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re: My stepson is desperate for your advice
Posted on 4/24/20 at 2:43 pm to DemonKA3268
Posted on 4/24/20 at 2:43 pm to DemonKA3268
Studies have shown that kids of married parents have performed significantly better in all metrics than those cohabitating.
You’re right, a toxic relationship is bad for everyone, but it doesn’t have to be. This guy has obviously been into this woman enough to actually say he loves her, so who knows how it goes.
You’re right, a toxic relationship is bad for everyone, but it doesn’t have to be. This guy has obviously been into this woman enough to actually say he loves her, so who knows how it goes.
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Posted on 4/24/20 at 2:44 pm to Samson
Yet he chose to go live with him?
Posted on 4/24/20 at 2:44 pm to Samson
Shole hate it for baw.
This post was edited on 4/24/20 at 2:45 pm
Posted on 4/24/20 at 2:45 pm to carhartt
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Is the GF hot?
Sadly, no. That's another shocking thing. My stepson is a good-looking kid, into fitness, eating right, working out. He's built, six pack, all that. But he sets his standards very low when it comes to females. I mean this chick is OK, but certainly nothing special.
Posted on 4/24/20 at 2:46 pm to Samson
First time is make sure they are his. Especially if there was no intent on marrying. If he’s going to join the military coast guard is the way to go. Same pay and it’s not the navy. If they are his them tell him prepare to pay for them. Love them but don’t stay with the girl if he doesn’t want to marry her.
Posted on 4/24/20 at 2:47 pm to Samson
Posted on 4/24/20 at 2:47 pm to Samson
Welcome to adulthood. Time to man up
Posted on 4/24/20 at 2:47 pm to Oilfieldbiology
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You’re right, a toxic relationship is bad for everyone, but it doesn’t have to be
That's the part I was talking about being bad for them.
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Studies have shown that kids of married parents have performed significantly better in all metrics than those cohabitating.
I agree with this.
Posted on 4/24/20 at 2:47 pm to Samson
I’ll keep an eye out for her at twin peaks next basketball season
Posted on 4/24/20 at 2:47 pm to Samson
Considering you did the same and adopted him. Tell him to be a man.
Posted on 4/24/20 at 2:48 pm to slinger1317
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She needs to take a paternity test. If the kids are his, he needs to man up and support them. I wouldn't advise him to marry the girl just to save face. He can still help raise & support them and not be married to her.
My thoughts 100%
Posted on 4/24/20 at 2:49 pm to Samson
Whew if this is really true hahahaha hahahahaha
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Hahahahahahahahahaahahahahaha
Posted on 4/24/20 at 2:50 pm to Samson
On the hook for 18 years? Yeah, right.
Posted on 4/24/20 at 2:50 pm to crispyUGA
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the answer for any stepson's problem is to bang his Stepmom
he doesn't have one
This post was edited on 4/24/20 at 2:52 pm
Posted on 4/24/20 at 2:51 pm to AbitaFan08
His future is toast, deal with it.
Posted on 4/24/20 at 2:51 pm to Samson
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he doesn't have one
Then he needs to bang his actual mom.
Posted on 4/24/20 at 2:52 pm to bopper50
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His future is toast, deal with it.
I wouldn't go that far but it will be challenging to say the least.
Posted on 4/24/20 at 2:53 pm to moneyg
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It's no wonder he is the way he is. I realize he's not your biological son, but FFS "being a part of his own kids' lives" really shouldn't be viewed as a decision.
I'm just going by what he told me. I can't force him to do what's right; I can only offer advice. Heck, 90% of the kids I teach come from single-parent families with no father figure.
Posted on 4/24/20 at 2:53 pm to Samson
Before any money changes hands, he better make sure those twins are his! DNA test after they born!
Posted on 4/24/20 at 2:54 pm to Winston Cup
Friend,
Is it not shocking how so many here are saying, “Don’t marry her...Don’t join the military because doing so will ensure he has to pay child support”!
First, how sad it is that a forum that caters mostly to college educated middle and upper class Americans seems to have so many who are entirely okay with bringing bastard children into this world. Heaven forbid one might need to sacrifice his own dreams and desires to ensure a proper raising of his children. Let me tell your step son this: by not marrying her, he ensures that both he and his illicit sexual partner remain whores and their children forever bastards.
Second, those of you encouraging him to skip out on child support: you disgust me.
I am entirely disappointed with the entire direction and tenor of this conversation.
Yours,
TulaneLSU
Is it not shocking how so many here are saying, “Don’t marry her...Don’t join the military because doing so will ensure he has to pay child support”!
First, how sad it is that a forum that caters mostly to college educated middle and upper class Americans seems to have so many who are entirely okay with bringing bastard children into this world. Heaven forbid one might need to sacrifice his own dreams and desires to ensure a proper raising of his children. Let me tell your step son this: by not marrying her, he ensures that both he and his illicit sexual partner remain whores and their children forever bastards.
Second, those of you encouraging him to skip out on child support: you disgust me.
I am entirely disappointed with the entire direction and tenor of this conversation.
Yours,
TulaneLSU
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