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re: Going on a date with a divorced chick (UPDATE page 37)

Posted on 3/2/21 at 5:34 pm to
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
283130 posts
Posted on 3/2/21 at 5:34 pm to
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A lot of us on this board were where you are today. I was married for 11 years when my marriage ended (she cheated).


I enjoy being married, if something happened with this one, I would get married again ASAP. I kinda need it, someone to keep my head out of the clouds. I enjoy women's company.
Posted by Tigeralum2008
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Member since Apr 2012
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Posted on 3/2/21 at 5:41 pm to
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I enjoy being married, if something happened with this one, I would get married again ASAP. I kinda need it, someone to keep my head out of the clouds. I enjoy women's company.



I really wasn't planning on dating when I met my future wife. We met at a sporting event, got to talking and it has gone exceptionally well for 9 years.

The differences between my 1st and 2nd wives couldn't be more night and day. First marriage was waaaay too young (early 20's)
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
129146 posts
Posted on 3/2/21 at 5:52 pm to
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A lot of us on this board were where you are today. I was married for 11 years when my marriage ended (she cheated).

It sucked and was one of the lowest points in my life. But it gets better and you'll find it made you a better person bc you know what you want, and what to avoid the next time around.



Thanks, I’m not at the bottom of the pit like I was a few months ago but I know the wound he caused is a deep one that is gonna take time to truly heal before I can have a healthy serious relationship with someone else.

And yes, I will def be able to know what I need in another person.
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
283130 posts
Posted on 3/2/21 at 6:02 pm to
quote:

The differences between my 1st and 2nd wives couldn't be more night and day. First marriage was waaaay too young (early 20's)


Mine were awesome, didn't fight, etc. They just had bad taste in guys.

My first wife has been married 4 times. She's pretty awesome, just nit picky and not very affectionate.
Posted by terd ferguson
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Member since Aug 2007
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Posted on 3/2/21 at 6:46 pm to
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the wound is a deep one


Hey
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
129146 posts
Posted on 3/2/21 at 7:04 pm to
Posted by dyslexiateechur
Louisiana
Member since Jan 2009
34527 posts
Posted on 3/2/21 at 7:14 pm to
No shame in spending time and not being alone. Was discussing that with my 69 year old coworker who’s getting ready to retire. He’d love to take a woman his age out to dinner here and there and spend a nice evening out.
Posted by mattz1122
Member since Oct 2007
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Posted on 3/2/21 at 7:21 pm to
Posted by BayouCatFan
Member since Jul 2008
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Posted on 3/3/21 at 10:16 am to
Hopefully OP gives us an update on his date.
Posted by Breauxsif
Member since May 2012
22291 posts
Posted on 3/3/21 at 10:27 am to
quote:

VolsOut4Harambe

So what happened?
Posted by BeachDude022
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Member since Dec 2006
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Posted on 3/3/21 at 10:34 am to
OP, where you is?

Maybe he ended up in a bathtub of ice missing his kidneys
Posted by madamsquirrel
The big somewhere out there
Member since Jul 2009
53568 posts
Posted on 3/3/21 at 10:40 am to
quote:

A lot of us on this board were where you are today. I was married for 14 years when my marriage ended.

It sucked and was one of the lowest points in my life. But it gets better and you'll find it made you a better person bc you know what you want, and what to avoid the next time around.
so much this!!
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
129146 posts
Posted on 3/3/21 at 10:41 am to
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Maybe he ended up in a bathtub of ice missing his kidneys


Well that is just silly.









He would be dead missing both kidneys
Posted by madamsquirrel
The big somewhere out there
Member since Jul 2009
53568 posts
Posted on 3/3/21 at 10:42 am to
quote:

The differences between my 1st and 2nd husbands couldn't be more night and day. First marriage was waaaay too young (early 20's)


My experience also
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
129146 posts
Posted on 3/3/21 at 10:50 am to
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My experience also


If I marry again no way in hell will husband #2 be anything like my ex husband.

I’m already mentally making a list of dealbreakers for myself. Not saying I’m gonna be super picky cause I’m no spring chicken and not an OT 10, but more so I know what things in a person matter the most to me and that’s what I will be looking for.






OP....you have to give an update. Total loser move to start a thread like this and not do so fwiw.
Posted by Tempratt
Member since Oct 2013
14588 posts
Posted on 3/3/21 at 10:58 am to
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trying to date a recently divorced teacher.


I'm guessing she went to Jamaica to for exotic horizontal recreation?
Posted by 4LSU2
Member since Dec 2009
37793 posts
Posted on 3/3/21 at 11:05 am to
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I’m not at the bottom of the pit like I was a few months ago but I know the wound he caused is a deep one that is gonna take time to truly heal before I can have a healthy serious relationship with someone else.


The best way to get over someone is to get under someone else.
Posted by VolsOut4Harambe
Atlanta, GA
Member since Sep 2017
12856 posts
Posted on 3/3/21 at 11:53 am to
quote:

So what happened?


Date went very well. She brought it up herself. He cheated and she left his arse after 6 months.

We’re going out again tomorrow.
Posted by 777Tiger
Member since Mar 2011
83902 posts
Posted on 3/3/21 at 11:53 am to
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Date went very well. She brought it up herself. He cheated and she left his arse after 6 months.



never mind that shite! how was the secksin'?
Posted by Overwatch
Member since Feb 2021
127 posts
Posted on 3/3/21 at 11:53 am to
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I’m already mentally making a list of dealbreakers for myself.


That's exactly what I did after my first marriage. I broke it down into Must Have, Nice to Have, and Dealbreakers. The last column was easy but differentiating between the first two took some objectivity practice.
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