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Posted on 12/3/16 at 6:22 am to No Colors
One of my friends calls himself a special snowflake. Like when he doesn't want to sit in the sun at an outdoor restaurant. "I'm a special snowflake; I need to sit in the shade."
Posted on 12/3/16 at 6:22 am to No Colors
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Posted on 12/3/16 at 7:28 am to IStandBytheU
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I'm a special snowflake; I need to sit in the shade."
He's got the ghey
This post was edited on 12/3/16 at 8:09 am
Posted on 12/3/16 at 7:29 am to IStandBytheU
Apologize for what?
Posted on 12/3/16 at 7:53 am to No Colors
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Posted on 12/3/16 at 7:54 am to No Colors
Well. He is a very cute gay man. So.
Posted on 12/3/16 at 8:08 am to IStandBytheU
You're deleting stuff before I read it
Posted on 12/3/16 at 11:41 am to No Colors
Something good today?
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Posted on 12/3/16 at 12:19 pm to IStandBytheU
Well. I got a few glimmers of civility from the other party. Mostly as a reflex from being the devil the day before. It's not good though.
Posted on 12/3/16 at 12:55 pm to No Colors
What else is good?
There must be something.
There must be something.
This post was edited on 12/3/16 at 1:08 pm
Posted on 12/3/16 at 1:43 pm to No Colors
What's going on with your you-stuff? Your groups and your sessions. Are you figuring out some good things?
Posted on 12/3/16 at 2:34 pm to No Colors
I'm sort of curious about how hard it is to be completely honest. You know? Like, how long did it take you to tell everything? All the stuff that you didn't want anyone to know. And what did that feel like?
Posted on 12/3/16 at 4:04 pm to IStandBytheU
Well. It is definitely a process. It doesn't happen overnight. You don't just decide to open up to strangers. You tell your story. And then when you get affirmation rather than derision, it helps build confidence. And then the next time you add a few more details. And it builds.
It's an interesting environment, where the more you share, the more positive feedback you give. Vulnerability = Reward. And it builds on itself.
And I have to admit: there's a couple of things I'm still holding back. And I didn't realize I was holding them back until I went through this process. And now I can see that I have been selective. And it's interesting to isolate the things I chose to skip over. And question why. Because there's nothing I have revealed yet that has caused me harm. But I am still hesitant about some things.
It's an interesting process
It's an interesting environment, where the more you share, the more positive feedback you give. Vulnerability = Reward. And it builds on itself.
And I have to admit: there's a couple of things I'm still holding back. And I didn't realize I was holding them back until I went through this process. And now I can see that I have been selective. And it's interesting to isolate the things I chose to skip over. And question why. Because there's nothing I have revealed yet that has caused me harm. But I am still hesitant about some things.
It's an interesting process
Posted on 12/3/16 at 4:05 pm to IStandBytheU
And basically, it feels good. Taking the risk. And seeing the result. It's not what you expect. It's not what you fear. It's pretty great.
Posted on 12/3/16 at 4:09 pm to No Colors
I guess you aren't going to say what you haven't said.
Complete honesty is an interesting thing. We don't really do it that much in real life, do we? Whenever I'm emotionally honest, like really, it feels good. And then I freak out and feel like I've revealed too much. And backtrack. Because I think that whomever I've spilled too is changing the way they see me. But then I feel lighter and better. And good.
Complete honesty is an interesting thing. We don't really do it that much in real life, do we? Whenever I'm emotionally honest, like really, it feels good. And then I freak out and feel like I've revealed too much. And backtrack. Because I think that whomever I've spilled too is changing the way they see me. But then I feel lighter and better. And good.
Posted on 12/3/16 at 4:10 pm to No Colors
I'm glad you're figuring that out.
Posted on 12/3/16 at 4:50 pm to No Colors
It feels risky. Honest.
Posted on 12/3/16 at 4:52 pm to No Colors
Had a good run today of honest stuff. And I didn't get yelled at.
Posted on 12/3/16 at 5:33 pm to IStandBytheU
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