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re: Husband makes spreadsheet of Wife's excuses for no sex
Posted on 7/18/14 at 12:48 pm to Goldrush25
Posted on 7/18/14 at 12:48 pm to Goldrush25
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I mean look at the frequency at which he's asking. I'm not married and even I know what he's asking for isn't realistic. I think if you married and getting it once a week you're doing pretty well
I'm speculating, but I suspect he wouldn't ask so often if he knew she would have sex with him on a more frequent basis. He knows he has to ask 5-7 times before he gets it once. He's been conditioned. He starts the next day because he knows it'll take 7 requests before the next time.
Posted on 7/18/14 at 12:48 pm to Goldrush25
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I think if you married and getting it once a week you're doing pretty well.
Nah....nah man.
Posted on 7/18/14 at 12:48 pm to fightin tigers
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There is debate if she didn't go over and above her usual effort.
you can never collect data re: behavior if the person knows they're being observed for that behavior
Posted on 7/18/14 at 12:50 pm to TigerHam85
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Fap
Going to take her somewhere nice, might not even have pictures on the menu.
Posted on 7/18/14 at 12:50 pm to Goldrush25
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I think if you married and getting it once a week you're doing pretty well.
my wife wants it 2-3 times a day, she's 10 years younger, I'm the one slowing down a bit
Posted on 7/18/14 at 12:50 pm to Topwater Trout
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he should tell her no a few times...reject her
You must have been watching the "Power of No" episode of "Everybody Loves Raymond."
Posted on 7/18/14 at 12:51 pm to Goldrush25
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I mean look at the frequency at which he's asking.
Not necessarily normal. He might have just been asking every day for the sake of adding a row to his spreadsheet.
Posted on 7/18/14 at 12:51 pm to SlowFlowPro
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you can never collect data re: behavior if the person knows they're being observed for that behavior
I don't think he minded. Every now and then I check their calender to see if it comes up again.
Posted on 7/18/14 at 12:52 pm to Jake88
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He knows he has to ask 5-7 times before he gets it once. He's been conditioned. He starts the next day because he knows it'll take 7 requests before the next time.
Maybe he should try a different approach. Why keep doing the same thing and expect different results? Seems to me the frequency of him asking and the frequency in which she denies it just makes saying no easier and easier.
Posted on 7/18/14 at 12:52 pm to 777Tiger
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my wife wants it 2-3 times a day,
Don't you fly a lot? That can't be good.
Posted on 7/18/14 at 12:52 pm to Topwater Trout
That's not what I said. But your post did claim he was doing something wrong when you don't know.
Posted on 7/18/14 at 12:52 pm to LesMiles BFF
quote:She called for HER to talk. It would've been a one-sided discussion and all about her being a victim here.
See I would have done this as a smart-arse way to make a point, but would have been satisfied enough knowing that she cared enough about the problem to try and call me multiple times to talk about it.
Posted on 7/18/14 at 12:53 pm to fightin tigers
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Don't you fly a lot? That can't be good.
Posted on 7/18/14 at 12:54 pm to Geauxtiga
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She called for HER to talk. It would've been a one-sided discussion and all about her being a victim here.
No doubt. If she had real fear the marriage was ovee she would cut the business trip short.
Sounds like an extreme reaction, but any employer would understand this.
Posted on 7/18/14 at 12:54 pm to Iona Fan Man
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but it was enough for her at one time...otherwise he wouldn't have married her...she changed
reminds me of the count from a couple of weeks ago that knew she didn't like sex but forced herself to bang a guy into marriage and then closed up shop because she had trapped him and couldn't understand why he was unhappy.
Posted on 7/18/14 at 12:56 pm to Jake88
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But your post did claim he was doing something wrong when you don't know.
based on a spreadsheet and email we don't know who is in the wrong...i would bet they both are to blame in some way
Posted on 7/18/14 at 12:57 pm to NewIberiaHaircut
Bitch would not be sleeping in the bed if she went to the gym and didnt shower.
shite, I get back from the gym and go straight to the shower. Not about to plop down on the couch and watch a movie or something. shite is nasty. But somehow she keeps the house clean...
shite, I get back from the gym and go straight to the shower. Not about to plop down on the couch and watch a movie or something. shite is nasty. But somehow she keeps the house clean...
Posted on 7/18/14 at 12:57 pm to Geauxtiga
This bitch is crazy. We can post about our SO's on TD but I be got damn if I ever made Reddit
Posted on 7/18/14 at 12:57 pm to Topwater Trout
The spreadsheet doesn't tell us his approach style in initiating. He may be trying different ways beyond just verbal.
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