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Posted by dyslexiateechur
Louisiana
Member since Jan 2009
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Posted on 10/6/22 at 10:40 am to
I told her we’d fix up her room at the new house. She’ll be closer to the boyfriend so that’ll make her happy.
Posted by DiamondDog
Louisiana
Member since Nov 2019
10617 posts
Posted on 10/6/22 at 10:40 am to
quote:

insistence that your kids participate in every single hardship you encountered seems like proof that you "didn't turn out okay" after all


Not at all but people take it to the absolute extremes. This is a low risk, high tolerable situation that can help her: 1. Deal with difficult people, 2. Understand that the real world means dealing with uncomfortable situations 3. Toughing things out.

The problem is finding a balance. People do nothing or remove everything.

I tend to coddle my kids, but this is something that's a growth experience that they can learn from. Don't deprive them of dealing with buttholes. Thats real world lessons. They're everywhere.
Posted by Slagathor
Makin' jokes about your teeny tiny
Member since Jul 2007
37889 posts
Posted on 10/6/22 at 10:43 am to
helping your child out with a temporary living situation (while they're also trying to manage a college courseload) isn't depriving her of dealing with assholes. as you said, they're everywhere.


Posted by Aspercel
Member since Jan 2009
106707 posts
Posted on 10/6/22 at 10:45 am to
Make sure they go through all the steps to remove her from the lease first. Really. I’ve seen this go bad so many times and I don’t want to see her responsible for damages they cause. She’ll probably forfeit her right to the deposit but that’s better than trusting these idiots to pay rent and not break things.
Posted by t00f
Not where you think I am
Member since Jul 2016
90552 posts
Posted on 10/6/22 at 10:46 am to
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Make sure they go through all the steps to remove her from the lease first. Really. I’ve seen this go bad so many times and I don’t want to see her responsible for damages they cause. She’ll probably forfeit her right to the deposit but that’s better than trusting these idiots to pay rent and not break things.



I know you know but this is vv good advice.
Posted by tgrbaitn08
Member since Dec 2007
146214 posts
Posted on 10/6/22 at 10:47 am to
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She had put her foot down a few months ago about picking them up from Tigerland at 2am and they’ve been pretty cold to her since.


You can always count on TB08jr to find a ride home from Tigerland.
Posted by DiamondDog
Louisiana
Member since Nov 2019
10617 posts
Posted on 10/6/22 at 10:48 am to
Women are raised so much differently then men.
Posted by Tyga Woods
South Central Jupiter Island, FL
Member since Sep 2016
30385 posts
Posted on 10/6/22 at 10:48 am to
Wyd
Posted by tgrbaitn08
Member since Dec 2007
146214 posts
Posted on 10/6/22 at 10:49 am to
quote:

Make sure they go through all the steps to remove her from the lease first. Really. I’ve seen this go bad so many times and I don’t want to see her responsible for damages they cause. She’ll probably forfeit her right to the deposit but that’s better than trusting these idiots to pay rent and not break things.

Or she can just burn the place down
Posted by Aspercel
Member since Jan 2009
106707 posts
Posted on 10/6/22 at 10:49 am to
Drinking room temp water and being a terrible person.

Wyd?
Posted by Tyga Woods
South Central Jupiter Island, FL
Member since Sep 2016
30385 posts
Posted on 10/6/22 at 10:49 am to
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tgrbaitn08


Do u know a poster by the name of realityintheface??
Posted by Tyga Woods
South Central Jupiter Island, FL
Member since Sep 2016
30385 posts
Posted on 10/6/22 at 10:50 am to
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Drinking room temp water



quote:

Wyd?


Same
Posted by Deep Purple Haze
LA
Member since Jun 2007
52236 posts
Posted on 10/6/22 at 10:52 am to
did u kick his arse yet?
Posted by dyslexiateechur
Louisiana
Member since Jan 2009
32249 posts
Posted on 10/6/22 at 10:53 am to
She entertained them for awhile because she was worried for their safety but they were definitely taking advantage.

I’m actually pretty proud of her for standing up for herself. It’s more like her to stay put in a bad situation to avoid rocking the boat.
Posted by tgrbaitn08
Member since Dec 2007
146214 posts
Posted on 10/6/22 at 10:53 am to
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Do u know a poster by the name of realityintheface??


That’s Terds alter
Posted by Slagathor
Makin' jokes about your teeny tiny
Member since Jul 2007
37889 posts
Posted on 10/6/22 at 10:53 am to
quote:

Women are raised so much differently then men


how does gender have anything to do with not letting your college student child be temporarily homeless and/or incur preventable but potentially extremely damaging financial problems?
Posted by tgrbaitn08
Member since Dec 2007
146214 posts
Posted on 10/6/22 at 10:54 am to
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did u kick his arse yet?


No he had to study and had test today so since he only has one class on Friday’s I’m going tomorrow to take him to lunch
Posted by DiamondDog
Louisiana
Member since Nov 2019
10617 posts
Posted on 10/6/22 at 10:56 am to
Because you're treating this girl like a titty baby. Her roommates suck. Welcome to college. Welcome to life.

If I would have called my old man and told him my roommates were "being mean to me", he'd have laughed as he hung up the phone.

This is female privilege. Running away from issues is now "standing up". It's not my business so I'm just going to move along.
This post was edited on 10/6/22 at 10:57 am
Posted by Aspercel
Member since Jan 2009
106707 posts
Posted on 10/6/22 at 11:00 am to
Her roommates changing the locks and ganging up is a little worse than sucking.

I’m learning so much today! Apparently I have female privilege, I am constantly on the lookout for attention from being edgy, I should have kids so my views will change, and I’m old but immature

I love this place
This post was edited on 10/6/22 at 11:04 am
Posted by t00f
Not where you think I am
Member since Jul 2016
90552 posts
Posted on 10/6/22 at 11:05 am to
You know DD is just trolling y'all, he even admitted he coddles his own kids.

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