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re: My 94 year old grandfather is in the ICU—should I brace for the worst?

Posted on 3/9/19 at 9:05 pm to
Posted by Patrick_Bateman
Member since Jan 2012
17823 posts
Posted on 3/9/19 at 9:05 pm to
quote:

Sorry, meant that he had been intubated.

Sorry for the situation he and your family are in.

But it's crazy that doctors would intubate a 94-year-old man, and that his family would allow or want him to be intubated.
Posted by 777Tiger
Member since Mar 2011
93541 posts
Posted on 3/9/19 at 9:07 pm to
quote:

But it's crazy that doctors would intubate a 94-year-old man, and that his family would allow or want him to be intubated.
Posted by tiger114
Fairhope, AL
Member since Sep 2009
5235 posts
Posted on 3/9/19 at 9:09 pm to
94 years old. Dying of natural causes surrounded by my friend and family comforting me ok the way out.

If I could sign up for that right now, I would.
Posted by fallguy_1978
Best States #50
Member since Feb 2018
53806 posts
Posted on 3/9/19 at 9:09 pm to
Lost my WWII vet paw paw a few years ago. He practically raised me. It still tears me up to talk about it. Hang in there bud.
Posted by DJ3K
Member since Dec 2011
7510 posts
Posted on 3/9/19 at 9:12 pm to
Sorry for your (eventual) loss.

I miss my grandpa everyday. Doesn't sound good, but I hope it turns out better than you current situation
Posted by biglego
San Francisco
Member since Nov 2007
85467 posts
Posted on 3/9/19 at 9:15 pm to
quote:

I guess what I’m asking for is if anybody that may have any experience with stuff like this/or knowledgeable enough about this stuff to tell me what to do/expect.


You can expect grief but also take comfort in the fact he lived a very long and full life. It’s just the natural order of things that you are forced to accept as you grow older and experience the loss of loved ones.

Posted by chinhoyang
Member since Jun 2011
26221 posts
Posted on 3/9/19 at 9:18 pm to
My dad, WW2 Korea and nam vet died last year at 94. Had surgery, was reco wrong then passed in his sleep. I know now that he was ready to go.
Posted by CelticDog
Member since Apr 2015
42867 posts
Posted on 3/9/19 at 9:22 pm to
Yes

Get a copy of easy death in paperback.

You'll pick out tidbits.

Posted by Cobrasize
Birmingham
Member since Jun 2013
49889 posts
Posted on 3/9/19 at 9:29 pm to
Prayers. My grandfather was a WW2 vet as well. They are truly America's Greatest Generation.
Posted by Chuker
St George, Louisiana
Member since Nov 2015
7544 posts
Posted on 3/9/19 at 9:32 pm to
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t shocks me that it could go down hill so fast





My grandmother lived on her own until she was 98. Then she just took a turn and a few months later we had her funeral. She would've gone sooner but some daughters couldn't come to terms with her demise and used unwanted continuing life methods.

Being an "ok" 94 and then taking a turn all the sudden is wayyy better than being bad off at 84 and hanging around for 10 years.
Posted by bamabkj
Member since Dec 2015
737 posts
Posted on 3/9/19 at 10:25 pm to
Yeah be thankful and remember the good times. I never got to meet neither of my Grandad's.
Posted by lsu480
Downtown Scottsdale
Member since Oct 2007
92903 posts
Posted on 3/9/19 at 11:14 pm to
Yes 100%
Posted by SportsGuyNOLA
New Orleans, LA
Member since May 2014
20733 posts
Posted on 3/9/19 at 11:56 pm to
Be happy for him that he’s lived that long.

He’s lived WAY longer than most us ever will.
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