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re: Is It Socially Acceptable To Try To Make Friends With Someone On Social Media?

Posted on 3/28/17 at 7:54 pm to
Posted by OweO
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Posted on 3/28/17 at 7:54 pm to
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Isn't that what you did on Facebook to multiple posters on this board?




Yes..

Seriously, I think yall are missing the point. Its different on a message board because you sort of start to interact with people on a regular basis and over time you develop an e-friendship with them, but you only really know their online personality, which is how you associate with that person.

I am sure some of you jackasses are much cooler IRL (at least I hope so), but there is a "bond" that is formed, but everyone only associates with the personality behind the username. But if you came across someone on social media, yall had a few interactions.. And you see that you and that person seem to have things in common, would you send them a message being direct about wanting to be friends with them. For example, would you send them a message saying "what's going on. I see you are interested in __________________. That's cool because I am as well. You mind if we communicate with each other about this. Just to be clear, I would like to establish a friendship".
Posted by OweO
Plaquemine, La
Member since Sep 2009
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Posted on 3/28/17 at 7:56 pm to
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We used to go on Twitter all the time and just shoot the shite with people who had similar interests and such like model trains



Have you ever been those dudes who go out and watch real trains to count the number of cars they are pulling and see what they are hauling? Evidently this is a thing.
Posted by LSU fan 246
Member since Oct 2005
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Posted on 3/28/17 at 7:56 pm to
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For example, would you send them a message saying "what's going on. I see you are interested in __________________. That's cool because I am as well. You mind if we communicate with each other about this. Just to be clear, I would like to establish a friendship".


Yea. That's the exact message I would send them.
Posted by OweO
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Posted on 3/28/17 at 7:56 pm to
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OWLFAN86



Stop hijacking my thread loser.
Posted by Hammertime
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Posted on 3/28/17 at 7:57 pm to
You are about as awkward a mother fricker as it gets
Posted by Scooba
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Posted on 3/28/17 at 7:57 pm to
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runnintrains@aol.com


When I was in college we ran a completely different kind of train.
Posted by OWLFAN86
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Posted on 3/28/17 at 7:57 pm to
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I see you are interested in __________________. That's cool because I am as well. You mind if we communicate with each other about this. Just to be clear, I would like to establish a friendship".

OK OT ,, we have a game



Anal Insertion
would be my guess for oweo's hobby
Posted by LucasP
Member since Apr 2012
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Posted on 3/28/17 at 7:57 pm to
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Seriously, I think yall are missing the point. Its different on a message board because you sort of start to interact with people on a regular basis and over time you develop an e-friendship with them,


That's what I'm trying to say. We all come from different backgrounds and differing degrees of faith in the Holocaust myth that's been portrayed by the mainstream press, but we all find common ground on this website and others to talk about things we enjoy, granted that's mostly model train collecting but we do discuss other things. It would be nice to extend that connection to real life to share our interests outside of this narrow medium.
Posted by OweO
Plaquemine, La
Member since Sep 2009
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Posted on 3/28/17 at 7:58 pm to
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You are about as awkward a mother fricker as it gets




Dude, I am not asking because I want to do this...
Posted by Titus Pullo
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Posted on 3/28/17 at 7:59 pm to
If you have a chance to make a friend, regardless of how you do it, you should jump on it.
Posted by The Boat
Member since Oct 2008
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Posted on 3/28/17 at 8:00 pm to
Are you differentiating between a message board and social media like Facebook or Twitter? It sounds like that on page 4.

There's nothing weird about hooking up with people from a message board. It's weird to randomly add people on Facebook or Twitter trying to be their friends.
Posted by LucasP
Member since Apr 2012
21618 posts
Posted on 3/28/17 at 8:00 pm to
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Have you ever been those dudes who go out and watch real trains to count the number of cars they are pulling and see what they are hauling?


Dude don't try and force a connection, let it happen organically.
Posted by OweO
Plaquemine, La
Member since Sep 2009
114086 posts
Posted on 3/28/17 at 8:00 pm to
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If you have a chance to make a friend, regardless of how you do it, you should jump on it.



I do, but since I never had friend the idea of having one really scares me. Do you have any advice you can offer?
Posted by Hammertime
Will trade dowsing rod for titties
Member since Jan 2012
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Posted on 3/28/17 at 8:00 pm to
I'd rather walk right up and do it in person
Posted by OWLFAN86
The OT has made me richer
Member since Jun 2004
176366 posts
Posted on 3/28/17 at 8:02 pm to
friendship gives legs to life
Posted by Dorothy
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Posted on 3/28/17 at 8:06 pm to
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For example, would you send them a message saying "what's going on. I see you are interested in __________________. That's cool because I am as well. You mind if we communicate with each other about this. Just to be clear, I would like to establish a friendship".




That sounds kind of creepy, to be honest. I guess if you have mutual friends with similar interests it might be less awkward though.

Can't you just "follow" some of these people on some types of social media, without actually being a friend that they talk to IRL? They may end up following you back.
Posted by tgrbaitn08
Member since Dec 2007
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Posted on 3/28/17 at 8:09 pm to
I just want to say that this thread is a pathetic shite show
Posted by LucasP
Member since Apr 2012
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Posted on 3/28/17 at 8:09 pm to
How so?
Posted by Titus Pullo
MTDGA
Member since Feb 2011
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Posted on 3/28/17 at 8:10 pm to
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I'd rather walk


There's the catch.
Posted by tgrbaitn08
Member since Dec 2007
146214 posts
Posted on 3/28/17 at 8:10 pm to
Did you read the Op and the person that posted it?
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