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re: At what age does it become inappropriate to shower with your child?

Posted on 10/3/14 at 6:34 pm to
Posted by BayouBandit24
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Posted on 10/3/14 at 6:34 pm to
The better question is at what age does getting a boner while showering with your child becomes inappropriate
Posted by fr33manator
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Posted on 10/3/14 at 7:01 pm to
I mean...I wouldn't be comfortable with it...but we're talking about American sensibilities and and I can understand them...I just think they are a bit overblown.

I guess I just don't like putting the hard and fast labels of "that's inappropriate" when in lots of places in the world it isn't that big of a deal.


I just think we make nudity far more sexualized and more of a big deal than it is.


There's something to be said for middle ground.

But showering with a pubescent daughter should naturally feel wrong...IMO.

Posted by cwill
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Posted on 10/3/14 at 7:05 pm to
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Posted by jmcs68
If they can stand on two feet, you shouldn't be showering with them. Let them take a bath solo. JMO



You obviously don't have kids if you think a 1 yr old can shower or bath solo.

This thread is a perfect example of how much the 24 he news cycle has created a country full of retards that think everything is pedophilia or there is more pedophelia than in the past. There isn't.
Posted by Festus
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Posted on 10/3/14 at 7:08 pm to
In a perfect world, there would never be pedophilia or incest. Unfortunately, what "should" naturally feel wrong doesn't to some.

What the OP is asking is a valid question, and should be talked about. And those that believe there are boundaries that come into play at some point when showering with their children shouldn't be automatically labeled as prudes... IMO.
Posted by fr33manator
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Posted on 10/3/14 at 7:09 pm to
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This thread is a perfect example of how much the 24 he news cycle has created a country full of retards that think everything is pedophilia or there is more pedophelia than in the past. There isn't.



Yup. These days if kids got filthy and parents made them strip in the yard and hosed them off they'd probably be labeled a sex offender.
This post was edited on 10/3/14 at 7:10 pm
Posted by WoWyHi
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Posted on 10/3/14 at 7:10 pm to
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And that, of course, is the most no shite sherlock answer I could muster


Posted by jmcs68
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Posted on 10/3/14 at 7:10 pm to
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You obviously don't have kids if you think a 1 yr old can shower or bath solo


Obviously I meant with adult supervision. And by supervision don't mean you joining them. Just keeping an eye on them



And why would a 1 year old need to shower? Is a tub not available?
This post was edited on 10/3/14 at 7:13 pm
Posted by TH03
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Posted on 10/3/14 at 7:10 pm to
we're talking about showering with your own kids, not kids you pick up in the candy can, festus
Posted by Paige
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Posted on 10/3/14 at 7:11 pm to
Never showered with my son

Why would you?
Posted by fr33manator
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Posted on 10/3/14 at 7:12 pm to
I'm more talking about the people saying "taking your 5 year old in the shower!? What's wrong with you!?"


Obviously there are some boundaries but those should be situational. All I'm saying is that it's not the nudity that is inherently bad.
Posted by Festus
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Posted on 10/3/14 at 7:12 pm to
Hey, as long as I convince the kids that if feels natural, what's the problem, you prude f*ck?
Posted by TH03
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Posted on 10/3/14 at 7:14 pm to
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Hey, as long as I convince the kids that if feels natural, what's the problem, you prude f*ck?


I'm reporting your to darth. you'll have to answer to the ball peen, you sick frick
Posted by Paige
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Posted on 10/3/14 at 7:14 pm to
shite you are ridiculous

Yes you will be naked in front of your toddlers. But I'm speaking to someone who is disgusted that I get naked in front of my fricking dog
Posted by fr33manator
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Posted on 10/3/14 at 7:15 pm to
I think it's much more common with fathers and sons...not sure why everyone is jumping to the teenage daughter and daddy scenario. Most bizarre and unlikely really.


Posted by QuietTiger
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Posted on 10/3/14 at 7:15 pm to
I do remember being bathed, but I was solo in the water. Different times I guess, thankfully.
Posted by Festus
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Posted on 10/3/14 at 7:16 pm to
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I'm more talking about the people saying "taking your 5 year old in the shower!? What's wrong with you!?"


Obviously there are some boundaries but those should be situational. All I'm saying is that it's not the nudity that is inherently bad.

That's all I was trying to get you to understand.

But go back and read your initial post to the OP. The question was very specific to what age is showering with your child in appropriate, and you went off about everyone else being prudes. Nobody ever said anything about nudity being inherently bad.
Posted by jmcs68
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Posted on 10/3/14 at 7:17 pm to
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I do remember being bathed, but I was solo in the water. Different times I guess, thankfully



I thought this was the norm.
Still do.
Posted by Festus
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Posted on 10/3/14 at 7:17 pm to
Bend over and prepare for the mudchecking, baby boy.
Posted by Paige
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Posted on 10/3/14 at 7:18 pm to
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re: At what age does it become inappropriate to shower with your child?
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hard and fast
Posted by fr33manator
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Posted on 10/3/14 at 7:18 pm to
You know I'm hyperbolic festy...I don't mean nuthin by it...shucks.



But I fall on the side of, no harm, no foul.
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