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re: Married Men: Your Opinion
Posted on 1/25/17 at 4:58 am to KG6
Posted on 1/25/17 at 4:58 am to KG6
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We'do be separated immediately and likely done
No you all wouldn't. You wouldn't throw all that shite away over something that happened at the beginning stages of dating unless you didn't really care for her.
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If we were exclusive ando it was still going on multiple years into the relationship, there's no doubt I'd divorce.
Okay, but that wasn't what OP said happened mr. hypothetical.
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There's no magic button where marriage suddenly changes the rules of your relationship other than locking them in for life with a heavy financial penalty. Cheating before or after that date is the same.
Marriage does suddenly change a bunch of shite, nor is it comparable to the beginning stages of dating. A lot of things can change in that time span.
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If you are married for 25 years, is cheating in year 5 okay?
Who said cheating was okay?
This post was edited on 1/25/17 at 5:00 am
Posted on 1/25/17 at 5:04 am to 13SaintTiger
The OP said the cheating happened 2 years into the relationship. Am I reading that wrong? That's a serious relationship. Some people are contemplating marriage at this time, shopping for rings. And she's boning other dudes still. That's not "the beginning stages of dating" anymore.
Posted on 1/25/17 at 5:13 am to GalvestonTiger12
I'd probably try to work something out. Anything to keep our kids from being weird arse broken home children.
Definitely look at her different though
Definitely look at her different though
Posted on 1/25/17 at 5:14 am to KG6
A month or 2 in we got problems maybe not divorce
2 years in you were cheating and I moved on false pretenses we got problems
Asking her ex on Facebook though is sad
2 years in you were cheating and I moved on false pretenses we got problems
Asking her ex on Facebook though is sad
Posted on 1/25/17 at 5:17 am to KG6
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The OP said the cheating happened 2 years into the relationship. Am I reading that wrong?
Yes, you are reading it wrong. He said she cheated while they first started dating. He then went on to say they were in a long distance relationship for 2 years.
Posted on 1/25/17 at 5:18 am to GalvestonTiger12
You know what; what difference does it make. Trust issues are forever in any relationship. As it applies to men so is it with women, it only takes on average for a couple to be apart 45 mins and the clothes come off. Unless you see pictures or get caught in the act, it didn't happen. You need to give her kudos for being honest finally about sex with other men. You will know if she does it again. Just as women damn sure know when a man is cheating. It is basic instinct with women. During my marriage my wife could tell me how many minutes I talked to Jane Doe. Widow now so I get what I want when I want. Trust will be an issue if I choose to hook up with soul mate. So I wish myself good luck with the search.
Posted on 1/25/17 at 5:18 am to GalvestonTiger12
I would secretly do a paternity test on the kid
Posted on 1/25/17 at 5:36 am to jbgleason
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This. Some other dude contacts me to ask about his girlfriend (especially on FaceBook) and I am just going to tell him to frick off. Why would he do that?
I would probably frick with the guy for being an insecure bitch.
Posted on 1/25/17 at 5:37 am to yellowfin
If she was banging both guys at the time, is he certain the child is his?
On topic...if the child is his, without a doubt, try really hard to work things out.
On topic...if the child is his, without a doubt, try really hard to work things out.
Posted on 1/25/17 at 5:42 am to LCA131
Doesn't matter kid is his now
No reason to open that Pandora box if not necessary
No reason to open that Pandora box if not necessary
Posted on 1/25/17 at 5:44 am to tigerfan84
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I would secretly do a paternity test on the kid
X2
Posted on 1/25/17 at 5:52 am to GalvestonTiger12
Would depend on how good she is at making sandwiches.
Posted on 1/25/17 at 6:00 am to GalvestonTiger12
Once a cheater, always a cheater. And this isn't one time either, this dude was getting it more regularly than your boy was
Posted on 1/25/17 at 6:17 am to crispyUGA
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I would probably frick with the guy for being an insecure bitch.
Bitch move. Seriously, stay out of other people's relationships.
Posted on 1/25/17 at 6:20 am to tigerfan84
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I would secretly do a paternity test on the kid
Really doesn't matter, unless the results determine if you leave her.
If he signed the birth certificate and the kid was born before the marriage, he will probably still be on the hook for something. Not to mention I hear it is hard to disown a kid once you have raised them as your own.
Posted on 1/25/17 at 6:24 am to GalvestonTiger12
Need pics of the wife to make a more informed decision.
Posted on 1/25/17 at 6:26 am to GalvestonTiger12
I'd have a tough time dealing with that but that's just me.
Posted on 1/25/17 at 6:26 am to tigerfan84
Yeah you definitely got to get a paternity test. I promise you that bitch was sweating whonthe pappy was especially if she got knocked up before the wedding proposal
Posted on 1/25/17 at 6:32 am to GalvestonTiger12
Some people get all up in arms when I post this, but I'm going to do it again as in years past...
ALL WOMEN ARE WHORES.
It is what it is. Trust her - naw, but it helps to remember what I just said. If he leaves, it just moves onto another whore. May as well stay due to time served and the kid.
ALL WOMEN ARE WHORES.
It is what it is. Trust her - naw, but it helps to remember what I just said. If he leaves, it just moves onto another whore. May as well stay due to time served and the kid.
Posted on 1/25/17 at 6:32 am to GalvestonTiger12
He should think about divorce, one lie leads to many lies.
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