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re: Divorced members of the OT

Posted on 5/19/16 at 12:22 pm to
Posted by jvilletiger25
jacksonville, fl
Member since Jan 2014
19206 posts
Posted on 5/19/16 at 12:22 pm to
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I assume you mean with no kids involved?



No, we have two kids together. I pay for everything for them and pay her child support.
Posted by tke857
Member since Jan 2012
12195 posts
Posted on 5/19/16 at 12:23 pm to
Financially - depends on how much she took you for

Emotionally - I guess it depends on the circumstances. Did she leave you for someone else?
Posted by terriblegreen
Souf Badden Rewage
Member since Aug 2011
11320 posts
Posted on 5/19/16 at 12:23 pm to
Did we ever get closure on dbeck's situation? What's the latest? Is he still banging that nasty slut?
Posted by Count Chocula
Tier 5 and proud
Member since Feb 2009
63908 posts
Posted on 5/19/16 at 12:25 pm to
He went silent after SFP put the atomic drop move on him.
Posted by tke857
Member since Jan 2012
12195 posts
Posted on 5/19/16 at 12:25 pm to
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No, we have two kids together. I pay for everything for them and pay her child support.



Yeah this hurts. Does she work and is just not working bc youre paying for everything? If shes capable and you can prove she is capable of working she should be contributing and you should not have 100% of financial burden.
Posted by dbeck
Member since Nov 2014
29454 posts
Posted on 5/19/16 at 12:27 pm to
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Did we ever get closure on dbeck's situation? What's the latest? Is he still banging that nasty slut?

I'm still banging her.

Apparently he drove by and threw a rock at the window yesterday so she called him at work and informed him she's starting the restraining order process. I'll update my thread when something worth posting happens.
Posted by jvilletiger25
jacksonville, fl
Member since Jan 2014
19206 posts
Posted on 5/19/16 at 12:28 pm to
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Does she work and is just not working bc youre paying for everything? If shes capable and you can prove she is capable of working she should be contributing and you should not have 100% of financial burden.



Yes, she does work and has a marketing degree. She is just a narcissist and was good at manipulating me with guilt. I recently refilled the paperwork though, so she'll be having to pay for at least some of the daycare soon.
Posted by Titus Pullo
MTDGA
Member since Feb 2011
28567 posts
Posted on 5/19/16 at 12:28 pm to
Damn I always miss the fricking backstories.
Posted by BabyTac
Austin, TX
Member since Jun 2008
14547 posts
Posted on 5/19/16 at 12:28 pm to
Only reason I'll never get married again. Luckily the first time we were young, didn't have much, and just went our separate ways. Divorce rates for second marriages are close to 70%. I'm too old and have too much to lose to play those odds.
Posted by dbeck
Member since Nov 2014
29454 posts
Posted on 5/19/16 at 12:30 pm to
LINK
Fixed it
This post was edited on 5/19/16 at 12:31 pm
Posted by Titus Pullo
MTDGA
Member since Feb 2011
28567 posts
Posted on 5/19/16 at 12:30 pm to
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She is just a narcissist and was good at manipulating me with guilt.


In other words you're still in love. Shitty situation bud.
Posted by GeauxxxTigers23
TeamBunt General Manager
Member since Apr 2013
62514 posts
Posted on 5/19/16 at 12:30 pm to
These threads always depress me
Posted by tke857
Member since Jan 2012
12195 posts
Posted on 5/19/16 at 12:31 pm to
good. women think they are entitled everything when in a divorce its really not true.
Posted by Wtodd
Tampa, FL
Member since Oct 2013
68191 posts
Posted on 5/19/16 at 12:31 pm to
quote:

financial

About 9 months
quote:

emotional

About 6 months; 1 day I woke up and out loud I said "frick her" and that was it.
Posted by SlowFlowPro
Simple Solutions to Complex Probs
Member since Jan 2004
452474 posts
Posted on 5/19/16 at 12:33 pm to
quote:

These threads always depress me

me too

one the one hand, i'm already in a bad mood

on the other hand, i don't think any hole i'm in is THIS big

the worst are messy divorces that become expensive where kids aren't involved. you didn't even produce a legacy out of the marriage except debt. this movie should be required viewing for teens (esp males)

Posted by Bunk Moreland
Member since Dec 2010
62924 posts
Posted on 5/19/16 at 12:35 pm to
I feel the worst for the guys who supported stay at home moms and get taken to the cleaners so they can pay for her to go to the gym and get fricked by the pool boy while the kids are in school.
This post was edited on 5/19/16 at 12:36 pm
Posted by Tiger Ryno
#WoF
Member since Feb 2007
105870 posts
Posted on 5/19/16 at 12:35 pm to
Most all divorces are directly related to the woman just deciding she isn't happy. I have tons of friends who are divorced and only one case I know of was related to the husband cheating.
Posted by YouAre8Up
in a house
Member since Mar 2011
12792 posts
Posted on 5/19/16 at 12:36 pm to
You will never fully feel recovered until the final child support payment is made. The other stuff took me about 10 years to catch back up.

I feel for you man. It's not easy but the road from here on out isn't impossible to make either.
Posted by Paul Allen
Montauk, NY
Member since Nov 2007
77263 posts
Posted on 5/19/16 at 12:37 pm to
quote:

are directly related to the woman just deciding she isn't happy


Yet we are told its due to money arguments.
Posted by tke857
Member since Jan 2012
12195 posts
Posted on 5/19/16 at 12:38 pm to
you just need to find a good woman who is supportive and one that is good with the kids.

p.s. if she likes giving BJs thats a huge plus too
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