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re: Life and Choices
Posted on 1/15/25 at 11:04 am to DD_Rolltide
Posted on 1/15/25 at 11:04 am to DD_Rolltide
Got a wife and kids in Baltimore, jack
I went out for a ride and I never went back
I went out for a ride and I never went back
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Posted on 1/15/25 at 11:05 am to DD_Rolltide
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She's beautiful and a great human to boot, I have nothing to complain about but I'm in a mid-life crisis I think.
You can encourage her into some unhealthy habits and play the waiting game.
Posted on 1/15/25 at 11:07 am to OysterPoBoy
You've had some great ideas so far. 
Posted on 1/15/25 at 11:07 am to DD_Rolltide
I mean, you’re either going to stay put or not. 
It’s not unreasonable to want to relocate to a more desirable location, but something’s got to give.
It’s not unreasonable to want to relocate to a more desirable location, but something’s got to give. 
Posted on 1/15/25 at 11:08 am to DD_Rolltide
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but I don't want to spend another minute up here.
ultimatums usually go over well in marriages
try it
Posted on 1/15/25 at 11:18 am to DD_Rolltide
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You are the breadwinner, and have the means to do whatever, but don't want to be a total a-hole and say it's my time now.
Why wouldn't you just buy a vacation home and do that a few times throughout the year?
Posted on 1/15/25 at 11:24 am to DD_Rolltide
I’m considering doing this now to be honest. Might even semi-retire this year before I hit 45. Watching my childhood hero systematically annihilated by mankind’s most vicious super predator ten years ahead of schedule has made me question what I am doing.
This post was edited on 1/15/25 at 11:24 am
Posted on 1/15/25 at 11:36 am to Salmon
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Buy a vacation home. Spend time down there together. Either she comes around or you realize its not as you imagined.
Highly recommend. Did this four years ago and have a happy wife and happy life. Worth every dollar.
Posted on 1/15/25 at 12:21 pm to DD_Rolltide
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If you had the money and the freedom to start again and leave your life, everything behind, would you start again?
Absolutely. I wouldn’t give it a second thought.
Posted on 1/15/25 at 12:23 pm to DD_Rolltide
Posted on 1/15/25 at 12:24 pm to DD_Rolltide
Trust your intuition and listen to your conscience.
Posted on 1/15/25 at 12:54 pm to DD_Rolltide
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I've had a dream from my youngest years to live on the Gulf, a little condo
If you talking Gilf of Mexico.... I'd stop right there. Unless you love high insurance for hurricanes and rebuilding every now and then, I'd just live someplace you can deal with and roll out to a VRBO or AIR B&B to help scratch that gulf life itch.
Posted on 1/15/25 at 1:01 pm to DD_Rolltide
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to live on the Gulf, a little condo with a simple gas grill out on the porch, grilling fresh fish and charbroiling oysters on the nightly, all while drinking a few ice cold beers from the cooler.
Big Jimmy Buffett fan, aintcha
Posted on 1/15/25 at 1:16 pm to DD_Rolltide
Downsize your current home
Buy a small vacation home in Florida
Go on vacation whenever you want, solo or with spouse
Problem solved
Buy a small vacation home in Florida
Go on vacation whenever you want, solo or with spouse
Problem solved
Posted on 1/15/25 at 1:22 pm to DD_Rolltide
Mid life crisis.
It will pass. Don't do anything stupid until it does.
It will pass. Don't do anything stupid until it does.
Posted on 1/15/25 at 1:26 pm to SouthernInsanity
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Gilf of Mexico
That’s Gulf of AMERICA you libtard
Posted on 1/15/25 at 1:36 pm to DD_Rolltide
You only have 1 life and it goes fast, really fast. Don't waste it and don't be miserable either. Pack up and head the frick out!!
Posted on 1/15/25 at 1:43 pm to DD_Rolltide
Then your at a crossroads and just say your fricked!! Bc if she is a great human and beautiful your not going anywhere buddy!! Put your big boy pants on and start figuring out how to embrace that Yankee life!! Lmfao
Goodluck
Goodluck
Posted on 1/15/25 at 1:45 pm to DD_Rolltide
When my oldest 3 kids were 2 years old and new born twins, a guy told me to ditch my family before the kids could remember me and move to SE Asia and settle down with a local.
He has 2 adult children and ex wife in California that he hasn’t seen or had contact with in almost 30 years.
Seemed content with his “choice” in life but was a very hostile/aggressive person.
He has 2 adult children and ex wife in California that he hasn’t seen or had contact with in almost 30 years.
Seemed content with his “choice” in life but was a very hostile/aggressive person.
Posted on 1/15/25 at 1:49 pm to DD_Rolltide
Nothing like the peace of being home even after 40 years. Sometimes your wife, ie basically nothing but your business partner in marriage and parenting, just wants to be elsewhere. Ask God to send you where he wants you and patiently wait. The answer will become apparent over time.
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