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OT Parents: Best Advice/Things You Wish You Had Known

Posted on 4/28/16 at 10:22 am
Posted by foreverLSU
Member since Mar 2006
17060 posts
Posted on 4/28/16 at 10:22 am
What advice would you give to OTers becoming parents for the first time?
Posted by Salmon
On the trails
Member since Feb 2008
83525 posts
Posted on 4/28/16 at 10:24 am to
miracle blanket for swaddling



changed our lives for those first couple of months once we started using it
This post was edited on 4/28/16 at 10:25 am
Posted by BigEdLSU
All around the south
Member since Sep 2010
20268 posts
Posted on 4/28/16 at 10:24 am to
Rice in the formula
Posted by Hogwarts
Arkansas, USA
Member since Sep 2015
18045 posts
Posted on 4/28/16 at 10:24 am to
Sleep as much as you can before the kid gets here. My daughter is almost six months old and I have lost more sleep in the last six months than I did in the first 28 years of my life

She is awesome though and the best thing that has ever happened to me
Posted by BigEdLSU
All around the south
Member since Sep 2010
20268 posts
Posted on 4/28/16 at 10:28 am to
Put rice in the bottle and she'll sleep all night. You guys are rookies.
Posted by BugAC
St. George
Member since Oct 2007
52765 posts
Posted on 4/28/16 at 10:28 am to
quote:

What advice would you give to OTers becoming parents for the first time?


Tubes!!! My son is 19 months old now, but he was sick all the time until he got tubes. Now that he has them, he is sick less often.

Also, get some sleep.
And enjoy not being sick, because once your baby is born, you catch what he catches.

But yeah, best thing to ever happen to me.
Posted by Walt OReilly
Poplarville, MS
Member since Oct 2005
124295 posts
Posted on 4/28/16 at 10:30 am to
What does rice do?
Posted by Salmon
On the trails
Member since Feb 2008
83525 posts
Posted on 4/28/16 at 10:30 am to
more advice

don't use formula

your wife has boobs and unless she just has serious issues (mastitis) with it, you save a lot of money breastfeeding
Posted by wickowick
Head of Island
Member since Dec 2006
45797 posts
Posted on 4/28/16 at 10:31 am to
Most of that stuff that Babies-r-us makes you think you need to raise a kid, you don't. Babies are only as expensive as you make them out to be. You will be given so much stuff, that the only thing needed is a car seat, a pack and play, diapers, wipes, formula and bottles. You will be given so many clothes that some of them will never be worn.
Posted by BigEdLSU
All around the south
Member since Sep 2010
20268 posts
Posted on 4/28/16 at 10:32 am to
Rice powder or whatever its called on the baby isle. Add a scoop to the formula, makes their dinner much more filling. They'll sleep well without waking up and crying needing that 2 am bottle.
Posted by BCMCubs
Colorado
Member since Nov 2011
22146 posts
Posted on 4/28/16 at 10:35 am to
As a father of 3, my advice would be: You do not need half of the crap people will say you need.

Example: We had 8 bottles for our first son. 8. Pain in the butt to wash, find, and keep all that. Totally uneccessary. My daughter has had the same bottle since she was born just over a year ago and she is just fine.
Posted by foreverLSU
Member since Mar 2006
17060 posts
Posted on 4/28/16 at 10:37 am to
I actually registered for a couple of those, good to know they're helpful!


What's the reasoning behind rice in the milk?
Posted by TheChosenOne
Member since Dec 2005
18515 posts
Posted on 4/28/16 at 10:37 am to
Find a wife that can handle stress.
Posted by Salmon
On the trails
Member since Feb 2008
83525 posts
Posted on 4/28/16 at 10:37 am to
and the best advice of all is to keep the kid on a schedule/routine

they crave it and it will make your life so much easier, even when it feels like you are a prisoner to the schedule, babies/toddlers thrive on routine

Posted by CurDog
Member since Jan 2007
28082 posts
Posted on 4/28/16 at 10:38 am to
start saving now for

college
wedding (if a girl)
buy him/her a lifetime hunting and fishing license (they are cheap, about 200 bucks)

we never had baby monitors, when they cry you will hear them and you will check on them numerous times a night
Posted by Salmon
On the trails
Member since Feb 2008
83525 posts
Posted on 4/28/16 at 10:40 am to
quote:

we never had baby monitors, when they cry you will hear them


I always see this on here and either you people have really thin walls or sleep right across the hall from your kids

we would never hear my daughter cry in the night without a monitor as her room is on the opposite side of the house
Posted by TBass82
Folsom
Member since Feb 2004
2709 posts
Posted on 4/28/16 at 10:40 am to
Ignore all the "expert moms" that'll tell you everything they think you should know about vaccinations, co-sleeping, not letting your baby cry, car seats, breastfeeding, etc. They all think they are experts because they follow a moms blog or read an article. Listen to your pediatrician, talk with your significant other, and do what y'all think is best for your child.
Posted by Traveler
I'm not late-I'm early for tomorrow
Member since Sep 2003
24255 posts
Posted on 4/28/16 at 10:41 am to
Don't pick them up every time they cry, especially when you put them to bed.
Posted by CurDog
Member since Jan 2007
28082 posts
Posted on 4/28/16 at 10:42 am to
quote:

sleep right across the hall from your kids


the babies room was right next to ours while the east wing was being remodeled
Posted by CoachChappy
Member since May 2013
32515 posts
Posted on 4/28/16 at 10:42 am to
DO NOT be afraid to tell people to leave or not come over in the first few days/weeks. When that baby is sleeping, your wife needs to sleep. Tell maw-maw and Na-nan, they can come over later, your wife and baby are sleeping.

It's very easy, "Ok, baby needs to sleep, so mama is going to bed too. Thanks for coming everybody, we will see y'all later." Walk away with the baby, grab your wife and put her in bed too. Turn the lights off. "Bye, thanks for coming." Do it Day 1! they will learn to frick off and that you are the Dad and make the decisions about the child. = establish dominance early or you mother in law will never leave and try to run your life until she is dead.

I did it, and my wife and I are much happier than other couples we know.
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