Tigurgurl69

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On the one hand, I'm not a swinger and really don't think I ever could be. On the other hand, I hate wearing condoms and wouldn't waste my time with a chick who has a strict "don't cum in my mouth or butt" policy.

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That's pretty uptight.

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They were faking being passed out,they didn’t want your husband on top of them and coming prematurely.

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LOL, probably! He got picked on because of that!!

It's really off-putting tbh.

It's easier for me to answer more than one question that way. Are you really this uptight in person?

What are you wearing?

Pajamas and a T shirt

Do you like to drink?

I like wine and sometimes vodka

What are you up to on a Saturday night?

Just hanging out on the phone here at home, answering these crazy questions

You didn’t answer my question. So, if it’s not physical things that go on in the room without your husband could you help me understand the psychological affect have sex without your husband gives you?

I am sorry. It's just really hot to have another man be into me. I like the flirtation and the build up to the encounter.

Seriously interested. Actually fascinated. It would tear me up mentally doing that with my wife, but I understand every relationship is unique and want to see exactly why you do it. And why did it take so long for your husband to convince you it was a good idea.

It took me a long time to get ok with trying it. We talked for a couple of years before I finally was ok with it. You certainly shouldn't do it if it would cause problems in your marriage. It's fun, but not worth the damage if you aren't ready for it. We have had our ups and downs with it, but it's been a great adventure for both of us. I am a lot more confident with myself than I used to be. I am also a lot more aggressive sexually with my husband than I used to be. For a long time we just had "married sex", doing this made it very different and much hotter.
Can we hear about your first incounter? Like details with names changed?

Our first encounter was with a couple from out of state. He was a very nice guy and talked to me for a long time. We exchanged lots of pictures and he answered all of my questions. We finally met and jumped in with everyone in the same room. They were very experienced with the lifestyle and made us comfortable. My husband was like a kid and didn't last very long!! Unfortunately I didn't have great in person chemistry with the man so we didn't see them again. I was very nervous!

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What secrets did you have before you started having open sex with other people?

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That's a good question! Thanks. I never cheated on him but I did have fantasies about men that I had met and also actors in movies. I kept those secret for a long time before we started talking about this hobby. Now I just tell him, "I would frick him"

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No, you said you are Catholic - being swingers does not line up for what is prescribed by the Catechism for a marriage - or do you just not care what is required of a marriage?

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I wrestled with my religion for a long time when I decided to do this. There are people who really need rules to stay out of trouble. That's why religions have rules. Are there people who can not follow every rule and still keep a healthy marriage? I think so, and that is us.

Grossness? How would you know? Plus it’s good for women...

Sorry, I just can't do it. It's just gross to me

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So what about the sanctity of marriage?

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We are great! We are both very happy with each other and are more honest than we were before we started this adventure.

Does your husband have dirty sperm? He has normal sperm?

Are you circumcised?
I am a woman, I don't have anything to circumcise