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re: At what point do you introduce your children into a relationship?
Posted on 4/16/16 at 3:37 pm to BluegrassBelle
Posted on 4/16/16 at 3:37 pm to BluegrassBelle
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2. How fricked up in the head will these kids get with all the strange men moving in and out?
Hope their dad is around too and stable. If there is a daughter in these two kids? She will be dancing on a pole in BR in 12-15 years. Thats best case scenario.
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Posted on 4/16/16 at 3:40 pm to Brian12
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She sounds classy. Do the two children have different fathers?
Sadly, yes.
This post was edited on 4/16/16 at 3:41 pm
Posted on 4/16/16 at 3:55 pm to Barrister
My real dad dated/remarried a few people while I was between the ages of 12-18. He normally waited a few months I would guess. While I was younger I would build a relationship with the person and it was kinda awkward if they broke up. Once I reached 16 or so idgaf anymore and didn't really become close with any of them. I guess it depends on the age of the kids, the younger they are the more affect the new partner will have.
Posted on 4/16/16 at 3:59 pm to trom83
It's best to bring your kids on every first date.
Posted on 4/16/16 at 4:03 pm to LSU alum wannabe
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Hope their dad is around too and stable. If there is a daughter in these two kids? She will be dancing on a pole in BR in 12-15 years. Thats best case scenario.
Honestly, women like the OP described are the same women who are crying on the news when their "wonderful boyfriend" of a couple weeks abuses their kids or worse. And they spout off about how he never "showed anything like that" in the little bit of time they knew him.
Well of course you didn't see anything. Your arse was so desperate for the next baby daddy that you didn't care whether he was good for your kids or not.
Posted on 4/16/16 at 4:39 pm to BluegrassBelle
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Honestly, women like the OP described are the same women who are crying on the news when their "wonderful boyfriend" of a couple weeks abuses their kids or worse. And they spout off about how he never "showed anything like that" in the little bit of time they knew him
Victim shaming. How edgy and brave you are.
Posted on 4/16/16 at 4:48 pm to Stacked
Why wouldn't I shame a woman who had so little regard for her kids that she wouldn't fully vet a guy before she allows them around them?
This post was edited on 4/16/16 at 4:50 pm
Posted on 4/16/16 at 4:55 pm to BluegrassBelle
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Why wouldn't I shame a woman who had so little regard for her kids that she wouldn't fully vet a guy before she allows them around them
Because you're a normal human and blame the crime on the person who committed it instead of all the people who could've prevented it?
Posted on 4/16/16 at 5:01 pm to Stacked
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Because you're a normal human and blame the crime on the person who committed it instead of all the people who could've prevented it?
So a woman who knowingly allows men around her children that are questionable because she's desperate for dick shouldn't be called on being a neglectful parent?
Something like 20% of child abuse cases are at the hands of live-in boyfriends or step-fathers. Allowing some random guy to move in after a couple of weeks and then acting surprised when shady shite goes down is just as much on the mother as it is the boyfriend doing the abusing IMO.
Posted on 4/16/16 at 5:04 pm to trom83
It's took six months before my two kids met my girlfriend at the time. We both wanted to make sure our relationship was serious enough for them to be introduced.
Four years later we got married
One of the most convincing things about my relationship with her was how that first night meeting the children went. My kids fell in love with her just as much as I had fallen in love with her. That was huge for me.
Four years later we got married
One of the most convincing things about my relationship with her was how that first night meeting the children went. My kids fell in love with her just as much as I had fallen in love with her. That was huge for me.
Posted on 4/16/16 at 5:04 pm to trom83
When their momma gives birth? 
Posted on 4/16/16 at 5:08 pm to trom83
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1. At what point does a parent introduce their children into a relationship?
2. How fricked up in the head will these kids get with all the strange m
1. If you divorce, keep any dating out of you children's lives until your youngest child is 18. They didn't ask for that life.
2. They'll either end up SJWs or on the pole.
Posted on 4/16/16 at 5:14 pm to BluegrassBelle
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So a woman who knowingly allows men around her children that are questionable because she's desperate for dick shouldn't be called on being a neglectful parent?
Something like 20% of child abuse cases are at the hands of live-in boyfriends or step-fathers. Allowing some random guy to move in after a couple of weeks and then acting surprised when shady shite goes down is just as much on the mother as it is the boyfriend doing the abusing IMO.
I know you're a girl and have a hard time not exaggerating everything but how about you quiet down and let the reasonable men talk now. You have two ears, but one mouth. Remember that.
Posted on 4/16/16 at 5:16 pm to Stacked
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I know you're a girl and have a hard time not exaggerating everything but how about you quiet down and let the reasonable men talk now. You have two ears, but one mouth. Remember that.
Awwww, poor Stacked. What's wrong? The OT won't buy into your obsession with me because most reasonable people would agree with my opinion.
Go back to the Rant with your obsession. Nobody cares about that here.
Posted on 4/16/16 at 5:22 pm to LSU alum wannabe
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hope their dad is around and stable
My ex is a drama queen my kids now all teens know this. They love my drama free life and know they are always welcome when mom flips the freak out.
Posted on 4/16/16 at 5:23 pm to Stacked
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girl and have a hard time not exaggerating everything but how about you quiet down and let the reasonable men talk now. You have two ears, but one mouth. Remember that.
I'm a man. I find your argument to be completely ignorant.
Posted on 4/16/16 at 5:26 pm to BluegrassBelle
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What's wrong? The OT won't buy into your obsession with me because most reasonable people would agree with my opinion.
Does telling you to quiet down come off as me being obsessed with you? I'm flattered and while it's weird you perceive that as affection, I'm really just trying to keep you from embarrassing yourself any more than you already do. Take the help or don't. But seriously, take the help.
Posted on 4/16/16 at 5:27 pm to Stacked
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Does telling you to quiet down come off as me being obsessed with you?
It comes across as immature to me.
Posted on 4/16/16 at 5:30 pm to trom83
RA'd for child molestation.
Acreboy
Acreboy
Posted on 4/16/16 at 5:34 pm to The First Cut
That's because you're not aware of her being a serial liar who looks only for the acceptance and elbow rubbing of online men, as well as the ever elusive but always welcome playful back and forth with a man that makes her feel like the woman she technically is.
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