re: Life changes quick

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I found out I’ve been getting jodied by a Puerto Rican that works in one the clinics that she goes to.

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So, she's a cheating whore. You aren't losing anything.

shite I’m in the house, she went to live with her mother and stepdad in a 2 bedroom trailer. Talk about a crowded shitshow when the kids visit her

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she went to live with her mother and stepdad in a 2 bedroom trailer

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Damn. She wanted to get away from you that bad, huh?

Oh that’s where she’s sleeping. They only live like 2 miles from our house and Jody lives down in Kenner. She goes to his house for a while after work when she works at the Laplace clinic, which is once or twice a week. She gets off at 4 and won’t get home til 830-9. She a traveling hoe. And yea I guess she wanted to get away that bad. I thought we were fine other than some communication issues. We didn’t talk about things that were bothering us we just kinda swept them under the rug until it would all come out a couple months later.

Where did I say I don’t know why?

you’re op. you said it in the op.

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Wife just informed me she wants a divorce... hell I’m to tired to even ask why...

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ah. i see. i’m going to bed.

Getting Divorced Checklist

Retain an attorney. Again...
Retain an attorney.

Immediate action items:
1) Secure and/or change all passwords. End all open sessions of social media. Make all of this private.
2) On your cell phone bill-if you have a joint account- pay the extra $ for detailed billing. Document communications with Jody.
3) If you are a W-9 employee and have direct deposit- change this. Open a new account at a different bank and deposit your salary there.Transfer money for shelter, transportation, children as necessary. Establish a new checking account with an address that is not your home address. (If she has access to your mail then you don’t have control)
4) Have a detailed copy of your tax returns going back 4-5 years.
5) Change mailing address/ enable paperless documents w/ new passwords for financial accounts.
6) Reduce/eliminate 401k contributions until judgement of divorce. IRA’s are ok to continue.
7) Inventory your home like you would for homeowners/flood insurance.
8) She has a window of opportunity to wreck your credit. Don’t let her.
9) Document, Document, Document Jody...even if it’s simply location tracking of her whereabouts. This will come into play for spousal support payments.
10) File first. Establish the date of separation... every day does count.

This list is a 4:30 in the morning checklist and is put together from my own and friends experiences...it’s not meant to be complete- just a starting point. Divorce is about property, money and control. You gotta be on your toes or else you’ll get screwed.

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Nope... had a great day and everything...

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We joke a lot about Jody on here, but sounds like that’s what’s happening in your case if she’s not even upset.

Sounds like true love if you don't care.