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Is it still cheating?
Posted on 2/8/20 at 10:18 pm
Posted on 2/8/20 at 10:18 pm
Saw one of those stupid Judge Wapner types of shows the other day that had an interesting case.
Dude had been married to his wife for 10 years when she got into a tragic auto accident. She's quadriplegic, can't talk, obviously no sex/dates/conversations, etc, and requires 24 hour care. Dude has stayed married to her so that she can stay on his insurance to get the care she needs.
Mother-in-law comes over to the house one day and discovers dude and the wife's caretaker are having an affair. MIL flips her shite talking about how he's disrespecting his wife.
The show had the caretaker suing the MIL for overtime pay (which is the only financial contribution the MIL makes), which is admittedly fricked up. The caretaker ended up losing.
What fricked me up is how the audience and the judge were all in this dude's shite like he was being a bad guy. I couldn't believe it. He said he still loved his wife but had to move on with his life best he could...he needed companionship.
Is the dude a bad guy in this? If your wife ended up like this while you're still young, do you follow your vows or do you find a way to keep yourself happy?
Dude had been married to his wife for 10 years when she got into a tragic auto accident. She's quadriplegic, can't talk, obviously no sex/dates/conversations, etc, and requires 24 hour care. Dude has stayed married to her so that she can stay on his insurance to get the care she needs.
Mother-in-law comes over to the house one day and discovers dude and the wife's caretaker are having an affair. MIL flips her shite talking about how he's disrespecting his wife.
The show had the caretaker suing the MIL for overtime pay (which is the only financial contribution the MIL makes), which is admittedly fricked up. The caretaker ended up losing.
What fricked me up is how the audience and the judge were all in this dude's shite like he was being a bad guy. I couldn't believe it. He said he still loved his wife but had to move on with his life best he could...he needed companionship.
Is the dude a bad guy in this? If your wife ended up like this while you're still young, do you follow your vows or do you find a way to keep yourself happy?
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Posted on 2/8/20 at 10:20 pm to mmmmmbeeer
This is some heavy shite for a Saturday night
Posted on 2/8/20 at 10:21 pm to mmmmmbeeer
In sickness and in health. Don’t get married if you aren’t going to do it
Posted on 2/8/20 at 10:21 pm to mmmmmbeeer
Didn’t read. If you start it with “is it still cheating”, then it is baw.
Posted on 2/8/20 at 10:22 pm to mmmmmbeeer
Don’t even want to think about being in that dude’s shoes.
Posted on 2/8/20 at 10:22 pm to mmmmmbeeer
Posted on 2/8/20 at 10:23 pm to Navajo61490
I’d want my spouse to stick around and take care of me but I wouldn’t want them to be miserable, either. I’d hope they could find some on the side and get it from somewhere.
Posted on 2/8/20 at 10:23 pm to BeerMoney
I guess a threesome was out of the question ?
Posted on 2/8/20 at 10:24 pm to mmmmmbeeer
Cheating or not, the husband could have picked someone other than the wife's caretaker to...ahem...relieve his tension.
Posted on 2/8/20 at 10:24 pm to Navajo61490
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In sickness and in health.
Posted on 2/8/20 at 10:24 pm to mmmmmbeeer
It’s still cheating , but wholly forgivable and understandable. The audience is just a bunch of holier than thou morons who ho themselves out on Grindr.
Posted on 2/8/20 at 10:24 pm to mmmmmbeeer
Yes
I also see his side of it but the dude is wrong for doing it in the house with the caretaker
Take that shite to a hotel with someone other than the person taking care of your disabled wife
I also see his side of it but the dude is wrong for doing it in the house with the caretaker
Take that shite to a hotel with someone other than the person taking care of your disabled wife
This post was edited on 2/8/20 at 10:30 pm
Posted on 2/8/20 at 10:26 pm to mmmmmbeeer
shite if i know but what you sure as fricking shite don't do is frick the gal taking care of your wife.
What a frickin' knucklehead.
What a frickin' knucklehead.
Posted on 2/8/20 at 10:28 pm to Kafka
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Kafka
That's actually a fairly profound thought from what looks to be a Family Circus cartoon
Posted on 2/8/20 at 10:29 pm to mmmmmbeeer
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Is it still cheating?
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married to his wife
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stayed married to her
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having an affair
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his wife
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said he still loved his wife
Selfish bastard should continue with no sex like the rest of us.
Posted on 2/8/20 at 10:30 pm to mmmmmbeeer
Every once in a while a man needs to get some stink on his Johnson
Posted on 2/8/20 at 10:31 pm to mmmmmbeeer
Why can’t he still have sex with her?
Posted on 2/8/20 at 10:36 pm to Mr Personality
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Why can’t he still have sex with her?
Oh, you're familiar with the Hoyer Lift paralyzed people use?
Posted on 2/8/20 at 10:48 pm to mmmmmbeeer
I don’t think you understand the vows that are exchanged during marriage.
Posted on 2/8/20 at 10:55 pm to mmmmmbeeer
Bless those that care for the disabled.
Extremely difficult and virtually never ending.
Extremely difficult and virtually never ending.
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