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re: Kissing your child on the lips (hello/goodbye kiss)
Posted on 8/13/15 at 1:47 pm to Salmon
Posted on 8/13/15 at 1:47 pm to Salmon
quote:My exact thoughts reading this thread.
I thinks it really weird and almost creepy that anyone could think a peck on the lips between a child and a parent as anything other than a sweet sign of affection
If it's just not your thing, i get it. But to those posting that it's weird thinking of it in the sexual way, my very 1st thought was to think how creepy it is for them to think that way.
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Posted on 8/13/15 at 1:54 pm to shel311
If the kid is semi-grown up then it can be pretty weird imo. Don't let opinions of others dictate what you do, but at the same time you need to be aware of how others perceive you. My main question is, why on the lips? Why not just on the cheek?
Posted on 8/13/15 at 1:56 pm to shel311
And I thought I was done with this thread...I know this reading comprehension thing is tough for some of you folks.
Kissing on the lips is widely considered a "sexual act". Is it not?
This is why we don't run around kissing each other's wifes on the lips. Even if it's just to show some affection.
Nobody said they were looking at in a sexual way, but the act of kissing others on the lips as an adult is predominately done in a sexual manner. This is why most people stop doing this with their loved ones when they reach an age of understanding. As adults, most people show each other affection by hugging and kissing on the cheeks.
Is it wrong, nah, but many find it strange. If you don't, good for you. You're enlightened well beyond my closed mind.
Kissing on the lips is widely considered a "sexual act". Is it not?
This is why we don't run around kissing each other's wifes on the lips. Even if it's just to show some affection.
Nobody said they were looking at in a sexual way, but the act of kissing others on the lips as an adult is predominately done in a sexual manner. This is why most people stop doing this with their loved ones when they reach an age of understanding. As adults, most people show each other affection by hugging and kissing on the cheeks.
Is it wrong, nah, but many find it strange. If you don't, good for you. You're enlightened well beyond my closed mind.
Posted on 8/13/15 at 1:58 pm to Lock,Stock
quote:I just don't see a difference, to be 100% honest.
My main question is, why on the lips? Why not just on the cheek?
Posted on 8/13/15 at 1:59 pm to Pecker
Daughters on lips sons on check. Always have always will.
Posted on 8/13/15 at 2:02 pm to LSUAfro
quote:With your children, no it is not. Quite the opposite, in fact.
Kissing on the lips is widely considered a "sexual act". Is it not?
quote:You just spent an entire post talking about kissing on the lips being considered sexual, so that's confusing. If you don't look at it in a sexual way, I just don't see what is strange about it.
Nobody said they were looking at in a sexual way
Posted on 8/13/15 at 2:04 pm to cuyahoga tiger
If anyone finds this odd then you need to look in the mirror. It's disturbing to me that people would find this weird in any way. I have 2 daughters 5 and 6, and a son who is almost 2. I will continue kiss them on the lips and not think anything other than the sweet gesture it is.
I'm a grown arse man and I kissed my dad until the day he died. Not once did I find it odd.
I'm a grown arse man and I kissed my dad until the day he died. Not once did I find it odd.
Posted on 8/13/15 at 2:06 pm to shel311
quote:
With your children, no it is not. Quite the opposite, in fact.
Ok. For every other person in the world it would be considered a sexual act. My apologies I Didn't clarify
quote:
You just spent an entire post talking about kissing on the lips being considered sexual, so that's confusing. If you don't look at it in a sexual way, I just don't see what is strange about it.
I'm sorry you were unable to understand my point.
This post was edited on 8/13/15 at 2:07 pm
Posted on 8/13/15 at 2:08 pm to musick
quote:
I'm a grown arse man and I kissed my dad until the day he died. Not once did I find it odd.
On the lips? That is odd.
Posted on 8/13/15 at 2:08 pm to LSUAfro
quote:
Ok. For every other person in the world it would be considered a sexual act. My apologies I Didn't clarify.
This isn't true. It's only a sexual act to you when you read that into it. It doesn't change that it's actually NOT.
So when I kissed my 82 year old grandma a month before she died in basically her deathbed and told her I loved her, that was sexual?
Cmon man.
This post was edited on 8/13/15 at 2:11 pm
Posted on 8/13/15 at 2:09 pm to LSUAfro
quote:But it's not every other person in the world, so that's irrelevant. You even said it's not that you viewed it as sexual, so...
Ok. For every other person in the world it would be considered a sexual act. My apologies I Didn't clarify
quote:I'm sorry it wasn't understandable.
I'm sorry you were unable to understand my point.
Posted on 8/13/15 at 2:09 pm to LSUAfro
quote:
On the lips? That is odd.
Why because we are both guys and you are hinting that me showing affection to my father who I loved dearly and was my best friend is somehow a gay sexual act now?
Who is the odd one here? It's you man.
This post was edited on 8/13/15 at 2:11 pm
Posted on 8/13/15 at 2:10 pm to LSUAfro
quote:
Kissing on the lips is widely considered a "sexual act". Is it not?
a peck? no
I don't consider a peck to be a sexual act, even between adults
I consider it a sign of affection
I don't do sexual acts in front of other people with my wife. I'll give her a peck on the lips though in front of other people.
Posted on 8/13/15 at 2:12 pm to LSUAfro
quote:Sure about that? read the last few replies.
For every other person in the world it would be considered a sexual act
This post was edited on 8/13/15 at 2:12 pm
Posted on 8/13/15 at 2:12 pm to Pecker
I dont have kids, but I dont have anything wrong with it. Personally, just how I am with my nieces/nephews, Ill do it while they still toddlers/babies, but when they grow up to be school age it will probably phase out.
Side note, my mom still likes to kiss me on the lips. I try to avoid that as much as possible. Does she know how much vagina these lips have been in?
Side note, my mom still likes to kiss me on the lips. I try to avoid that as much as possible. Does she know how much vagina these lips have been in?
Posted on 8/13/15 at 2:12 pm to Pecker
I dont have kids, but I dont have anything wrong with it. Personally, just how I am with my nieces/nephews, Ill do it while they still toddlers/babies, but when they grow up to be school age it will probably phase out.
Side note, my mom still likes to kiss me on the lips. I try to avoid that as much as possible. Does she know how much vagina these lips have been in?
Side note, my mom still likes to kiss me on the lips. I try to avoid that as much as possible. Does she know how much vagina these lips have been in?
Posted on 8/13/15 at 2:17 pm to musick
quote:
Who is the odd one here? It's you man.
That's fine. But you're not normal either. Well hell...I can only say that it is extremely rare for me to see folks kissing their children of age on the lips.
So y'all can fight the good fight and call it normal, but it sure as hell isn't something that is widely displayed in public...and there's a reason for that whether y'all want to admit it or not.
I understand it, but I find it odd. That is all.
Posted on 8/13/15 at 2:18 pm to LSUAfro
quote:
But you're not normal either.
You have a shitload of posts in this thread trying to convince us that you're normal but methinks the lady doth protest too much.
Posted on 8/13/15 at 2:18 pm to shel311
quote:
Sure about that? read the last few replies.
Yes, Salmon is a hippy. He thinks everybody is family. That doesn't count.
Posted on 8/13/15 at 2:19 pm to junkfunky
quote:
You have a shitload of posts in this thread trying to convince us that you're normal but methinks the lady doth protest too much.
Maybe so...slow day at work.
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