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Is someone holding a gun to your head and telling you they’ll kill you grounds for a PO?

Posted on 9/25/21 at 12:29 pm
Posted by Paige
Vice President of the OT
Member since Oct 2010
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Posted on 9/25/21 at 12:29 pm
My sister’s ex bf did this a week ago. She just filed an eviction notice but it takes 5 days. Meanwhile he’s free to come and go and steal her things

There’s an extensive history of domestic violence. The small town cop told her they can’t do anything until he hurts her again. This makes no sense to me
Posted by crimsonsaint
Member since Nov 2009
37247 posts
Posted on 9/25/21 at 12:32 pm to
PO? Should be able to get a restraining order.
Posted by Kcrad
Diamondhead
Member since Nov 2010
54808 posts
Posted on 9/25/21 at 12:33 pm to
Holding a gun to someone's head is usually illegal. I would pursue that angle.
Posted by MoarKilometers
Member since Apr 2015
17873 posts
Posted on 9/25/21 at 12:34 pm to
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Holding a gun to someone's head is usually illegal. I would pursue that angle.

Seriously... leads me to believe it's all a lie.
Posted by The Spleen
Member since Dec 2010
38865 posts
Posted on 9/25/21 at 12:34 pm to
Sounds like the ex bf has some friends on the police force, because that's illegal and is grounds for immediate arrest.
This post was edited on 9/25/21 at 12:35 pm
Posted by VirgilCaine
Orchard Park
Member since Dec 2010
2864 posts
Posted on 9/25/21 at 12:35 pm to
.38 special and lots of target practice. She’ll be alright.
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
259902 posts
Posted on 9/25/21 at 12:37 pm to
quote:

The small town cop told her they can’t do anything until he hurts her


Not true. He could be in jail right now for what he did.
Posted by kengel2
Team Gun
Member since Mar 2004
30684 posts
Posted on 9/25/21 at 12:37 pm to
Its time for her to move.

Seriously, she needs to leave and not tell him where she is going.
Posted by fightin tigers
Downtown Prairieville
Member since Mar 2008
73674 posts
Posted on 9/25/21 at 12:38 pm to
Why would she stay somewhere that someone who tried to kill her can freely come and go?
Posted by Water
Louisiana
Member since Jan 2020
729 posts
Posted on 9/25/21 at 12:40 pm to
Restraining order and possibly criminal charges. Seriously do not treat this as a not serious matter. Possibly contact a local domestic abuse shelter or counselor for help with legal things if needed.

I have personally had good good experiences with DART in Louisiana. So if you can find a group like that near your sister.
Posted by Gris Gris
OTIS!NO RULES FOR SAUCES ON STEAK!!
Member since Feb 2008
47359 posts
Posted on 9/25/21 at 12:41 pm to
quote:

There’s an extensive history of domestic violence.


Why doesn't she have a PO already? Did she take him back after the other incidents?

quote:

My sister’s ex bf did this a week ago. She just filed an eviction notice but it takes 5 days. Meanwhile he’s free to come and go and steal her things



If he's an ex, was he still living at her place?
Posted by sparkinator
Lake Claiborne
Member since Dec 2007
4458 posts
Posted on 9/25/21 at 12:42 pm to
She probably didn’t have a mask on so definitely justified.

And coming to a neighborhood near EVERYONE!
Posted by Rick9Plus
Baton Rouge
Member since Jul 2020
1701 posts
Posted on 9/25/21 at 12:43 pm to
I’ve seen people get them for verbal threats.
Posted by justice
Member since Feb 2006
54546 posts
Posted on 9/25/21 at 12:45 pm to
quote:

he small town cop told her they can’t do anything until he hurts her again.
what?
Posted by Paige
Vice President of the OT
Member since Oct 2010
84748 posts
Posted on 9/25/21 at 12:45 pm to
Protective order/restraining order

Yes that’s what I’m asking. I’m think this idiot doesn’t know what he’s talking about and she should pursue it with the sheriff’s office
Posted by Paige
Vice President of the OT
Member since Oct 2010
84748 posts
Posted on 9/25/21 at 12:47 pm to
Definitely not a lie

She asked me to stay on the phone with her while she packed because she was terrified and he was yelling at her telling her to get off the phone and get her daughter out of the room and she said no you threatened me with a gun to blow my brains out I’m not gonna be alone with you. I could hear him and he didn’t deny it
Posted by TigerOnTheMountain
Higher Elevation
Member since Oct 2014
41773 posts
Posted on 9/25/21 at 12:47 pm to
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My sister


Pics?
Posted by Paige
Vice President of the OT
Member since Oct 2010
84748 posts
Posted on 9/25/21 at 12:48 pm to
Thank you!

I forgot about dart! I got a restraining order through them before
Posted by Cosmo
glassman's guest house
Member since Oct 2003
120170 posts
Posted on 9/25/21 at 12:49 pm to
Why do you and your sister choose abusive men?
This post was edited on 9/25/21 at 12:49 pm
Posted by Lee Beauregard
NOLA
Member since May 2018
503 posts
Posted on 9/25/21 at 12:49 pm to
quote:

Is someone holding a gun to your head and telling you they’ll kill you


Does he have any felonies?
If so the gun is cause for arrest in itself
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