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re: Divorced members of the OT
Posted on 5/19/16 at 12:22 pm to Boudreaux35
Posted on 5/19/16 at 12:22 pm to Boudreaux35
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I assume you mean with no kids involved?
No, we have two kids together. I pay for everything for them and pay her child support.
Posted on 5/19/16 at 12:23 pm to jvilletiger25
Financially - depends on how much she took you for
Emotionally - I guess it depends on the circumstances. Did she leave you for someone else?
Emotionally - I guess it depends on the circumstances. Did she leave you for someone else?
Posted on 5/19/16 at 12:23 pm to dbeck
Did we ever get closure on dbeck's situation? What's the latest? Is he still banging that nasty slut?
Posted on 5/19/16 at 12:25 pm to terriblegreen
He went silent after SFP put the atomic drop move on him.
Posted on 5/19/16 at 12:25 pm to jvilletiger25
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No, we have two kids together. I pay for everything for them and pay her child support.
Yeah this hurts. Does she work and is just not working bc youre paying for everything? If shes capable and you can prove she is capable of working she should be contributing and you should not have 100% of financial burden.
Posted on 5/19/16 at 12:27 pm to terriblegreen
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Did we ever get closure on dbeck's situation? What's the latest? Is he still banging that nasty slut?
I'm still banging her.
Apparently he drove by and threw a rock at the window yesterday so she called him at work and informed him she's starting the restraining order process. I'll update my thread when something worth posting happens.
Posted on 5/19/16 at 12:28 pm to tke857
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Does she work and is just not working bc youre paying for everything? If shes capable and you can prove she is capable of working she should be contributing and you should not have 100% of financial burden.
Yes, she does work and has a marketing degree. She is just a narcissist and was good at manipulating me with guilt. I recently refilled the paperwork though, so she'll be having to pay for at least some of the daycare soon.
Posted on 5/19/16 at 12:28 pm to dbeck
Damn I always miss the fricking backstories.
Posted on 5/19/16 at 12:28 pm to jvilletiger25
Only reason I'll never get married again. Luckily the first time we were young, didn't have much, and just went our separate ways. Divorce rates for second marriages are close to 70%. I'm too old and have too much to lose to play those odds.
Posted on 5/19/16 at 12:30 pm to Titus Pullo
Posted on 5/19/16 at 12:30 pm to jvilletiger25
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She is just a narcissist and was good at manipulating me with guilt.
In other words you're still in love. Shitty situation bud.
Posted on 5/19/16 at 12:30 pm to Titus Pullo
These threads always depress me
Posted on 5/19/16 at 12:31 pm to jvilletiger25
good. women think they are entitled everything when in a divorce its really not true.
Posted on 5/19/16 at 12:31 pm to jvilletiger25
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financial
About 9 months
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emotional
About 6 months; 1 day I woke up and out loud I said "frick her" and that was it.
Posted on 5/19/16 at 12:33 pm to GeauxxxTigers23
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These threads always depress me
me too
one the one hand, i'm already in a bad mood
on the other hand, i don't think any hole i'm in is THIS big
the worst are messy divorces that become expensive where kids aren't involved. you didn't even produce a legacy out of the marriage except debt. this movie should be required viewing for teens (esp males)

Posted on 5/19/16 at 12:35 pm to GeauxxxTigers23
I feel the worst for the guys who supported stay at home moms and get taken to the cleaners so they can pay for her to go to the gym and get fricked by the pool boy while the kids are in school.
This post was edited on 5/19/16 at 12:36 pm
Posted on 5/19/16 at 12:35 pm to SlowFlowPro
Most all divorces are directly related to the woman just deciding she isn't happy. I have tons of friends who are divorced and only one case I know of was related to the husband cheating.
Posted on 5/19/16 at 12:36 pm to jvilletiger25
You will never fully feel recovered until the final child support payment is made. The other stuff took me about 10 years to catch back up.
I feel for you man. It's not easy but the road from here on out isn't impossible to make either.
I feel for you man. It's not easy but the road from here on out isn't impossible to make either.
Posted on 5/19/16 at 12:37 pm to Tiger Ryno
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are directly related to the woman just deciding she isn't happy
Yet we are told its due to money arguments.
Posted on 5/19/16 at 12:38 pm to YouAre8Up
you just need to find a good woman who is supportive and one that is good with the kids.
p.s. if she likes giving BJs thats a huge plus too
p.s. if she likes giving BJs thats a huge plus too
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