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re: Do I Have To Tell My Fiancé If A Former GF Wants To Meet Up With Me?
Posted on 3/26/19 at 11:56 pm to 50_Tiger
Posted on 3/26/19 at 11:56 pm to 50_Tiger
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Ex GF that I maintain sparse communication with is coming to town for a conference and has asked to meet up with me for dinner.
WHy?
"It's yo baby"
Posted on 3/27/19 at 12:23 am to LuckyTiger
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frick it. I’ll tell her it’s not a good idea.
Then I’ll have to listen to her questions asking me why and accusations that fiancé is insecure, why wouldn’t she trust me, blah blah blah.
I’ll just tell her it’s my decision and that’s the end of it. Then she will accuse me of still wanting her, Of not being able to trust myself around her, etc.
Which is nothing to do with reality. That’s why a part of me wants to meet her. To show her that there is nothing to it.
Tell her the relationship experts on the OT have advised you to not meet... unless you will PIIHB then it's not cheating
Posted on 3/27/19 at 12:31 am to LuckyTiger
Change "dinner" to "coffee" and you may make it out of this alive.
Posted on 3/27/19 at 12:43 am to LuckyTiger
You're not married, do what you want. Once you're married that meet up won't fly.
Posted on 3/27/19 at 1:08 am to LuckyTiger
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LuckyTiger
I feel really bad for your "fiancé" if this is a serious question.
A secret dinner date with your EX while your fiancé is out of town is dumb as hell. If you really cared you would say no and cut complete communication off. Shut it down.
This post was edited on 3/27/19 at 1:10 am
Posted on 3/27/19 at 1:30 am to LuckyTiger
Make sure to raw dog ex for maximum drama effect 9montbs from now.
Posted on 3/27/19 at 2:15 am to LuckyTiger
Let's say you do (stupidly) meet her for dinner. Are you paying for both of y'all or going dutch? Are you getting drinks after? What's your game plan?
Posted on 3/27/19 at 2:20 am to LuckyTiger
Also, if you do meet up with the ex, you better pray to God she doesn't get a wild hair and decide to tell your fiance just to stir up shite.
Posted on 3/27/19 at 5:58 am to tommy2tone1999
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Ask yourself how you'd feel if your fiance' did the same thing without telling you, how would you react?
She probably is...hence why she is going "out of town".
Posted on 3/27/19 at 6:14 am to LSUERDOC
Helpful hint: if you say a word to her about your ex, her given name is 'that crazy bitch'; that way, any discussion you have regarding her (which is generally a bad idea, but if you are determined to) starts with you being on Currents side. Never appear to waiver in that, and for your sake, never try to be even handed in the conversation. That will work out like telling a woman to be calm.
Posted on 3/27/19 at 6:18 am to LuckyTiger
If nothing is going to happen, why in the world would you have dinner?
Posted on 3/27/19 at 6:53 am to Dawgholio
Maybe the Ex is a step up from his current gf. Maybe she dumped him years ago and he's hoping she's realized her "mistake." He already said he's dragged this engagement out. Clearly he doesn't want to get married but is too much of a puss to call it off. A secret dinner with an ex that the current gf finds out about is a great way to sabotage. Plus he might get lucky.
Posted on 3/27/19 at 7:16 am to Scooba
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I laugh every time some dude on here says he has a fiancé.
I had a fiancé once
Posted on 3/27/19 at 7:19 am to 777Tiger
The fact that you don't trust your fiancé with knowing about this because it will create drama means you shouldn't be marrying someone.
Posted on 3/27/19 at 7:26 am to LuckyTiger
This is one of the dumbest posts I've seen on here in awhile
Posted on 3/27/19 at 7:28 am to LuckyTiger
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Paige
Once again a voice of reason and integrity in the OT.
A real woman.
Tryna get a different dinner date set up for this weekend baw?
Posted on 3/27/19 at 7:33 am to LuckyTiger
this boy eat up with dumbass.
Posted on 3/27/19 at 7:35 am to LuckyTiger
Ah, the joy of having a fiance at 20 years old. At least you sound like you're in your early 20's with this childish immature thread.
You can easily turn this around if you post pics of the ex-GF or soon-to-be ex-fiance.
You can easily turn this around if you post pics of the ex-GF or soon-to-be ex-fiance.
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