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re: If you had a chance to get back with an ex, would you?
Posted on 11/14/16 at 2:27 pm to Spaceman Spiff
Posted on 11/14/16 at 2:27 pm to Spaceman Spiff
I think some are confusing the question. I'm not talking about exes you don't want to see or that did bad for you.
Let's put it this way. Let's say you dated them for a year or so but thought they weren't into serious stuff or even marriage, even though you were. Let's also say that because of that you stepped out one time only to find out later that this ex really was. And wanted to take it further.
*This ex may or may not have been in her mid 20s and in the military at the time, and really hadn't figured out what she wanted until...
Let's put it this way. Let's say you dated them for a year or so but thought they weren't into serious stuff or even marriage, even though you were. Let's also say that because of that you stepped out one time only to find out later that this ex really was. And wanted to take it further.
*This ex may or may not have been in her mid 20s and in the military at the time, and really hadn't figured out what she wanted until...
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Posted on 11/14/16 at 2:31 pm to SouthEndzoneTiger
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The answer to this question is directly proportionate to how hot she is.
exactly. the one that comes to mind was unbelievably hot. And ALWAYS wanted to frick.
saw her about 10 years later and she had easily doubled in size...
Posted on 11/14/16 at 2:31 pm to Spaceman Spiff
Lets also say that this ex didn't do anything wrong, except not really knowing what she wanted. And that it was an exclusive, mutual relationship up until the end. Let's also say when all the fact have been presented, it comes out that she was into you more than you have ever thought. And lets just also say she was and still is hot.
Posted on 11/14/16 at 2:33 pm to MorbidTheClown
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saw her about 10 years later and she had easily doubled in size...
That's about the timeframe I'm talking and she still is.
Posted on 11/14/16 at 2:39 pm to Spaceman Spiff
Not a single one I would get back with. They are Exes for a reason.
There's a cpl I would like to frick again if they looked like they did then. Havent seen them in forever so I have no clue.
There's a cpl I would like to frick again if they looked like they did then. Havent seen them in forever so I have no clue.
Posted on 11/14/16 at 2:39 pm to Spaceman Spiff
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Let's just say that it was something that you did that caused the end of the relationship and the door has opened again. And let's say that the ex was heartbroken over but yet kept tabs on you over the years. If that door were to open again, would you step through it?
This was me back in the day. I stepped through the door, and I was married and divorced within 3 years.
If I could give myself any advice, I'd reiterate that there was usually a reason it ended. If it was my fault, it could be traced back to a fundamental issue that was preventing us from being happy.
I would have thought that was bullshite at the time, but I'm now married to an incredible woman and cannot fathom how my ex and I put up with each other for so long despite our unhappiness. I used to think a lack of trust and petulant fighting was the norm.
Posted on 11/14/16 at 2:42 pm to Spaceman Spiff
Nope
The same shite will happen again and it will be worse.
The same shite will happen again and it will be worse.
Posted on 11/14/16 at 2:42 pm to Spaceman Spiff
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Lets also say that this ex didn't do anything wrong, except not really knowing what she wanted. And that it was an exclusive, mutual relationship up until the end. Let's also say when all the fact have been presented, it comes out that she was into you more than you have ever thought. And lets just also say she was and still is hot.
Sounds like you've already made up your mind. Best of luck.
Posted on 11/14/16 at 2:43 pm to Spaceman Spiff
There are a couple that would deserve another shot.
Posted on 11/14/16 at 2:43 pm to Spaceman Spiff
frick and no
Posted on 11/14/16 at 2:43 pm to slackster
My brain tells me hell no. But if I had a choice it'd be tough.
Posted on 11/14/16 at 2:47 pm to slackster
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Sounds like you've already made up your mind. Best of luck.
Right now? Still in the early talking stage so I'm not sure. She may/may not have been the one who was seeing when met the ex-wife.
Posted on 11/14/16 at 2:47 pm to Spaceman Spiff
There is only one woman on the planet besides my wife who I would consider marrying.
If I got a divorce tomorrow, I would probably be a piece of shite and attempt to ruin her marriage. She'd probably be a piece of shite and let me.
Some people make each other better, we did.
Now if the world was ending in six months, there's a coke fiend whore I used to date who I'm hitting up.
If I got a divorce tomorrow, I would probably be a piece of shite and attempt to ruin her marriage. She'd probably be a piece of shite and let me.
Some people make each other better, we did.
Now if the world was ending in six months, there's a coke fiend whore I used to date who I'm hitting up.
Posted on 11/14/16 at 2:48 pm to Spaceman Spiff
Both of my exes gave me a chance to come back. I regret not doing it with my first wife.
Posted on 11/14/16 at 2:50 pm to Spaceman Spiff
If I broke it off or she did because I acted stupid because I just wasn't wanting anything at the time and have since regretted it then yes.
If it ended because I always felt like a beta, she cheated, or I got tired of bending over backwards for someone high maintenance but I was lonely and wanted the secks, then no.
If it ended because I always felt like a beta, she cheated, or I got tired of bending over backwards for someone high maintenance but I was lonely and wanted the secks, then no.
Posted on 11/14/16 at 2:50 pm to X123F45
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Some people make each other better, we did
Harley Quinn never married...yet I left her for the ex. But I just didn't know she was that into me...
Posted on 11/14/16 at 2:50 pm to Spaceman Spiff
There is one for sure, maybe two.
Posted on 11/14/16 at 2:59 pm to Spaceman Spiff
I did it once. She ended up cheating on me. I didn't hear from her for over 25 years. No hard feelings after all these years.
She ended up as a breast cancer patient but is doing well in remission. We talk on occasion on FB as old friends. We've both been happily married and we both have adult kids.
Life is funny, sometimes.
She ended up as a breast cancer patient but is doing well in remission. We talk on occasion on FB as old friends. We've both been happily married and we both have adult kids.
Life is funny, sometimes.
Posted on 11/14/16 at 3:07 pm to Spaceman Spiff
Exes are exes for a reason brah. They should remain that way and move on with your life.
Posted on 11/14/16 at 3:22 pm to Spaceman Spiff
If we talking ex wives frick NO. We talking ex gf's why not
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