re: If your gf cheated on you with some baw, would you be mad at him?

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It depends. Did he know she was seeing someone? In that case, yeah, there is some degree of animosity.

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I can see that, though I think it would be minimal unless you and the guy had an ongoing friendship. That guy should feel disappointed in himself, though. I put myself in that situation once and it is one of the things in my life I am most ashamed of. I was in my mid 20s and she was 10 years older. Felt like I got played a bit afterwards.

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If she was just a lying whore, and he had no idea, then we very well could be bros.

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Hmm, depends on the pain of the betrayal, even still. Wouldn't be anything personal, just wouldn't want the reminder.

If he’s anything more than an acquaintance I’d be pissed, but that’s it. I can’t blame a stranger for seeing a hot chick by herself and shooting his shot. He doesn’t know me or owe me anything.

Honestly, if you want a high quality chick for yourself you’re going to have to shoulder some other guys (bf or hopeful) out of the way to get her. Quality chicks just don’t stay single on the market for any amount of time.

After the fact and I didn’t know him , then I probably wouldn’t worry about it. But if if I catch in the act one of us is getting our arse beat

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I don’t really understand getting mad at the other person

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depends on who the other person is. If it's a good friend or a family member then I would be much angrier than if it was just some random dude.

If he knew she had a boyfriend, the cheating occurred in my house, or he mouthed off once confronted about it, yes, i would fill the street with uppercut. If he had no idea, and was respectful, i would thank him for helping me dump the cheating hag.