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re: Need Miscarriage Advice (update Pg 3, Miscarriage Official)

Posted on 10/14/15 at 11:35 am to
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
129146 posts
Posted on 10/14/15 at 11:35 am to
Attention seeking for her posting the pics?

I didn't say she got pictures done like that, she just shared the article about that photographer on her fb wall. She is involved with a support group for women dealing with miscarriages so likely someone in her group showed it to her.



Posted by mikelbr
Baton Rouge
Member since Apr 2008
49100 posts
Posted on 10/14/15 at 11:37 am to
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GTFO with this bullshite.



Shocker you are so rational.

~25% of pregnancies end in miscarriage. ~85% happen in the FIRST 12 weeks. This is why EVERYONE who knows some shite tells you to STFU until you get to that point.
Posted by terd ferguson
Darren Wilson Fan Club President
Member since Aug 2007
114938 posts
Posted on 10/14/15 at 11:41 am to
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My friend has posted pics like these on fb recently.


This photographer has been doing family pictures like that for couples that have experienced miscarriages in the past.


Not gonna lie... that's creepy as frick.
Posted by NYNolaguy1
Member since May 2011
21849 posts
Posted on 10/14/15 at 11:48 am to
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this. this is exactly what happened with us. I can see why it can lead to a divorce. in our case, we didn't want to see or hear from any of our pregnant friends


Oh yeah. She deleted her Facebook app for like 4 months and just stopped talking to anyone pregnant. Of course she got pregnant again about 3 months later, but in her mind, it would never happen again.

Still working on figuring out the female psyche.
Posted by nelatf
NELA
Member since Jan 2011
2296 posts
Posted on 10/14/15 at 12:54 pm to
A miscarriage was the hardest thing to get over for Mrs NELATF

It took years for her to recover despite having healthy kids.

Prayers for you and wife - it will be tough on her. The crappiet part is the confirmation ultrasound before a procedure called c&d - don't know what that stands for but it sucks and is an emotional time for the lady.

Our miscarriage happened late in trimester 2

This post was edited on 10/14/15 at 12:56 pm
Posted by NYNolaguy1
Member since May 2011
21849 posts
Posted on 10/14/15 at 1:01 pm to
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The crappiet part is the confirmation ultrasound before a procedure called c&d - don't know what that stands for but it sucks and is an emotional time for the lady


Up here they called it a D&C- dillation and curettage.

Nothing sadder than seeing your wife immediately after the procedure is done, and knowing that your little one died was just pulled out.

Posted by USAF Hart
My House
Member since Jun 2011
10273 posts
Posted on 10/14/15 at 1:08 pm to
Yea, I believe the wife of my co-worker is going in for the D&C today or to at least schedule it.
Posted by maisweh
Member since Jan 2014
4222 posts
Posted on 10/14/15 at 1:12 pm to
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Oh yeah. She deleted her Facebook app for like 4 months and just stopped talking to anyone pregnant. Of course she got pregnant again about 3 months later, but in her mind, it would never happen again. Still working on figuring out the female psyche


Yep, just had round 3 Monday, won't find out till next Tuesday if it worked, then we've got 12 weeks for it to hopefully not fail again.

freaking stressful.
Posted by its1999
Member since Aug 2009
1040 posts
Posted on 10/14/15 at 2:08 pm to


Yes, that's kind of creepy, but I could see how people who have been thru MCs would find that comforting. There are times when I stop and think, "wow, there could be two little girls about 9 & 7 running around here."

MCs are especially difficult when they happen further along (friend had an early MC followed by 3 successful pregnancies; they had their 3 daughters in the room to find out the gender when they learned their son had died at ~20 weeks gestation).

But even when they happen early and then years later you learn that something simple and easy could have prevented them, it's still painful.
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