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re: How did you catch your SO/Spouse cheating on you?

Posted on 6/15/14 at 10:54 am to
Posted by Sevendust912
Member since Jun 2013
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Posted on 6/15/14 at 10:54 am to
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What the frick is wrong with you?


Um there are right and wrong ways to handle a situation and he handled it the wrong way in my opinion. Sending a tape to the guys wife and ruining another family?

Acting out of anger and emotion is never wise
Posted by RATeamWannabe
Baton Rouge
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Posted on 6/15/14 at 10:55 am to
Um your opinion sucks.
Posted by Sevendust912
Member since Jun 2013
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Posted on 6/15/14 at 10:55 am to
Posted by AmosMosesAndTwins
Lake Charles
Member since Apr 2010
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Posted on 6/15/14 at 10:56 am to
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Sending a tape to the guys wife and ruining another family?


That guy ruined his own family.
Posted by waiting4saturday
Covington, LA
Member since Sep 2005
10564 posts
Posted on 6/15/14 at 10:57 am to
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That guy ruined his own family.
Posted by Iona Fan Man
Member since Jan 2006
27462 posts
Posted on 6/15/14 at 11:00 am to
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All you guys who have been cheated on... Looking back, does it make sense? Like was hindsight 20-20? Or do all bitches really be cray


Show up to where you were, sit by you at the bar or in the break area at work, contacted you on the dating site, initiate conversation and engage you immediately, etc,etc

ex:
first cheater-at beach spring break, girl from another HS goes up to girl from our HS that she knew, then we all got introduced...she came over..dated for 4 months...when I left to see dad in another state, she fricked some dude and they started going out, found out when I got back.

second cheater- at bar at LSU with frat buddy from NO, chick comes up to say hi to him as they knew each other from NO, we get introduced....she leaves, and my buddy says "she must really like you..in all my years of knowing her, she has never come up to me once to start talking." I was taken aback, "you think she likes me?"...he said "yeah, she's wants you to ask her out"...we dated for 2 years, cheated on me 3 times(found out later)

third cheater-eclectic Coffee shop girl, bums a cigarette from me and starts talking. we go out a few times, sleeping together. But we mostly go on day dates....yada,yada,yada....at night she worked at a S&M club with her lesbian lover roommate.

forth cheater-working in office building, when ever I went to smoke, this girl and her friend seem to show up. It happened enough that we finally started having small talk, but I didn't want to mix work/relationship..so I never acted. Then my manager had a poker party at his house and invited me...she was there. We start dating, 2 years, find out that she purposefully would go for a smoke when she saw me going, and that she told my manager that he should have a party and helped him plan it. we were living together and when she went to bathroom, and her insta-messenger popped from her ex-BF confirming plans to meet up.

fifth cheater-girl from office next door brings over cookies from leftovers from their office party. We strike up a conversation, make plans to go out, dating for 3 months, but we never go out on Friday...she says girls night out...I'm out with friends...see her at a bar with another guy.


if she is the one who initiated the relationship, then she will likely cheat. Like did you really pick her up or did she allow you to pick her up
Posted by Sevendust912
Member since Jun 2013
11442 posts
Posted on 6/15/14 at 11:02 am to
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That guy ruined his own family.


Maybe not as he doesn't know the type of relationship that guy in Seattle has with his wife, and now he has sent a (most likely) illegally recorded conversation to someone he doesn't know.

Stay out of other peoples business and deal with your own problems. Seems like he put way too much effort into humiliating his SO for making a mistake.
Posted by RLDSC FAN
Rancho Cucamonga, CA
Member since Nov 2008
55957 posts
Posted on 6/15/14 at 11:02 am to
damn dude, you've been cheated on a lot. Maybe you're the one doing something wrong?
Posted by CheeseburgerEddie
Crimson Tide Fan Club
Member since Oct 2012
15574 posts
Posted on 6/15/14 at 11:05 am to
He put in a lot of effort but when you hold all the cards you gotta go big.
Posted by onelochevy
Slidell, LA
Member since Jan 2011
17501 posts
Posted on 6/15/14 at 11:05 am to
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Seems like he put way too much effort into humiliating his SO for making a mistake.


No such thing as too much effort with something like that. You seem like the type that would accept your SO getting railed on the side.
Posted by Iona Fan Man
Member since Jan 2006
27462 posts
Posted on 6/15/14 at 11:05 am to
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damn dude, you've been cheated on a lot. Maybe you're the one doing something wrong?


yes, I am too "jealous and insecure"

so I catch them

17 y/o -32 y/o

5 cheaters in 15 years, but only about 12% of the girls I have been with....which if you think about it, is probably about average/below average
This post was edited on 6/15/14 at 11:10 am
Posted by Sevendust912
Member since Jun 2013
11442 posts
Posted on 6/15/14 at 11:07 am to
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No such thing as too much effort with something like that.


I disagree

quote:

You seem like the type that would accept your SO getting railed on the side.


well I've been into swinging for a couple years. Get to have sex with other women, and there are no trust issues.
Posted by RATeamWannabe
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2009
26009 posts
Posted on 6/15/14 at 11:08 am to
I think that is a she that is getting railed on the side.

ETA
quote:

well I've been into swinging for a couple years.


This post was edited on 6/15/14 at 11:14 am
Posted by TrueTiger
Chicken's most valuable
Member since Sep 2004
76708 posts
Posted on 6/15/14 at 11:08 am to
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Kashonly


some of these seem like casual relationships, I'm not sure they should all count but then, I wasn't there.
Posted by Tigerstudent08
Lakeview
Member since Apr 2007
5776 posts
Posted on 6/15/14 at 11:12 am to
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Maybe not as he doesn't know the type of relationship that guy in Seattle has with his wife


"type of relationship"?!? They either have an open relationship or not. If its open then the wife would receive the disk and not care. If not, then the wife would want and deserves to know. Obviously we know he didn't have an open relationship so the two cheaters deserve whatever they get. DEAL WITH IT
Posted by Tigerstudent08
Lakeview
Member since Apr 2007
5776 posts
Posted on 6/15/14 at 11:14 am to
Kashonly you need to make better relationship choices if that is happening that often. I can understand once or twice but not that many times
Posted by Iona Fan Man
Member since Jan 2006
27462 posts
Posted on 6/15/14 at 11:14 am to
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some of these seem like casual relationships,


yeah, but i always let it known that I will not compete and if the girl says that she's dating anyone else, I end it immediately without hesitation or regret.

FWB girls also get cutoff immediately if they have ever said they had a relationship of the kind.

I've spent too much time analyzing credit to not use the same method in evaluating tendencies.
Posted by Teddy Ruxpin
Member since Oct 2006
40141 posts
Posted on 6/15/14 at 11:20 am to
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if she is the one who initiated the relationship, then she will likely cheat. Like did you really pick her up or did she allow you to pick her up



I'm glad you ended the post with this, because I think that is a "tell" as well. Along with the smoking, of course
This post was edited on 6/15/14 at 11:21 am
Posted by The Third Leg
Idiot Out Wandering Around
Member since May 2014
10685 posts
Posted on 6/15/14 at 11:22 am to
Towards the end of a tumultuous, yet horny year-long Relationship, I caught my slutty, cocaine obsessed bartender girlfriend cheating on me in college.

The 'Tender was supposed to be at work and I was walking into her apartment complex to frick her roommate when the nose candy girlfriend pulled in with some cat that I did not recognize, hot mouthing along the way.

It just gave me peace of mind that fricking her roommate was the proper course of action.
Posted by SECSolomonGrundy
Slaughter Swamp
Member since Jun 2012
17432 posts
Posted on 6/15/14 at 11:26 am to
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I caught my slutty, cocaine obsessed bartender girlfriend cheating on me in college.



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slutty, cocaine obsessed bartender



girlfriends arent made from these
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