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re: Girlfriend is bi...ish

Posted on 1/8/18 at 12:36 am to
Posted by lsunurse
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Posted on 1/8/18 at 12:36 am to
Yet you want to frick all that up so you can play out a porno fantasy?


Here is another thing to consider. What happens if she greatly regrets doing this afterwards? So much that anytime y’all have sex she thinks of that and becomes turned off from sex with you period. Then decides it would be better off to just start over with another guy so she can have a clean slate in a relationship.
This post was edited on 1/8/18 at 12:38 am
Posted by Gatorbait2008
Member since Aug 2015
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Posted on 1/8/18 at 12:37 am to
Not trash at all. But proceed with the terrible assessments of the conversation and basic things you struggle to grasp.
Posted by Gatorbait2008
Member since Aug 2015
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Posted on 1/8/18 at 12:37 am to
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Here is another thing to consider. What happens if she greatly regrets doing this afterwards? So much that anytime y’all have sex she thinks of that and becomes turned off from sex with you period. Then decides it would be better off to just start over with another guy so she can have a clean slate in a relationship.




Hmm. That last part is a good point that hasn't been mentioned yet.
Posted by tiggerthetooth
Big Momma's House
Member since Oct 2010
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Posted on 1/8/18 at 12:37 am to
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She isn't single. She lives with me. He has a father figure.



But your comments make it seem as if this is a very casual relationship that you would easily cast off without much emotional hang up. You even stated she'd probably let you sleep with another girl, which leads one to believe she doesn't have much at stake in this relationship.

I'm not saying her being cheated on makes her unstable, I'm saying with a special needs child and statistically vulnerable background, she'd be better with habits of what one might call "stable". Sleeping around and having group sex isn't stable behavior, end of story.



quote:

As for Eli. We have him in every program you can imagine. I make very good money and the kid gets a ton more than most kids. He is doing incredibly well right now.


You pay for this child's programs even though you aren't married to his mother? Do you pay the rent as well?


Posted by Gatorbait2008
Member since Aug 2015
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Posted on 1/8/18 at 12:43 am to
quote:


But your comments make it seem as if this is a very casual relationship that you would easily cast off without much emotional hang up. You even stated she'd probably let you sleep with another girl, which leads one to believe she doesn't have much at stake in this relationship.


What comment led to that conclusion? Very much in love with her. But if she cheated, it would be over. I don't do second chances for cheating. It's the ultimate betrayal of trust.


We have the same bank account. We are a couple. Our money is not each other's personal money. As for her income, she does decently. I pay most now sure, but I am older and more established. Her school is pretty brutal girl is studying constantly. I told her to quit her job but she refused. Wants to contribute.

As for the kid. His dad is a piece of shite and barely around. I've taken over that role in his life. So yes. I will do whatever I can to help this kid. He was 2 when I came into the picture. He is like a son to me. May not have my last name, but I am more of a father than his dad has ever been.
This post was edited on 1/8/18 at 12:45 am
Posted by tiggerthetooth
Big Momma's House
Member since Oct 2010
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Posted on 1/8/18 at 12:44 am to
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We have the same bank account. We are a couple. Our money is not each other's personal money. As for her income, she does decently. I pay most now sure, but I am older and more established. Her school is pretty brutal girl is studying constantly. I told her to quit her job but she refused. Wants to contribute.



There it is. I think I understand now.
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
129146 posts
Posted on 1/8/18 at 12:44 am to
Wait....y’all share a checking account and you aren’t even married?

Please tell me you are not this dumb
This post was edited on 1/8/18 at 12:46 am
Posted by S
RIP Wayde
Member since Jan 2007
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Posted on 1/8/18 at 12:45 am to
What page are the pics on?
Posted by tiggerthetooth
Big Momma's House
Member since Oct 2010
64717 posts
Posted on 1/8/18 at 12:46 am to
quote:

Wait....y’all share a checking account and you aren’t even married?

Please tell me you are not this dumb


Took awhile, but we got to the bottom of this.
Posted by Gatorbait2008
Member since Aug 2015
29754 posts
Posted on 1/8/18 at 12:47 am to
You think I'm a sugar daddy lol..my God you people are negative and see only darkness don't you.

When we first met, I wasn't very well off. I was actually struggling to keep the business afloat and could barely afford dates. If her goal was sugar daddy, I wasn't the smart choice.

You are also aware women can take care of themselves and not all care about a man's finances...correct? They aren't children needing a helping hand through life.
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
129146 posts
Posted on 1/8/18 at 12:48 am to
I gotta go to bed but I’ll check this thread when I wake up to find out what other foolish things OP has done.


This is either a really nice troll job or this guy is just fricking clueless
Posted by Gatorbait2008
Member since Aug 2015
29754 posts
Posted on 1/8/18 at 12:49 am to
quote:


Wait....y’all share a checking account and you aren’t even married?

Please tell me you are not this dumb




Yep. My business account is separate. So if she leaves and takes off with the private account she won't get but about 3k. I only put money in there when we need it. I know what I am doing.
Posted by momentoftruth87
Your mom
Member since Oct 2013
86110 posts
Posted on 1/8/18 at 12:50 am to
I certainly don't think you're a sugar daddy with how you tell us your game levels.

If you are, hook me up with that job so I can look and play on my wife's phone all day and convince here were good in our relationship that we need to have a woman go down on her.
Posted by Gatorbait2008
Member since Aug 2015
29754 posts
Posted on 1/8/18 at 12:50 am to
Nope. Seems like you need better women in your life if you think this lowly of women being responsible. Assuming she is unstable because she had a child in a marriage before proves you think very little of women overall.
Posted by momentoftruth87
Your mom
Member since Oct 2013
86110 posts
Posted on 1/8/18 at 12:50 am to
How's she pay for school?

Posted by TexasTiger08
Member since Oct 2006
30597 posts
Posted on 1/8/18 at 12:52 am to
Oh, he is that dumb.

I trudged down this road. I dated a girl for a few years. The relationship was never a ‘committed’ relationship. She was freaky, would do damn near anything. I think it was mostly because she wanted more the entire time. We tried the threesome thing. We went out, did the whole stranger at the bar bit. At some point we both had profiles on dating sites, despite the fact that we were still seeing each other.

Point is, that’s not the kind of thing you do with someone you are going to marry. If you think there’s any future with her, you don’t do this.
Posted by Gatorbait2008
Member since Aug 2015
29754 posts
Posted on 1/8/18 at 12:52 am to
Why do I keep responding to your insanely stupid post. Want to come cut trees? I'll make you a worker in March when I put the third truck back in rotation. You are from Arkansas. I'm pretty sure you can do basic manual labor well. You seem slow though. So you can get your own insurance. Insurance gets brutal for it after one incident.
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
129146 posts
Posted on 1/8/18 at 12:52 am to
You do realize I am female
Posted by Gatorbait2008
Member since Aug 2015
29754 posts
Posted on 1/8/18 at 12:53 am to
quote:



I trudged down this road. I dated a girl for a few years. The relationship was never a ‘committed’ relationship. She was freaky, would do damn near anything. I think it was mostly because she wanted more the entire time. We tried the threesome thing. We went out, did the whole stranger at the bar bit. At some point we both had profiles on dating sites, despite the fact that we were still seeing each other.

Point is, that’s not the kind of thing you do with someone you are going to marry. If you think there’s any future with her, you don’t do this.


Fair enough on the last point.
Posted by Gatorbait2008
Member since Aug 2015
29754 posts
Posted on 1/8/18 at 12:54 am to
Yes. I would guess you dislike females all the same. Assuming because she has a mentally ill kid means she is unstable and the kid is in trouble without knowing anything else is rather absurd. Just because you are a prude and don't find females attractive doesn't mean those that do are unstable.
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