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Posted by TDsngumbo
Member since Oct 2011
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Posted on 1/30/20 at 8:44 am to
My wife’s dad is very traditional and old school and my wife is such a daddy’s girl so she didn’t have the heart to break his. We moved in the day we got home from our honeymoon.

We were fricking for six years before though
Posted by 777Tiger
Member since Mar 2011
93541 posts
Posted on 1/30/20 at 8:47 am to
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Mine was 2 different girls.


sloot!!
Posted by L Boogie
Texas
Member since Jul 2009
5215 posts
Posted on 1/30/20 at 8:47 am to
I was 34, he was 43.

He had to move across the country for a job and it took him a year and a half of long distance to invite me

We're engaged now, but I can't imagine agreeing to spend my life with another person without living with them first. I feel like you can't REALLY know a person until you share a bathroom with them.
This post was edited on 1/30/20 at 8:49 am
Posted by fallguy_1978
Best States #50
Member since Feb 2018
53834 posts
Posted on 1/30/20 at 8:48 am to
We moved in together when we got engaged to save money. We lived a mile from each other so it was kind of stupid to pay 2 rents. I think I was 25-26.
Posted by 777Tiger
Member since Mar 2011
93541 posts
Posted on 1/30/20 at 8:49 am to
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you can't REALLY know a person until you share a bathroom with them.


lot a truth in that statement, a popular saying is "the key to a happy marriage is separate bathrooms!"
Posted by Ignignot
Member since Mar 2009
18823 posts
Posted on 1/30/20 at 8:51 am to
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like a year before we got engaged



Baptists and old mawmaws may turn their nose, but this is the smart thing to do

Because it'll let you see if you are REALLY compatible before you tie the knot and brings kids into it.

Can save lots of money and much heartache down the road.
Posted by Rouge
Floston Paradise
Member since Oct 2004
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Posted on 1/30/20 at 8:51 am to
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TH03
I been waiting for fiancee number 1's contact info
Posted by TigerNlc
Chocolate City
Member since Jun 2006
33220 posts
Posted on 1/30/20 at 8:52 am to
She was complaining I wouldn't move in with her in front of her dad and I said I would never disrespect your father by moving in with you before we are married and he said you are more than welcome to move in with her I don't care. Kinda put me on the spot.
quote:

My wife’s dad is very traditional and old school and my wife is such a daddy’s girl so she didn’t have the heart to break his. We moved in the day we got home from our honeymoon.
Posted by TH03
Mogadishu
Member since Dec 2008
172004 posts
Posted on 1/30/20 at 8:53 am to
318-222-9796

You have 1 minute before I delete it.
Posted by Rouge
Floston Paradise
Member since Oct 2004
138853 posts
Posted on 1/30/20 at 8:54 am to
Got it

You dirty dog
This post was edited on 1/30/20 at 8:55 am
Posted by TH03
Mogadishu
Member since Dec 2008
172004 posts
Posted on 1/30/20 at 8:55 am to
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She was complaining I wouldn't move in with her in front of her dad and I said I would never disrespect your father by moving in with you before we are married and he said you are more than welcome to move in with her I don't care. Kinda put me on the spot.


He probably knew.

I asked my now in laws for permission to propose while we were sitting at our dining room table.
Posted by LNCHBOX
70448
Member since Jun 2009
89397 posts
Posted on 1/30/20 at 8:56 am to
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xxx-xxx-xxxx

You have 1 minute before I delete it.


Something tells me you might be hearing about this
Posted by rich4pres
Knoxville
Member since Dec 2016
11375 posts
Posted on 1/30/20 at 8:56 am to
Honestly, I don't even remember asking her to move in. Her stuff just started appearing.
Posted by whoisnickdoobs
Lafayette
Member since Apr 2012
9352 posts
Posted on 1/30/20 at 8:56 am to
I think I was 34. IMO every couple should live together before they get married. Only real way to figure out if you both can deal with each other's shite for the rest of your lives.
This post was edited on 1/30/20 at 8:59 am
Posted by TH03
Mogadishu
Member since Dec 2008
172004 posts
Posted on 1/30/20 at 8:59 am to
Google the number.

I'm dumb but not stupid.
Posted by Loup
Ferriday
Member since Apr 2019
17707 posts
Posted on 1/30/20 at 8:59 am to
sounds like a nightmare
This post was edited on 1/30/20 at 9:01 am
Posted by 777Tiger
Member since Mar 2011
93541 posts
Posted on 1/30/20 at 8:59 am to
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Her stuff just started appearing.


shacked up with a girl for a while, many years ago, parted amicably, remained a reliable booty call, but she left a few things at my house, one night I had OT 9.9 over and was moving in for the kill and she saw some of the ex's stuff there and it blocked me for that night, I had all of that stuff packed up and delivered to the ex before noon the next day
Posted by LNCHBOX
70448
Member since Jun 2009
89397 posts
Posted on 1/30/20 at 9:01 am to
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Google the number.

I'm dumb but not stupid.


Did you have that number handy in your phone?
Posted by TH03
Mogadishu
Member since Dec 2008
172004 posts
Posted on 1/30/20 at 9:02 am to
Speed dial #1
Posted by ApexTiger
cary nc
Member since Oct 2003
56620 posts
Posted on 1/30/20 at 9:03 am to
quote:

t what age did you baws move in with your significant other


We married in 1999, I was 33, my wife 26 at the time

moving in before marriage is done all the time...but I don't think it builds trust, values one another, or the marriage...it takes away it being special. I mean why have a big wedding if you're already living together?

it's basically renting a car for months sometimes years and then deciding to buy it...no one is interested in you getting all dressed up to buy your old car.
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