re: OT history lesson for the day. The Blondie/Sports2/SFP saga

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Some very good times but That part of my life has been over

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Hi, Nurse, My name is Cara. My td name is ArRazElle. I just saw this email that my husband sent you on Nov.27 & your reply. He apparently sent it from our joint gmail account. I noticed that he didn't include his name. It is Keith. He is an extremely jealous & controlling narcissistic psychopath. We are about to go through a divorce. He has been pretending to be a stalker, sending EXTREMELY explicit sexual emails & threats to me since right before Thanksgiving. He called himself Mega Watt. I have been terrified which is why Phil asked you to lay off of me awhile. The "stalker" said he read td & your posts about me. He would repeat things you posted in his emails. I found out, for sure, it was my husband, Keith, stalking me about 2 weeks ago. I'm very sorry he got you involved in his lunacy. I email & chat with a few people on td, but that's as far as it goes. The pictures my husband refers to in his email to you are ones I sent to Phil & a few others to prove I'm not an alter. They are of my face. Phil helped me get reinstated when I was banned, and I continue to talk with him, mainly concerning Keith's horrific behavior. Fr33 contacted me when he was going through his divorce. I was trying to fix him up with an acquaintance of mine. Since then, we have become closer as he has talked to me about his personal dilemma as have I about mine. He is like a little brother to me, irl. My husband has been extremely controlling, manipulative, & abusive for the duration of our marriage as evidenced by him pretending to be a stalker, setting up another email account, and going so far as joining td on Nov. 20 as IFF_Radar. In his emails as the stalker, Mega Watt, he said since I wouldn't respond to him, he would join td to "get to me." He did. He terrified myself, as well as our son, sending these emails. He even sent them while my son & I were in Arkansas while my father was having surgery for skin cancer. He has absolutely no regard for anyone but himself, and will go to any lengths to get back at someone if he perceives he has been wronged, which is ALOT, but that is not unusual for narcissists. I signed up for td, at my husband's suggestion, as a kind of "escape" from reality for a little while. He doesn't really like my having friends, and can't stand when I even visit or talk to my family. When he discovered I was communicating with posters off of td by going through my phone, he went ballistic even though he knows the relationships with these posters are platonic and most of them created by necessity because of the alter issue & my related banning. The stalking emails began shortly after that. He also said he would contact you to get at me because you seemed to have a problem with me. He makes no distinction between a message board & reality. He is simply trying to get at me any way he can. Phil knows a lot about the situation & actually thought Keith was the stalker from the beginning. When I knew, for sure, the stalker was my husband, about 2 weeks ago, I began responding & playing along with him at the suggestion of a friend to try to trip him up & catch him red handed. I had asked him MANY times before if he was sending the emails, and of course, he denied it. He finally made a mistake in one of his emails a couple of days ago, and he was caught, which infuriated him. When control is taken away from him, he loses his mind & can be dangerous. It is frightening, but I had to have proof that he was the stalker for the divorce. There is much more to all of this, but I'm sure it's very odd getting so much personal information from a stranger. It's feels really odd for me to send it to someone I don't know, but when I saw his email & your response this morning, I felt I had to say something to you. Be very careful communicating with him. He is truly not a good person, and has ulterior motives in EVERYTHING he does. I am extremely sorry he involved you in his scheming. If you want /need to ask me anything, you can email me at my address which is my td name. ArRazElle@gmail.com. Again, I would never involve anyone whom I don't know in my personal affairs if I didn't think it was necessary, but since my delusional husband has no regard for others, he did, and I am very sorry about that. Please don't hesitate to contact me. Sincerely, Cara

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I began posting this morning wondering if you had forwarded the email my husband sent to you full of complete lies to anyone else. It didn't take long to see that you did. I honestly hope you do not ever have to experience the pain and fear of being in an abusive, controlling relationship. Not only fear for yourself, but for your child. And every time you try to leave it, you are too afraid because the more control he loses, the more crazy and vindictive he becomes. Leaving becomes the most frightening thing you can do. When I finally made up my mind, with the help of my parents, in November to seriously begin to try to get my affairs in order, and courage up to tell him I wanted a separation, I knew he would retaliate. Seeing the emails and pictures I sent to Phil & fr33, which were NOT hidden, and in fact, I had told him I would have to have someone's help to get reinstated when I was banned, gave him the idea to send that email to you, and create the stalker. THAT is insanity. The emails I have sent & received to & from posters are absolutely innocent. If there had been ANY emails of the sort my husband described to you, he DEFINITELY would have sent them, but there are not. He saw an opportunity to try to hurt me through you, and by creating this stalker lunacy, and he most definitely did. He has admitted this to me. TigerDroppings has become a kind of outlet for me through all of this, and now, it looks as though I won't even be able to do that. I understand about messing around with posters on a message board, but I don't understand what I have done to you to deserve my very difficult personal real life issues being spread around to others who will post it. Especially when I explained to you in my email, yesterday, what the true situation is. I am a real person, with a real child, a very real controlling, vindictive, soon -to-be-ex-husband, and a much too real fricking divorce coming up. I really don't understand why this is something to be joked about, made fun of, or even shared with anyone, and I certainly do not understand why you would have done so.

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Wasn't there a chick poster who took in a homeless guy who she ended up fricking and then he stole her shite or something?

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Hi, Nurse, My name is Cara. My td name is ArRazElle. I just saw this email that my husband sent you on Nov.27 & your reply. He apparently sent it from our joint gmail account. I noticed that he didn't include his name. It is Keith. He is an extremely jealous & controlling narcissistic psychopath

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