripper stops dancing

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Yeah man, it goes back to supply and demand. If there were no demand then the supply wouldnt be there. That demand curve is SHOCKINGLY steep, and so the supply curve meets it at a pretty shocking point naturally. I mean we're in a climate where dudes will literally let their girlfriends frick other dudes and they're just there to provide financial support and be an emotional tampon. And they're ok with that arrangement, like seriously? How less can you think of yourself that that's the best you can do?

It’s the closest positive interaction they’ve gotten from extremely attractive females. The type that will never be interested in them because they have nothing to offer. IRL 6s aren’t getting donation money.