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re: Husband makes spreadsheet of Wife's excuses for no sex

Posted on 7/18/14 at 12:48 pm to
Posted by Jake88
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Posted on 7/18/14 at 12:48 pm to
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I mean look at the frequency at which he's asking. I'm not married and even I know what he's asking for isn't realistic. I think if you married and getting it once a week you're doing pretty well


I'm speculating, but I suspect he wouldn't ask so often if he knew she would have sex with him on a more frequent basis. He knows he has to ask 5-7 times before he gets it once. He's been conditioned. He starts the next day because he knows it'll take 7 requests before the next time.
Posted by fightin tigers
Downtown Prairieville
Member since Mar 2008
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Posted on 7/18/14 at 12:48 pm to
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I think if you married and getting it once a week you're doing pretty well.


Nah....nah man.
Posted by SlowFlowPro
With populists, expect populism
Member since Jan 2004
465487 posts
Posted on 7/18/14 at 12:48 pm to
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There is debate if she didn't go over and above her usual effort.

you can never collect data re: behavior if the person knows they're being observed for that behavior
Posted by fightin tigers
Downtown Prairieville
Member since Mar 2008
76154 posts
Posted on 7/18/14 at 12:50 pm to
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Fap


Going to take her somewhere nice, might not even have pictures on the menu.
Posted by 777Tiger
Member since Mar 2011
88361 posts
Posted on 7/18/14 at 12:50 pm to
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I think if you married and getting it once a week you're doing pretty well.

my wife wants it 2-3 times a day, she's 10 years younger, I'm the one slowing down a bit
Posted by Spaceman Spiff
Savannah
Member since Sep 2012
19950 posts
Posted on 7/18/14 at 12:50 pm to
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he should tell her no a few times...reject her


You must have been watching the "Power of No" episode of "Everybody Loves Raymond."
Posted by shaqazoolu
Baton Rouge
Member since Jun 2008
600 posts
Posted on 7/18/14 at 12:51 pm to
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I mean look at the frequency at which he's asking.


Not necessarily normal. He might have just been asking every day for the sake of adding a row to his spreadsheet.
Posted by fightin tigers
Downtown Prairieville
Member since Mar 2008
76154 posts
Posted on 7/18/14 at 12:51 pm to
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you can never collect data re: behavior if the person knows they're being observed for that behavior


I don't think he minded. Every now and then I check their calender to see if it comes up again.
Posted by Topwater Trout
Red Stick
Member since Oct 2010
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Posted on 7/18/14 at 12:52 pm to
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He knows he has to ask 5-7 times before he gets it once. He's been conditioned. He starts the next day because he knows it'll take 7 requests before the next time.


Maybe he should try a different approach. Why keep doing the same thing and expect different results? Seems to me the frequency of him asking and the frequency in which she denies it just makes saying no easier and easier.
Posted by fightin tigers
Downtown Prairieville
Member since Mar 2008
76154 posts
Posted on 7/18/14 at 12:52 pm to
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my wife wants it 2-3 times a day,


Don't you fly a lot? That can't be good.
Posted by Jake88
Member since Apr 2005
77950 posts
Posted on 7/18/14 at 12:52 pm to
That's not what I said. But your post did claim he was doing something wrong when you don't know.
Posted by Geauxtiga
No man's land
Member since Jan 2008
34400 posts
Posted on 7/18/14 at 12:52 pm to
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See I would have done this as a smart-arse way to make a point, but would have been satisfied enough knowing that she cared enough about the problem to try and call me multiple times to talk about it.

She called for HER to talk. It would've been a one-sided discussion and all about her being a victim here.
Posted by 777Tiger
Member since Mar 2011
88361 posts
Posted on 7/18/14 at 12:53 pm to
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Don't you fly a lot? That can't be good.


sometimes she goes with me, just when I think I'm going to get some rest
Posted by fightin tigers
Downtown Prairieville
Member since Mar 2008
76154 posts
Posted on 7/18/14 at 12:54 pm to
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She called for HER to talk. It would've been a one-sided discussion and all about her being a victim here.



No doubt. If she had real fear the marriage was ovee she would cut the business trip short.

Sounds like an extreme reaction, but any employer would understand this.
Posted by Fletch F Fletch
The Seat of Caddo Parish
Member since Jan 2009
6474 posts
Posted on 7/18/14 at 12:54 pm to
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but it was enough for her at one time...otherwise he wouldn't have married her...she changed


reminds me of the count from a couple of weeks ago that knew she didn't like sex but forced herself to bang a guy into marriage and then closed up shop because she had trapped him and couldn't understand why he was unhappy.
Posted by Topwater Trout
Red Stick
Member since Oct 2010
69493 posts
Posted on 7/18/14 at 12:56 pm to
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But your post did claim he was doing something wrong when you don't know.


based on a spreadsheet and email we don't know who is in the wrong...i would bet they both are to blame in some way
Posted by laangler21
On the lake.
Member since May 2012
3034 posts
Posted on 7/18/14 at 12:57 pm to
Bitch would not be sleeping in the bed if she went to the gym and didnt shower.
shite, I get back from the gym and go straight to the shower. Not about to plop down on the couch and watch a movie or something. shite is nasty. But somehow she keeps the house clean...
Posted by Make It Rayne
Rayne
Member since Sep 2009
2087 posts
Posted on 7/18/14 at 12:57 pm to
This bitch is crazy. We can post about our SO's on TD but I be got damn if I ever made Reddit
Posted by Jake88
Member since Apr 2005
77950 posts
Posted on 7/18/14 at 12:57 pm to
The spreadsheet doesn't tell us his approach style in initiating. He may be trying different ways beyond just verbal.
Posted by Jake88
Member since Apr 2005
77950 posts
Posted on 7/18/14 at 12:58 pm to
That's fair.
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