re: I am a wife who is a swinger, ask me questions

GODDAMMIT!

I always miss out on the beginning of the good threads.

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Hell no. I’m not a porn star

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I don't see women using this excuse when they have a baby

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You mentioned threesomes. Are you more into split roasts? Or another girl instead. In my experience a woman that loves to be handled some .... ex ... choking ... would rather two men than a man and a woman

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I’ve done the roast thing but it wasn’t all of that hot for me. Two men are just too much for me to keep up with. I get what you are saying because I do love being choked but 2 men are just too much at once

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Ok, so when you get married you stop being attracted to other people?

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So if your husband takes the new receptionist at work to a hotel and fricks her brains out is that ok because he was attracted to her?

I understand. You like some kinks but also close intimacy. My wife and I are the same.

The response was idiotic, though.

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So if your husband takes the new receptionist at work to a hotel and fricks her brains out is that ok because he was attracted to her?

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No that wouldn’t fit for us. Now if she had a hot husband and we all knew about it and were ok with it....why not?

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The response was idiotic, thoug

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Not at all
Of course we continue to find others attractive. So we have to keep that an uptight little secret in our head? Or can we talk to our spouses about it? And if we talk about it does it make our married sex hotter? And it it makes or marriage hotter what is the problem again?

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Swinging is a great idea for people who lack emotions.

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Correct. You better get it out of your system before you are married, if that’s your thing. I know two couples who are now divorced from dipping their toes into the “lifestyle”. Their shite is all over town (unbeknownst to them) and everyone knows all about it in detail. Invariably, one spouse will wander off (in secret) on their own to have the secks with a familiar player. One couple I knew were so fricking cheesey and narcisstic, that their big heads caught up with them - no more showing off and being public party couple shite stains.

Same to you!