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re: How Often Evening “Outings”?

Posted on 2/15/25 at 5:03 am to
Posted by BabyTac
Austin, TX
Member since Jun 2008
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Posted on 2/15/25 at 5:03 am to
I have a group of guys I routinely play golf with. She has a group of girls she gets together with and cooks, hangs out etc. this happens once a week normally.

Maybe once every month or two we’ll have people over or go to another couple house for a gathering.

Can’t remember the last time I went out to a bar room or was out in a public place past dark. Being married, having a home with everyone else having homes with yards and patios, there is zero reason to be out at a bar room.
This post was edited on 2/15/25 at 5:09 am
Posted by Odysseus32
Member since Dec 2009
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Posted on 2/15/25 at 5:52 am to
Here in Cenla?

We go to Spirits like once a month basically just to get out of the house and hear the very limited live music.

Would love to go to the movies, it's a shithole. Would love to go to the Bowling Alley, not with that crowd. Live music is a joke here.

We went out a lot more when we lived in Boise. We'd go downtown with no real plans and find something to do. It was just us, but that downtown is small enough that you run into the same people at bars if you're out bar hopping.

This post was edited on 2/15/25 at 6:12 am
Posted by heatom2
At the plant, baw.
Member since Nov 2010
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Posted on 2/15/25 at 5:56 am to
Depends on the time of year. But I'd say we averaged 1-2 times a week up until this year, and it's slowed down a bit as our home schedule has busied up with our kids again.

Usually hit bar trivia mid week to break the week up, then get together and cook, watch sports, throw darts etc.

I get cabin fever pretty fast at the house.
Posted by kywildcatfanone
Wildcat Country!
Member since Oct 2012
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Posted on 2/15/25 at 6:10 am to
Maybe once a month
Posted by CaptainsWafer
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Posted on 2/15/25 at 6:19 am to
quote:

Being married, having a home with everyone else having homes with yards and patios, there is zero reason to be out at a bar room.


In your opinion. Just because you don’t like it doesn’t mean everyone else shouldn’t.
Posted by Odysseus32
Member since Dec 2009
10028 posts
Posted on 2/15/25 at 6:23 am to
quote:

In your opinion. Just because you don’t like it doesn’t mean everyone else shouldn’t.


Exactly.

One of my favorite things to do is go to a bar and watch sports, knowing nobody, just being around people.

I prefer that over watching sports with people I know honestly.
Posted by dakarx
Member since Sep 2018
8429 posts
Posted on 2/15/25 at 8:49 am to
Outside of family? That is an exceedingly rare event, because people in general. Annually for work maybe, unless I can get out of it (which i generally do).
Posted by Bullfrog
Running Through the Wet Grass
Member since Jul 2010
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Posted on 2/15/25 at 9:03 am to
2-3 times a month maybe. Wish it was more but we always have other stuff going on and most of our best friends aren’t local.

But it also depends on the time of year.

Summer and football season is more. Less in the early spring and during cold weather.
Posted by rintintin
Life is Life
Member since Nov 2008
17058 posts
Posted on 2/15/25 at 9:09 am to
Late 30's here.

When I still lived in LA and had a bigger social circle definitely every weekend.

Now live in MN and it's maybe every other wknd or less.

Just had a kid as well, so that's decreasing even more. Maybe 1 or 2 times a month now.
Posted by LSUBFA83
Member since May 2012
4213 posts
Posted on 2/15/25 at 9:24 am to
We're getting old so we don't really do evenings out anymore. As far as socializing beyond family...church about twice a month, get-together with friends about once a month.

Internet, cable and streaming services have really dampened the need for outside socializing.
Posted by Shamoan
Member since Feb 2019
13774 posts
Posted on 2/15/25 at 11:51 am to
At 43, maybe 2 or 3 times a year if we get an invite
Posted by foj1981
Baton Rouge
Member since Nov 2013
4251 posts
Posted on 2/15/25 at 11:53 am to
66, never!
People suck
Posted by Jmcc64
alabama
Member since Apr 2021
2127 posts
Posted on 2/15/25 at 12:40 pm to
Outside of family, my wife has One "must" and that is her office Christmas party.
I don't even have that .
There is the neighborhood Christmas get together, (10 couples) which we usually do, but not mandatory. That's our only social interaction.
I did go to a gathering of 5 or 6 old friends one night last year. That's an anomaly, though.
Once our youngest graduated high school (basketball / softball games), we were over and out.
Posted by chinese58
NELA. after 30 years in Dallas.
Member since Jun 2004
33804 posts
Posted on 2/15/25 at 2:34 pm to
You haven't lived until you reach your mid-sixties and are taking care of parents in their 90's!

Outings include:
Doctor's appointments
Procedures

Most of the interactions with what were once strangers are at home when one gets a nurse and a physical therapist thru home health and the other gets a nurse, an aide and a sitter thru hospice. My brother came home and helped out when my mom had her pacemaker replaced. He's coming back in a couple of weeks when they shock her to try to get her out of AFib.
Posted by pbro62
Baton Rouge
Member since May 2016
15290 posts
Posted on 2/15/25 at 5:03 pm to
Shut up fricktwat
Posted by MSUDawg98
Bear the F Down
Member since Jan 2018
13805 posts
Posted on 2/15/25 at 5:20 pm to
I'm almost in my late 40s/wife mid 40s. My wife and I go out once or twice a month. We pair it with a movie every couple of months and at other times pair it with shopping. Our biggest change in the past few years was taking trips as a couple rather than as a family. We love our weekend getaways. We limit it to about 5 hours away. We've also flown places. Denver last fall and Quebec next fall.
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