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Is it rude to tell a neighbor You're tired of picking up their stuff?

Posted on 1/15/23 at 12:28 pm
Posted by LordSnow
Your Mom's House
Member since May 2011
5501 posts
Posted on 1/15/23 at 12:28 pm
You're tired of picking up their shite?
My across the cul de sac neighbor can't seem to keep their trash and recycling in their cans. Every week I'm picking shite up in my yard. This has been the case ever since I moved in. They also leave their cans at the road for weeks on end. How do I tactfully tell them to keep their shite in their cans.

Other than banging his wife.
This post was edited on 1/15/23 at 12:36 pm
Posted by Sabans straw hat
Member since May 2022
934 posts
Posted on 1/15/23 at 12:29 pm to
No, just be respectful until he isn't.
Posted by SEClint
New Orleans, LA/Portland, OR
Member since Nov 2006
48769 posts
Posted on 1/15/23 at 12:30 pm to
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Every week I'm picking shite up in my yard.
collect it up and leave it on their lawn for them.
Posted by SECSolomonGrundy
Slaughter Swamp
Member since Jun 2012
15845 posts
Posted on 1/15/23 at 12:30 pm to
Stop picking his shite up. If it goes in your yard, dump it back in the middle of his.
Posted by csorre1
Member since Apr 2010
6308 posts
Posted on 1/15/23 at 12:30 pm to
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Other than banging his wife.


You're going to have to frick him to make your point.
Posted by tgrmeat
Member since Sep 2020
4322 posts
Posted on 1/15/23 at 12:30 pm to
Depends on the tone more than anything
Posted by 777Tiger
Member since Mar 2011
73856 posts
Posted on 1/15/23 at 12:30 pm to
quote:

You're going to have to frick him to make your point.



was coming here to say that
Posted by deltaland
Member since Mar 2011
90506 posts
Posted on 1/15/23 at 12:31 pm to
Sorry you live in a trashy neighborhood
Posted by TDsngumbo
Alpha Silverfox
Member since Oct 2011
41545 posts
Posted on 1/15/23 at 12:31 pm to
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If it goes in your yard, dump it back in the middle of his.

This is surely the best way to handle the situation and will certainly result in a stronger friendship with said neighbor with zero chance of an escalation to a future ID episode of "Neighbor from Hell".
Posted by GRTiger
On a roof eating alligator pie
Member since Dec 2008
62854 posts
Posted on 1/15/23 at 12:32 pm to
Just figure out the root cause and figure out the solution. "Hey man, I figured out the trash problem" followed by a way to solve it. Force him in a neighborly way to accept that there is a problem without asking and bring the cure with you. Most men will take it from there.
Posted by Ricardo
Member since Sep 2016
4856 posts
Posted on 1/15/23 at 12:32 pm to
Hi, neighbor. I've noticed that a lot of your trash ends up in my yard. I don't want it there. Fix it.
Posted by TDsngumbo
Alpha Silverfox
Member since Oct 2011
41545 posts
Posted on 1/15/23 at 12:33 pm to
As someone who has dealt with a terrible neighbor who was clinically insane, I recommend that you do NOT escalate things and be super careful while walking this fine line. You never know someone's true colors until they are insulted. However you tell them, choose your words and your tone very carefully.
Posted by NCIS_76
Member since Jan 2021
5246 posts
Posted on 1/15/23 at 12:34 pm to
Put the trash in your hand or in a bag and walk over. Ask them how they are doing (casual conversation) but eventually bring up you have a problem with trash. Ask if they have the same problem, but stay cool with your attitude. But first, be sure they are at fault.
Posted by NPComb
Member since Jan 2019
27271 posts
Posted on 1/15/23 at 12:34 pm to
Why don’t you start with pics of said wife, before I give you my premium opinion.
Posted by Cymry Teigr
Member since Sep 2012
2100 posts
Posted on 1/15/23 at 12:35 pm to
Many places there are ordinances in effect prohibiting leaving the trash cans out permanently. If there’s one where you are report them and let the city or whatever deal with it.
Posted by GreatLakesTiger24
COINTELPRO Fan
Member since May 2012
55554 posts
Posted on 1/15/23 at 12:35 pm to
Why doesn’t the HOA handle it?
Posted by LordSnow
Your Mom's House
Member since May 2011
5501 posts
Posted on 1/15/23 at 12:36 pm to
quote:

Why doesn’t the HOA handle it?


No Hoa here.
Posted by Gee Grenouille
Bogalusa
Member since Jul 2018
4742 posts
Posted on 1/15/23 at 12:56 pm to
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They also leave their cans at the road for weeks on end.


do you happen to have a truck with a brush guard?
Posted by Doctor Grind
Las Vegas
Member since Jan 2022
204 posts
Posted on 1/15/23 at 1:02 pm to
Run his dog over
Posted by FemaleTiger
neverneverland
Member since Jul 2008
807 posts
Posted on 1/15/23 at 1:02 pm to
I have the same exact problem. I've spoken to them about it but they don't care.

They leave their garbage cans by the road 24/7. The wind blows them over and their trash winds up in my yard.

BTW, they're horrible people.
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