- My Forums
- Tiger Rant
- LSU Recruiting
- SEC Rant
- Saints Talk
- Pelicans Talk
- More Sports Board
- Fantasy Sports
- Golf Board
- Soccer Board
- O-T Lounge
- Tech Board
- Home/Garden Board
- Outdoor Board
- Health/Fitness Board
- Movie/TV Board
- Book Board
- Music Board
- Political Talk
- Money Talk
- Fark Board
- Gaming Board
- Travel Board
- Food/Drink Board
- Ticket Exchange
- TD Help Board
Customize My Forums- View All Forums
- Show Left Links
- Topic Sort Options
- Trending Topics
- Recent Topics
- Active Topics
Started By
Message
re: married men with female friends- possible??
Posted on 12/27/24 at 2:14 pm to Oates Mustache
Posted on 12/27/24 at 2:14 pm to Oates Mustache
quote:
Lastly, two attractive people are biologically programmed to want to have sex. Alcohol is where the logical little shoulder man gets killed and lust takes over.
This last part is huge. It’s absolute arrogance to claim the biological draw of attractive people to desire to procreate with each other applies to everyone else but you. They’re literally saying biology doesn’t apply to them.
1
Posted on 12/27/24 at 2:16 pm to lsu777
Does not work....a flame to be avoided and I love the company of women
Posted on 12/27/24 at 2:25 pm to JiminyCricket
quote:
They’re literally saying biology doesn’t apply to them.
No, we are saying that we’ve had enough sex to know how you feel in the lead up, during the act, and after. And know that it’s not worth it. And then realizing that, deciding to be friends.
The thing a lot of you, I’m going to assume guys who have no had much interaction with women aside from trying to frick them, is that the deeper you get into an actual friendship with a female, you learn things that can sometimes make you not be inclined to have sex with another person.
This post was edited on 12/27/24 at 2:26 pm
Posted on 12/27/24 at 2:27 pm to Odysseus32
quote:
. And know that it’s not worth it. And then realizing that, deciding to be friends.
Posted on 12/27/24 at 2:33 pm to Odysseus32
You are right…I didn’t nor do I now get friend zoned.
And I’m old enough to have seen this kind of shite lead to some bad things with acquaintances that I have
And I’m old enough to have seen this kind of shite lead to some bad things with acquaintances that I have
Posted on 12/27/24 at 2:34 pm to lsu777
quote:
You are right…I didn’t nor do I now get friend zoned. And I’m old enough to have seen this kind of shite lead to some bad things with acquaintances that I have
It’s pretty fricking easy to not cheat on your wife. Just don’t, it’s that simple.
If someone can’t talk to a woman without wanting to frick them they need to work on their impulse control. Simple minded dumbasses
Posted on 12/27/24 at 2:34 pm to Odysseus32
Cmon now. If human beings were good at being objective in matters of emotion like anger and lust, the world would be a much different place. To pretend that someone can have enough sex to suddenly no longer be vulnerable to poor decision making in that area is a joke.
Posted on 12/27/24 at 2:35 pm to Mingo Was His NameO
You’re grossly misrepresenting the point people are making. Talking to women and connecting with a woman when you’re married to another are vastly different things. There are boundaries there for a reason.
This post was edited on 12/27/24 at 2:37 pm
Posted on 12/27/24 at 2:36 pm to JiminyCricket
quote:
f human beings were good at being objective in matters of emotion like anger and lust, the world would be a much different place.
Think about how stupid the average person is… and then remember half are more stupid than that
Posted on 12/27/24 at 2:37 pm to Mingo Was His NameO
So you agree then it’s a terrible idea for people to tempt fate considering how dumb we can be, right?
Posted on 12/27/24 at 2:38 pm to AndyJ
No man would take the time to write all of that shite
Posted on 12/27/24 at 2:39 pm to JiminyCricket
quote:
So you agree then it’s a terrible idea for people to tempt fate considering how dumb we can be, right?
Yall sure, most of you have proven yourself retarded.
Me, no, I have impulse control
Posted on 12/27/24 at 2:41 pm to Mingo Was His NameO
We aren’t talking about conversation with co worker or wife’s friend etc, we are talking hanging out just you and her…no wife or husband around…or going to dinner or texting/calling all the time to confide in
An actual friend
An actual friend
Posted on 12/27/24 at 2:43 pm to Mingo Was His NameO
quote:
Yall sure, most of you have proven yourself retarded.
Look, after you get married you cant go around fingering every broad you meet on the subway mejo.
Posted on 12/27/24 at 2:46 pm to Odysseus32
quote:
No, we are saying that we’ve had enough sex
Posted on 12/27/24 at 2:47 pm to Oates Mustache
quote:
The situation matters as always here. Are you taking trips with these women without your wife? Having one on one text conversations, Facebook messenger? Do you talk with these women about sensitive topics typically reserved for someone like your wife like love/sex? Go to lunch or dinner with these women without your wife?
These are the very things that foster cheating and one that can start out innocent but then grow. These are the situations you don't out yourself in. Eventually, that relationship moves to the sexual realm of the woman is remotely attractive.
I would add, flat out, that I consider some thing cheating that arent sexual. There are aspects of my life that are reserved for my wife and wife alone and there are ways to connect with someone emotionally and through conversation that cross a line in my marriage.
Others may not consider that to be the case, but for me it exists.
for me, it would be really hard to have a meaningful friendship that wouldnt get too close to this line for my comfort.
Acquaintance... sure. Friend, not likely
Posted on 12/27/24 at 2:48 pm to Odysseus32
quote:
sometimes make you not be inclined to have sex with another person.
Or you learn enough about that female not to ever want to frick her.
Posted on 12/27/24 at 2:49 pm to upstate
quote:
I would add, flat out, that I consider some thing cheating that arent sexual. There are aspects of my life that are reserved for my wife and wife alone and there are ways to connect with someone emotionally and through conversation that cross a line in my marriage. Others may not consider that to be the case, but for me it exists. for me, it would be really hard to have a meaningful friendship that wouldnt get too close to this line for my comfort. Acquaintance... sure. Friend, not likely
This is some no shite Sherlock stuff.
Yall make it out like you spill your damn guts to people all the time. I have like 8 guys that I would consider good friends. The rest of my “friends” I see or talk to when it’s convenient, including women.
Posted on 12/27/24 at 2:56 pm to lsu777
I have a good female friend from HS I keep in touch with. We typically talk about kids and work/career and parents/siblings. We complain about our in-laws. We update each other on our significant others' lives but we do not talk about our respective relationships with them.
We often meet up for dinner or lunch or something when we're both back home for the holidays. I've met her husband and even stayed at their house. She hasn't met my wife, but my wife knows all about her. We just got a Christmas card from her and her family today, and my wife has no issues with it. We sent them one, too.
We often meet up for dinner or lunch or something when we're both back home for the holidays. I've met her husband and even stayed at their house. She hasn't met my wife, but my wife knows all about her. We just got a Christmas card from her and her family today, and my wife has no issues with it. We sent them one, too.
This post was edited on 12/27/24 at 2:59 pm
Posted on 12/27/24 at 2:58 pm to Mingo Was His NameO
I wouldnt consider that a friend.
Im talking about someone that I hold in a close relationship, someone that I will actually go through life phases with and keep up with. I dont think one of the 8 people you consider to be a good friend would be a female for me.
all others, sure I would call them friends, but really they are acquaintances to some extent
Im talking about someone that I hold in a close relationship, someone that I will actually go through life phases with and keep up with. I dont think one of the 8 people you consider to be a good friend would be a female for me.
all others, sure I would call them friends, but really they are acquaintances to some extent
Page 8 of 14
Popular
Back to top
Follow TigerDroppings for LSU Football News