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re: Is divorce now a group decision?

Posted on 3/12/19 at 9:29 am to
Posted by DemonKA3268
Parts Unknown
Member since Oct 2015
21095 posts
Posted on 3/12/19 at 9:29 am to
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Less than .002% of marriages would last if women were actually as described on the OT
Of course. Everyone's situation is different. What some have seen and experienced is different than your own experiences.
Posted by ZappBrannigan
Member since Jun 2015
7692 posts
Posted on 3/12/19 at 9:52 am to
It's more likely stress of raising 4 girls and keeping up with the Joneses.

The wife and I are happy, neither of us believe in God. We enjoy our corner of the Earth. And when we have a niece for the weekend I take her to Mass because if I gotta go to church I'm not spending all morning at a heathen Baptist "donation" drive.

Also it amuses the frick out of me for this little girl to belt out the hymns.
Posted by SoulGlo
Shinin' Through
Member since Dec 2011
17248 posts
Posted on 3/12/19 at 10:11 am to
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And I certainly think the first one making a decision gave the other two confidence to make their decisions.


Happens with cheating too. If one cheated, at least one more would have as well
Posted by dawgsjlw
shite hole with your momma
Member since Sep 2014
826 posts
Posted on 3/12/19 at 10:51 am to
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many times she doesn't have time b/c she gets burdened with all of the housework and dealing with kids

the OP (and most comments) seem to discuss a situation where the man earns/works a lot more, which means the wife will have disproportionate house work
Why can't the woman get a better job? Why does she have to limit herself to a low paying job? Why can't the kids do any cleaning? I know when I got 7 or 8 and older, I had to clean up and stuff. I just don't get why the woman has to have the lower paying job and has to do all the work?

In fact, staying at home to watch the kids and clean up the house is easy as frick. Way easier than working a real job sweating your arse off in the summer and freezing in the winter.
Posted by BurningHeart
Member since Jan 2017
9956 posts
Posted on 3/12/19 at 11:14 am to
Women also tend to hold in their unhappiness rather than identify the source of it and work to change it early.

They let it build and build over time until they can't stand it anymore and do something drastic like get a divorce.

Posted by Tiger985
Member since Nov 2006
7444 posts
Posted on 3/12/19 at 11:16 am to
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. You think your kids want to see your crappy marriage??? If anything get a damn divorce for the kids.


Crappy marriage or divorce aren't the only options.

Kids want the adults in their lives to get their shite together and keep their families together.

Divorce is not good for anyone especially children.

Divorce is terrible. Divorce is far too prevalent.
Posted by jchamil
Member since Nov 2009
18775 posts
Posted on 3/12/19 at 11:21 am to
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In fact, staying at home to watch the kids and clean up the house is easy as frick.


frick that. I've got a 2 year old and a 2 week old at home. Working is definitely easier than staying home all day with that
Posted by G Khan
the basin
Member since Mar 2007
521 posts
Posted on 3/12/19 at 4:26 pm to
Bunch of this thread rings true.

Its scary.
Posted by AZBadgerFan
Scottsdale, AZ
Member since May 2013
1801 posts
Posted on 3/12/19 at 4:32 pm to
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I have found a golden rule. If the woman has lifelong friends, both guys and girls....she is a keeper. If a woman or man have transient friendships it reveals a character flaw


Damn good rule to follow
Posted by 99BLKBRD
Member since Mar 2015
575 posts
Posted on 3/12/19 at 9:27 pm to
My ex had s life long friend encouraging her to divorce me because we were doing well in life. Don’t underestimate the jealousy of a woman.
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