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Does every romantic relationship need a purpose? Roommate seems to think so...
Posted on 1/11/16 at 2:57 pm
Posted on 1/11/16 at 2:57 pm
I was talking to a roommate earlier about my current relationship of two years. It helps me from time to time to just talk things out and see how my perceptions and feelings stack up against a third-person perspective.
A little background information on my roommate: He has a wild past and did some pretty crazy stuff up until a few months ago (massive drug use, hooking up on a regular basis, etc.). But all of that changed a few months ago.
He met some cute girl at LSU who is VERY devout in her faith. She comes from a large family and they are all very involved in their church. Somehow, this young woman managed to turn my roommate away from his 'heathen/debaucherous' ways. He got saved shortly after meeting her and has rededicated his life to praising God. Also, he is now involved in a romantic relationship with this girl after 'courting' her for about two months.
Being a devout Christian, she is obviously saving herself until marriage. My roommate says that he is okay with that and he has been honest in revealing to the girl all of his shameful exploits. According to him, she was very forgiving and more or less said, "Well, that was the old you. You have changed for the better and I only care about the current you."
I respect their relationship, though, personally, I think it's insane given how extreme his lifestyle was previously. But whatever. God bless them, and I hope it works out.
Back to me...while talking things out my roommate asks me what the purpose of my current relationship is.
I say, "What do you mean?"
He replies, "Everything in life has a purpose. Relationships are no different. For most guys, dating is just an outlet for busting a nut unless you plan on getting married."
I get a little pissed and say, "Well, I don't know what the 'purpose' of our relationship is, but it's more than just getting my dick wet. What's the 'purpose' of your relationship?"
Without hesitating he responds, "To glorify God."
And at that point I realized the conversation wasn't going to amount to anything worthwhile.
So what does the OT think? Do all relationships have a purpose? Obviously, if you are married then your purpose is often related to your children, but what about non-married couples?
A little background information on my roommate: He has a wild past and did some pretty crazy stuff up until a few months ago (massive drug use, hooking up on a regular basis, etc.). But all of that changed a few months ago.
He met some cute girl at LSU who is VERY devout in her faith. She comes from a large family and they are all very involved in their church. Somehow, this young woman managed to turn my roommate away from his 'heathen/debaucherous' ways. He got saved shortly after meeting her and has rededicated his life to praising God. Also, he is now involved in a romantic relationship with this girl after 'courting' her for about two months.
Being a devout Christian, she is obviously saving herself until marriage. My roommate says that he is okay with that and he has been honest in revealing to the girl all of his shameful exploits. According to him, she was very forgiving and more or less said, "Well, that was the old you. You have changed for the better and I only care about the current you."
I respect their relationship, though, personally, I think it's insane given how extreme his lifestyle was previously. But whatever. God bless them, and I hope it works out.
Back to me...while talking things out my roommate asks me what the purpose of my current relationship is.
I say, "What do you mean?"
He replies, "Everything in life has a purpose. Relationships are no different. For most guys, dating is just an outlet for busting a nut unless you plan on getting married."
I get a little pissed and say, "Well, I don't know what the 'purpose' of our relationship is, but it's more than just getting my dick wet. What's the 'purpose' of your relationship?"
Without hesitating he responds, "To glorify God."
And at that point I realized the conversation wasn't going to amount to anything worthwhile.
So what does the OT think? Do all relationships have a purpose? Obviously, if you are married then your purpose is often related to your children, but what about non-married couples?
Posted on 1/11/16 at 2:58 pm to saint amant steve
Sometimes the purpose is to get balls deep.
Posted on 1/11/16 at 2:58 pm to saint amant steve
quote:
Do all relationships have a purpose?
quote:
busting a nut
Posted on 1/11/16 at 2:59 pm to saint amant steve
pics of roommates gf to know if it is even worth responding
Posted on 1/11/16 at 2:59 pm to saint amant steve
That's a lot of text.
Posted on 1/11/16 at 3:00 pm to saint amant steve
Why in the hell do people come to the OT for love advice?
Posted on 1/11/16 at 3:00 pm to saint amant steve
quote:He'll relapse soon. Very rarely do people actually change.
He met some cute girl at LSU who is VERY devout in her faith. She comes from a large family and they are all very involved in their church. Somehow, this young woman managed to turn my roommate away from his 'heathen/debaucherous' ways. He got saved shortly after meeting her and has rededicated his life to praising God. Also, he is now involved in a romantic relationship with this girl after 'courting' her for about two months.
Being a devout Christian, she is obviously saving herself until marriage. My roommate says that he is okay with that and he has been honest in revealing to the girl all of his shameful exploits. According to him, she was very forgiving and more or less said, "Well, that was the old you. You have changed for the better and I only care about the current you."
Posted on 1/11/16 at 3:00 pm to saint tiger225
What year did she graduate from Dunham?
Posted on 1/11/16 at 3:01 pm to saint amant steve
Who cares what he does in his life? How is it any of your business?
This post was edited on 1/11/16 at 3:03 pm
Posted on 1/11/16 at 3:01 pm to saint amant steve
Get a new roommate.
Posted on 1/11/16 at 3:01 pm to saint amant steve
Just throw a bunch of whatever your roommate used to do at him every time he talks to you about it until he reverts back to his old ways.
Posted on 1/11/16 at 3:03 pm to JBeam
quote:
He'll relapse soon.
I think so too. I think most of this lifestyle change has stemmed from him veering so far in one direction that it was only natural for him to swing equally far back in the opposite direction.
I'm pulling for him, but it's hard to imagine that he can undergo such a severe change at 19.
Posted on 1/11/16 at 3:04 pm to saint amant steve
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at 19.
Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
Posted on 1/11/16 at 3:04 pm to fisherbm1112
if only your roommate knew what mother theresa did before she got saved... she probably could suck the chrome off a trailer hitch. While he volunteered all of his "exploits" I bet she didnt say a word
Posted on 1/11/16 at 3:05 pm to lsuwontonwrap
quote:
Who cares what he does in his life? How is it any of your business?
My concern isn't with his life. My concern is with him implicitly criticizing my relationship just because I don't intend to marry the girl or glorify God through our relationship.
His life choices are amusing, but I'm not going to critique him or his lifestyle.
This post was edited on 1/11/16 at 3:20 pm
Posted on 1/11/16 at 3:07 pm to saint amant steve
I wouldn't associate with him anymore if he is going to preach and look down at you.
Posted on 1/11/16 at 3:07 pm to saint amant steve
quote:Wow...
I'm pulling for him, but it's hard to imagine that he can undergo such a severe change at 19.
His new lifestyle won't last long. I really thought you would say your roommate was 25-30 range
Posted on 1/11/16 at 3:07 pm to saint amant steve
He sounds like a brainwashed idiot. How hot is the girl?
Posted on 1/11/16 at 3:07 pm to gatorguru
quote:
if only your roommate knew what mother theresa did before she got saved... she probably could suck the chrome off a trailer hitch. While he volunteered all of his "exploits" I bet she didnt say a word
I get the impression that she very well might be white as the driven snow. She seems pretty genuine.
It's a shame, because she's pretty attractive.
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