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Posted on 12/21/15 at 5:18 pm
Posted by Bonck1987
Houma, LA
Member since Jan 2015
655 posts
Posted on 12/21/15 at 5:18 pm
Here's the story: Friday night I met up with some friends for a few drinks, and there was this girl that they had invited that was really cute. I asked my one friend about her, and he says she just got unengaged and probably not comfortable dating at the moment. He also said he was interested in her, because she's perfect. I told him okay I won't pursue it.

Well he proceeds to get sloppy drunk, and I sit back and watch this unfold. He's leaning all over her chair next to her, and she doesn't look interested at all. She talks to me a little bit and I casually chat with her. Well everyone splits up and I don't ask for her number, because I was trying to be respectful of my friend. She adds me on Facebook the next morning. Should I message her and see if she wants to meet up?
Posted by hendersonshands
Univ. of Louisiana Ragin Cajuns
Member since Oct 2007
160200 posts
Posted on 12/21/15 at 5:20 pm to
Stop being a fgt first then proceed from there.
Posted by Rouge
Floston Paradise
Member since Oct 2004
137806 posts
Posted on 12/21/15 at 5:20 pm to
Yes

Life is too short for regrets

You need to see about a girl - good will hunting
Posted by SlackMaster
Baton Rouge
Member since Jan 2009
2787 posts
Posted on 12/21/15 at 5:21 pm to
Of course. If you don't, you are a pansy
Posted by ManBearTiger
BRLA
Member since Jun 2007
22131 posts
Posted on 12/21/15 at 5:21 pm to
Walk the dinosaur iyam
Posted by Harry Caray
Denial
Member since Aug 2009
19233 posts
Posted on 12/21/15 at 5:22 pm to
Sounds like she's interested to some degree. No harm in grabbing a drink or two and get some one-on-one time.
Posted by BRgetthenet
Member since Oct 2011
118105 posts
Posted on 12/21/15 at 5:22 pm to
She's just confirming your gayhood by adding you on Facebook.
Posted by Bonck1987
Houma, LA
Member since Jan 2015
655 posts
Posted on 12/21/15 at 5:23 pm to
Well yeah, but I have a bad history of moving in on girl's my friends are interested in. I was gonna let this play its course than make a move.
Posted by GRTiger
On a roof eating alligator pie
Member since Dec 2008
66027 posts
Posted on 12/21/15 at 5:23 pm to
FHRITP
Posted by ColoradoAg03
Denver, CO
Member since Oct 2012
6434 posts
Posted on 12/21/15 at 5:23 pm to
Your boy had his chance and went home with Palmela Handerson instead.

Man up and take the girl out.
Posted by Walt OReilly
Poplarville, MS
Member since Oct 2005
124694 posts
Posted on 12/21/15 at 5:24 pm to
As her if she wants to go to Christmas Eve service with you.
Posted by Royal
God's Country
Member since Apr 2009
1022 posts
Posted on 12/21/15 at 5:24 pm to
Send her a telegram, you douche.
Posted by Walt OReilly
Poplarville, MS
Member since Oct 2005
124694 posts
Posted on 12/21/15 at 5:25 pm to
You a good looking guy?
Posted by LucasP
Member since Apr 2012
21618 posts
Posted on 12/21/15 at 5:25 pm to
quote:

She adds me on Facebook the next morning.


Deny her friend request, so you don't come off desperate.

quote:

Should I message her and see if she wants to meet up?


Only message her to ask who she is because you don't remember meeting her. When she persists (she will, chicks love the aloof type) send her some poetry you wrote and invite her to a coffee shop. Then don't show up.
Posted by dukke v
PLUTO
Member since Jul 2006
213855 posts
Posted on 12/21/15 at 5:27 pm to
quote:

Should I message her and see if she wants to meet up?



YES....
Posted by shawnlsu
Member since Nov 2011
23682 posts
Posted on 12/21/15 at 5:27 pm to
At this point make your move or forever be in the friend zone. Sounds like you may be used to that though.
Posted by foshizzle
Washington DC metro
Member since Mar 2008
40599 posts
Posted on 12/21/15 at 5:27 pm to
quote:

Should I message her and see if she wants to meet up?


She can't say yes unless you ask her.
Posted by Bonck1987
Houma, LA
Member since Jan 2015
655 posts
Posted on 12/21/15 at 5:27 pm to
I like to think that I am, I've done pretty well for myself.
Posted by BRgetthenet
Member since Oct 2011
118105 posts
Posted on 12/21/15 at 5:27 pm to
Good call. When she asks to bang, tell her the truth about being gay and ask if she wants to go shopping.


She'll never leave him alone.
Posted by Rouge
Floston Paradise
Member since Oct 2004
137806 posts
Posted on 12/21/15 at 5:27 pm to
Fr33 writes all my bitch poetry
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