re: I need someone to talk to.

You have no idea....

Female shite sucks sooo bad, but guess what it's also soooo awesome when that is your acutal worries in life



I'll go edit my email off the first page unless you want to shoot the shite... I'm no stud but I like females but have had my heart broken a quadrillion times. So hit me up

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I appreciate your response, man. I really do.

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No problem. I've been through some extremely tough times in my life and I know how bad life can suck. I've had woman problems, money problems, legal problems, you name it. Hell, I've got all three to some degree right now. I'm 40, and one thing I've learned in those years is that life is cyclical. You're going to have good times and bad times and they both eventually come to an end. The bad times are required to make you appreciate the good times when they come back around. This girl, I don't know anything about her but I can PROMISE you that how you feel tonight is only temporary. If it wasn't meant to be, then it's good that it's over because now you'll be in a situation to be available when the next one comes around. Again, one day you won't even remember why you even had feelings for her and you'll be madly in love with someone else that's better.

This is why TD is the best.

Thanks again, SouthernHog.

what's going on fellow hog brother

I'm a big 48 laws of power guy. when dealing with women the most important law of power is

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Law 35: Master the Art of Timing

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I'm going to tell a 100% fricked up yet 100% true story of my first real girlfriend. She was a virgin. I wasn't, but I really liked her and wanted to you know, not take the girls virginity in the back my car you know? I wanted it to be half arse special. I've always been a romantic deep down.


So prom is coming up, I'm taking her to prom. We went to different schools I didn't get to see her everyday so I had no idea what was going on when, I go to pick her up for prom and she's not home. her parents don't know where she is, i'm worried, this is before cell phones this is around the timem two way pagers were the big thing. I page her, no answer. This is MY prom not her prom she's fricked up my prom now i'm crying / worried because I think something has happened to this girl we've dated what 10 months at this point.


To make a very long story short, she got gangbanged. willingly. Let me repeat this. She woke up and was a virgin. went to a party,l on the day she knew she had prom with me,, got gangbanged, TOLD ME she got gangbanged, then instar of saying she was sorry, blamed it on me for not being black enough. she called me an oreo, a square, and that she needed someone more hard core in her life.


That night as a emotionally broken 17 year old, I remember driving over the arkansas river and thinking seriously about driving into it. I was that heart broken. I told myself that night, never again would a woman hold that type of power over me emotionally. ever. again.



She worked at taco bell when we were in HS. She lived across the st from my sisters grandmother that's how i met her i went to taco bell after dropping my sister off. I go to my sisters surprise sixteen birthday party last year, flew in for it, at the same grandmothers house that is by the taco bell. Decide I wanted some fricking tacos and go in there, who do I run into? Gangbangirl. what...fourteen years later, working at the same place, gained weight,bitch couldn't even look me in the eye. You could almost see a tear coming out her eye realizing just what her life had been, what she could have had,I adored that girl. apparently she has 3 kids now. I told her it was nice to see her, and she was like we should keep in touch,and Respectively said, it's nice to see you but that ship has sailed babe lol. take care.


women are extremely short term thinkers. even the good ones. women do things that make them feel good now, then base their morality around their actions (uh i can't stay with vengeanceofrain he's not afrocentric enough for me that's why i HAD to cheat on him it was his fault) whereas men base their feelings around their morality (I was loyal to hear, i respected her and she cheated on me)


if you are young, which i assume are, frick women until you're in your early thirties don't take any one of them seriously because they don't take themselves seriously, yet. the ones that are half arse serious are on the marriage track and aren't into you because of you, they are into you because you fit the mold of someone they should date and if / when they can do better, they will, because all they care about is appearances. frick hoes, find what you like find what you do not like, don't take women seriously for now.

Sorry to hear that happened to you, vengeanceofrain. fricking brutal story. I appreciate your response and advice/kind words.

I'm okay, just way down as I have repeated a couple times in this thread. I feel better after reading your response and all the other responses. It just hurts to not be respected when I hold the highest level of respect for this one woman. It's like I don't even exist with not even as much as a single word.

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Edit: not looking for any sympathy.

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ok.............

different dads that grandmother is her dad's mother

So she's your sister from another Mister.