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re: Christmas step parenting Q... am i wrong?
Posted on 12/26/18 at 12:48 pm to HoustonsTiger
Posted on 12/26/18 at 12:48 pm to HoustonsTiger
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But that isn't the question I was asking...
It wasn't the question you were asking, but it was the question you were asking.
If you know what I mean.
Posted on 12/26/18 at 12:48 pm to Mo Jeaux
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. Why should he be expected to put them first.
She wasn't asking for him to step in front of a bullet for them. If he is serious about her he has to be serious about them...the kids are the biggest part of this woman's life. A simple smile and "that's awesome" would've sufficed
Posted on 12/26/18 at 12:48 pm to HoustonsTiger
You should have said. It's great your kids can look past the fact he is a deadbeat loser.
Then you should have PIIHB
Then you should have PIIHB
Posted on 12/26/18 at 12:49 pm to HoustonsTiger
Just the fact that you’re willing to date a chick with two frick trophy’s following her around proves you aren’t selfish
Posted on 12/26/18 at 12:49 pm to SunsetTiger
Thank you for an insightful response.
I am not naive to how difficult the situation as a whole will be. We just made it through little league season where everyone was pleasant and neutral at the games.
Just felt like I should have some veto power over this specific thing on this specific morning.
Alot of co-parenting / ex related things are unavoidable. I get it. This just didn't seem to be one of them...
I am not naive to how difficult the situation as a whole will be. We just made it through little league season where everyone was pleasant and neutral at the games.
Just felt like I should have some veto power over this specific thing on this specific morning.
Alot of co-parenting / ex related things are unavoidable. I get it. This just didn't seem to be one of them...
Posted on 12/26/18 at 12:50 pm to HoustonsTiger
quote:Was it hours worth of videos or, more likely, less than 1 minute's worth?
Why is it an issue that I don't want to spend my morning watching these videos and enjoy my Christmas?
Posted on 12/26/18 at 12:50 pm to Tyga Woods
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She wasn't asking for him to step in front of a bullet for them. If he is serious about her he has to be serious about them...the kids are the biggest part of this woman's life. A simple smile and "that's awesome" would've sufficed
Oh Jesus.

Posted on 12/26/18 at 12:50 pm to HoustonsTiger
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She puts the phone in my face and tells me ‘look how happy they are!’ To which I reply ‘i would rather not watch videos of your ex husband on my Christmas morning, but great they are having a good time’.
Well that was stupid
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been dating a woman about 1.5 years who has 2 kids from her previous marriage
Ah you already know that then
Posted on 12/26/18 at 12:51 pm to HoustonsTiger
I "get it", but you have been aware of this little set-up you've parlayed yourself into for awhile now.
You should have watched and put on a show for the bitch, and you would have dealt with nothing more than a great day like you wanted.
It sounds like you are in a relationship of convenience. You have far too many more Christmas' etc in your future with this bunch, as well as a million other "milestones" you'll have to share with the ex-husband. Get out now and start fricking someone else without kids.
You should have watched and put on a show for the bitch, and you would have dealt with nothing more than a great day like you wanted.
It sounds like you are in a relationship of convenience. You have far too many more Christmas' etc in your future with this bunch, as well as a million other "milestones" you'll have to share with the ex-husband. Get out now and start fricking someone else without kids.
Posted on 12/26/18 at 12:51 pm to HoustonsTiger
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I am not naive to how difficult the situation as a whole will be. We just made it through little league season where everyone was pleasant and neutral at the games.
Just felt like I should have some veto power over this specific thing on this specific morning.
Alot of co-parenting / ex related things are unavoidable. I get it. This just didn't seem to be one of them...
Why is she worth all of this?
Posted on 12/26/18 at 12:51 pm to HoustonsTiger
Dude, you’ve stepped in it. Six months at least before she lets you touch her tits again.
Posted on 12/26/18 at 12:51 pm to HoustonsTiger
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Why is it an issue that I don't want to spend my morning watching these videos and enjoy my Christmas?
Why the hell would I want to spend some of my Christmas on speaker phone with my MIL?? But I do...because my wife does. It's important to her, and we share our lives.... see what I'm getting at here.
Posted on 12/26/18 at 12:52 pm to PearlJam
It was several videos, all about 1 minute long.
Figured if I didn't politely say I would rather not watch I'd be in line for all of them.
Figured if I didn't politely say I would rather not watch I'd be in line for all of them.
Posted on 12/26/18 at 12:52 pm to Mo Jeaux
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Oh Jesus. Why the hell would he be serious about her?
Dating her for 1.5yrs and referring to himself as a 'step parent" even though they aren't married

Posted on 12/26/18 at 12:53 pm to HoustonsTiger
quote:you have approximately zero game.
To which I reply ‘i would rather not watch videos of your ex husband on my Christmas morning, but great they are having a good time’.
Posted on 12/26/18 at 12:53 pm to scott8811
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Why the hell would I want to spend some of my Christmas on speaker phone with my MIL?? But I do...because my wife does. It's important to her, and we share our lives.... see what I'm getting at here.
Yes, I see. It's an imprecise analogy. Most women will have a mother in the picture. That's generally unavoidable. A woman with an ex-husband and two young children is something completely different.
Posted on 12/26/18 at 12:54 pm to HoustonsTiger
I'd need to see pics of said woman before determining just how wrong you were.
Posted on 12/26/18 at 12:54 pm to HoustonsTiger
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Her ex ...... she despises and usually doesn’t have much good to say about.
Imagine that!
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She puts the phone in my face and tells me ‘look how happy they are!’
Honestly, did she really say those words? Oh, BTW, you know you gotta one-up the ex on gifts, right? You ARE getting them Xmas gifts, right?
Oh, and I am pretty sure you hit "submit" before you attached the Xmas photos of your slut.
Posted on 12/26/18 at 12:54 pm to HoustonsTiger
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It was several videos, all about 1 minute long.
So less than 5 minutes.
Man...you are bad at this game. That’s a little battle you concede, get brownie points, probably could have snagged a Christmas blowjob and cum down her chimney.
How many 5 minutes increments do you waste in a day...and now you look like an a-hole.
Posted on 12/26/18 at 12:54 pm to HoustonsTiger
So at the end of it, your poor eyes had to suffer at least some of a video of her ex, and you pissed her off.
I don't care about the ex and step kid aspect of it all, it sounds like you were wrong, if your goal was a happy day without having to see a video of her ex.
I don't care about the ex and step kid aspect of it all, it sounds like you were wrong, if your goal was a happy day without having to see a video of her ex.
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