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re: Married Men: Your Opinion

Posted on 1/25/17 at 4:58 am to
Posted by 13SaintTiger
Isle of Capri
Member since Sep 2011
18371 posts
Posted on 1/25/17 at 4:58 am to
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We'do be separated immediately and likely done


No you all wouldn't. You wouldn't throw all that shite away over something that happened at the beginning stages of dating unless you didn't really care for her.

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If we were exclusive ando it was still going on multiple years into the relationship, there's no doubt I'd divorce.


Okay, but that wasn't what OP said happened mr. hypothetical.

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There's no magic button where marriage suddenly changes the rules of your relationship other than locking them in for life with a heavy financial penalty. Cheating before or after that date is the same.


Marriage does suddenly change a bunch of shite, nor is it comparable to the beginning stages of dating. A lot of things can change in that time span.

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If you are married for 25 years, is cheating in year 5 okay?

Who said cheating was okay?

This post was edited on 1/25/17 at 5:00 am
Posted by KG6
Member since Aug 2009
10920 posts
Posted on 1/25/17 at 5:04 am to
The OP said the cheating happened 2 years into the relationship. Am I reading that wrong? That's a serious relationship. Some people are contemplating marriage at this time, shopping for rings. And she's boning other dudes still. That's not "the beginning stages of dating" anymore.
Posted by yellowfin
Coastal Bar
Member since May 2006
98767 posts
Posted on 1/25/17 at 5:13 am to
I'd probably try to work something out. Anything to keep our kids from being weird arse broken home children.

Definitely look at her different though
Posted by thelawnwranglers
Member since Sep 2007
42033 posts
Posted on 1/25/17 at 5:14 am to
A month or 2 in we got problems maybe not divorce

2 years in you were cheating and I moved on false pretenses we got problems

Asking her ex on Facebook though is sad
Posted by 13SaintTiger
Isle of Capri
Member since Sep 2011
18371 posts
Posted on 1/25/17 at 5:17 am to
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The OP said the cheating happened 2 years into the relationship. Am I reading that wrong?


Yes, you are reading it wrong. He said she cheated while they first started dating. He then went on to say they were in a long distance relationship for 2 years.
Posted by dglennLSUalways
Slidell. Louisiana
Member since Nov 2016
160 posts
Posted on 1/25/17 at 5:18 am to
You know what; what difference does it make. Trust issues are forever in any relationship. As it applies to men so is it with women, it only takes on average for a couple to be apart 45 mins and the clothes come off. Unless you see pictures or get caught in the act, it didn't happen. You need to give her kudos for being honest finally about sex with other men. You will know if she does it again. Just as women damn sure know when a man is cheating. It is basic instinct with women. During my marriage my wife could tell me how many minutes I talked to Jane Doe. Widow now so I get what I want when I want. Trust will be an issue if I choose to hook up with soul mate. So I wish myself good luck with the search.
Posted by tigerfan84
Member since Dec 2003
26016 posts
Posted on 1/25/17 at 5:18 am to
I would secretly do a paternity test on the kid
Posted by crispyUGA
Upstate SC
Member since Feb 2011
16244 posts
Posted on 1/25/17 at 5:36 am to
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This. Some other dude contacts me to ask about his girlfriend (especially on FaceBook) and I am just going to tell him to frick off. Why would he do that?



I would probably frick with the guy for being an insecure bitch.
Posted by LCA131
Home of the Fake Sig lines
Member since Feb 2008
76560 posts
Posted on 1/25/17 at 5:37 am to
If she was banging both guys at the time, is he certain the child is his?

On topic...if the child is his, without a doubt, try really hard to work things out.
Posted by thelawnwranglers
Member since Sep 2007
42033 posts
Posted on 1/25/17 at 5:42 am to
Doesn't matter kid is his now

No reason to open that Pandora box if not necessary
Posted by RhodeDawg
Delete my account
Member since Jun 2016
4450 posts
Posted on 1/25/17 at 5:44 am to
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I would secretly do a paternity test on the kid


X2
Posted by Ron Cheramie
The Cajun Hedgehog
Member since Aug 2016
5541 posts
Posted on 1/25/17 at 5:52 am to
Would depend on how good she is at making sandwiches.
Posted by Upperdecker
St. George, LA
Member since Nov 2014
32754 posts
Posted on 1/25/17 at 6:00 am to
Once a cheater, always a cheater. And this isn't one time either, this dude was getting it more regularly than your boy was
Posted by fightin tigers
Downtown Prairieville
Member since Mar 2008
76419 posts
Posted on 1/25/17 at 6:17 am to
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I would probably frick with the guy for being an insecure bitch.


Bitch move. Seriously, stay out of other people's relationships.
Posted by fightin tigers
Downtown Prairieville
Member since Mar 2008
76419 posts
Posted on 1/25/17 at 6:20 am to
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I would secretly do a paternity test on the kid




Really doesn't matter, unless the results determine if you leave her.

If he signed the birth certificate and the kid was born before the marriage, he will probably still be on the hook for something. Not to mention I hear it is hard to disown a kid once you have raised them as your own.
Posted by Awesome All Day
Plaquemine, La
Member since Jul 2011
823 posts
Posted on 1/25/17 at 6:24 am to
Need pics of the wife to make a more informed decision.
Posted by lsuhunt555
Teakwood Village Breh
Member since Nov 2008
38977 posts
Posted on 1/25/17 at 6:26 am to
I'd have a tough time dealing with that but that's just me.
Posted by BeerMoney
Baton Rouge
Member since Jul 2012
8795 posts
Posted on 1/25/17 at 6:26 am to
Yeah you definitely got to get a paternity test. I promise you that bitch was sweating whonthe pappy was especially if she got knocked up before the wedding proposal
Posted by CoachDon
Louisville
Member since Sep 2014
12409 posts
Posted on 1/25/17 at 6:32 am to
Some people get all up in arms when I post this, but I'm going to do it again as in years past...

ALL WOMEN ARE WHORES.

It is what it is. Trust her - naw, but it helps to remember what I just said. If he leaves, it just moves onto another whore. May as well stay due to time served and the kid.
Posted by LSUFanMizeWay
Picayune MS
Member since Sep 2014
6497 posts
Posted on 1/25/17 at 6:32 am to
He should think about divorce, one lie leads to many lies.
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