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OT Louisiana lawyers,beneficiary/succession question...
Posted on 5/10/20 at 7:11 pm
Posted on 5/10/20 at 7:11 pm
I received a certified letter from a CPA in LA, who happens to be my sisters ex husband. They have been divorced for 7 years or so and I have had no contact with him and very little with sister. We are two of 7 surviving children of my grandmothers estate and the other 5 received letter as well.
Without getting into the executor and Family/kids squabbles, the letter list ex brother-in-law as "Dative Testamentary Executor" and goes on to inform of a storage unit that items can be "claimed,paid for in cash, final sale and dispersed, so that the storage unit can be discontinued". On a particular date and time in three weeks.
Just getting a head start before I start inquiring with ex bro-in-law and distant brothers, sisters from across the country. I thought this estate had been long settled.
My question: who and why makes the decision that "claimed,paid for in cash, final sale and dispersed" is the proper course. Who decides which claims are first? Or is this just an auction on each piece if more that one person claims an item?
Seems pretty shady, in timing at the least, and smells rotten at best.
May be more suited for the Money board but I know some fine LA counsel reside here.
Without getting into the executor and Family/kids squabbles, the letter list ex brother-in-law as "Dative Testamentary Executor" and goes on to inform of a storage unit that items can be "claimed,paid for in cash, final sale and dispersed, so that the storage unit can be discontinued". On a particular date and time in three weeks.
Just getting a head start before I start inquiring with ex bro-in-law and distant brothers, sisters from across the country. I thought this estate had been long settled.
My question: who and why makes the decision that "claimed,paid for in cash, final sale and dispersed" is the proper course. Who decides which claims are first? Or is this just an auction on each piece if more that one person claims an item?
Seems pretty shady, in timing at the least, and smells rotten at best.
May be more suited for the Money board but I know some fine LA counsel reside here.
Posted on 5/10/20 at 7:18 pm to cuyahoga tiger
I know a Nigerian prince you can hook him up with.
Posted on 5/10/20 at 7:24 pm to PrivatePublic
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I know a Nigerian prince you can hook him up with.
I guess I was right, may belong on the money board. The OT never disappoints.
Posted on 5/10/20 at 7:25 pm to cuyahoga tiger
Dude just be patient. Everyone is looking up the definition of testamentary before they can answer.
Posted on 5/10/20 at 7:25 pm to cuyahoga tiger
When you’re paid to answer those questions and handle these situations, you don’t answer them for free on a message board.
Hire a lawyer OP
Hire a lawyer OP
Posted on 5/10/20 at 7:26 pm to cuyahoga tiger
Tldr
Your ex brother in law is the executor. There's a bunch of junk that is left in a storage unit. He is trying to dispose of it either by letting you guys pick out what you want, or by selling it, or by just tossing it.
Your ex brother in law is the executor. There's a bunch of junk that is left in a storage unit. He is trying to dispose of it either by letting you guys pick out what you want, or by selling it, or by just tossing it.
Posted on 5/10/20 at 7:27 pm to PrivatePublic
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Dude just be patient. Everyone is looking up the definition of testamentary before they can answer.
I've done that, and I have an idea of what it means in a very broad sense.
Posted on 5/10/20 at 7:32 pm to TheOcean
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There's a bunch of junk that is left in a storage unit. He is trying to dispose of it either by letting you guys pick out what you want, or by selling it, or by just tossing it.
That is what I suspect. Junk. Anything worth anything is long gone. But why hold this unit and junk for so long and disperse now?
Posted on 5/10/20 at 7:58 pm to cuyahoga tiger
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Anything worth anything is long gone.
YUUUUUPPP
Posted on 5/10/20 at 8:03 pm to cuyahoga tiger
Because there may be some sentimental items your family wants. He's doing his due diligence before he trashes it
Posted on 5/10/20 at 8:09 pm to cuyahoga tiger
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Seems pretty shady, in timing at the least, and smells rotten at best
Why?
Posted on 5/10/20 at 8:19 pm to NoSaint
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Seems pretty shady, in timing at the least, and smells rotten at best
Why?
7 bros/sis spread over 5 states across the country and folks not wanting to fly/travel in the current environment. 3 weeks notice.
Posted on 5/10/20 at 8:23 pm to cuyahoga tiger
First ..request a copy of the will...all of you have to sign
off before any assets can be divested...then, see who the Executor of record is..
off before any assets can be divested...then, see who the Executor of record is..
Posted on 5/10/20 at 8:31 pm to cuyahoga tiger
tl;dr Hire a lawyer, cheapskate. Hell, I’m sure you could at least get a free consultation at least.
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