re: Is using the handicap stall, when other stalls are available, trashy?

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I was so fricking embarrassed.

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After your comments in the gay orgy thread, this surprises me greatly.

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He snapped at me "You go use the regular bathrooms next time!

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I'd have snapped back "You can frickin' wait." Unless his anus had lost all tone, he can hold it. You might be the poster to check that out.

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After your comments in the gay orgy thread, this surprises me greatly.

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I'm a decent person with normal emotions and responses.

I'm just more open minded and curious to sub cultures in my community with which I don't have routine interaction. Carpe Diem. I got to see a gay orgy. wooo!

One week in Canada in 2002 I spent my days working at a mill and every night with these two sisters who were complete losers living off the government and paper mill contractors to buy them booze and food. The whole town knew them as such and a bartender tried to warn me about them 'using men for food and booze'. But I was getting a ton from the relationship. I love immersing myself in that kind of environment to study and observe. Fascinating stuff. These two useless skanks had like 100 vhs tapes they had stolen over the years from a video store. They sat around all day and night eating leftover fast food, smoking cigs, and watching these movies. I would never live my life like that but it was interesting to see that shite firsthand for 4 days. I still remember where they lived. That first door on side of the multiplex. Downstairs basement apartment thingy.
Them Skanky Canadian Sisters' apartment on Gmaps

CSB I know but I can prove that I don't just enjoy watching gay orgies.

So yes. I was embarrassed as hell when a legit handicapped person was waiting on me to finish ma poop in the handicapped bathroom.

you are right, they are not a protected class. but a little bit of help makes an enormous difference. a handicap stall allows a wheelchair person to roll in, shut the door, maneuver to the right position and transfer to the crapper. a non handicap stall, the person has to get out of wheelchair outside of door, and shuffle the six feet through if able, with a missing leg or paralysis below the waist, without bars to hold on to. standing up to reverse the process is not possible without hand holds. slipping to floor during the process will likely take 911 call for emt's assistance. a short wait while previous occupant finishes up is expected and should not be a problem. previous occupant reading a book, texting, newspaper, cell phoning etc is a problem because there is no other place.

what would you do if there is only one crapper and the current occupant has kept for 30 min while you were standing there